Female invites male to watch strippers, appropriate or not?

bfin:

<span class=keyword_link><a href=/resources/skills/finance/going-concern>Going Concern</a></span>:

bankerella:

Going Concern:

If a girl is leading the charge it would seem a little odd to me, I don't understand how it could be entertaining for a girl

Right, because all girls are 100% straight, heterosexual all the time, all the way. Thanks for the reminder.

Ah, I see. So I take it you bat for both teams?

....Did you go to college in the US? I don't know a girl that hasn't at least made out with a girl, what do you think goes on at these girls nights and hang outs.

1: Look at all the guys drawing the line between "would date" and "wouldn't date" without being asked. Who ever said the chicks we're discussing were even available? I guarantee you, I had already friendzoned or workzoned all the guys I ever asked to strip clubs (unless we were already in a relationship). Going to clubs together helps make that zone more comfortable for those few who are still lusting.

2: To the above point about girl parties. Eh... partially true. IMO, girls don't get together in big groups to play those sorts of games, at least not post-adolescence. If two girls at a hen night were off in the corner going at it, it would be weird. But it is true that girls are way more relaxed about these things than dudes. Look at GoingConcern -- got his undies in a twist trying to figure out which bucket to stick me in. (The most disappointing male response to the news that a hot girl likes girls is, "What does that mean for me and my dick? Is she pokable? Not pokable? Do I even want to poke her anymore? Should I just diss her and go wank off? I can't figure it out!)

3: Point is, many, many women enjoy the sight of boobies. Let's just talk about boobies for now, not the rest of the package. Boobies have universal appeal. They improve every scene. A whole lot of chicks like to look at them. This includes women who may not admit it, even to themselves... and it includes women who know it and own it and aren't ashamed. I privately theorize that less than half of women are 100% hetero (i.e., a zero on the Kinsey scale), going from personal data.

So assuming that you accept that there are women out there who aren't wearing men's shirts and comfortable shoes who might like boobies, how might they choose to enjoy those boobies? Yes, you could creep around in locker rooms, but that's really creepy and other women can tell that you are creeping. No fun there. Strip clubs, however, are safe, especially for those who aren't looking to get a full-on lesbian girlfriend. (We're talking about boobs only here because there is a line between boobs and muff-diving that is a little more challenging to cross, esp. for beginners.)

Strip clubs are safe because nobody gets their feelings hurt and it's practically zero-risk. The women at strip clubs are usually happy to dance for women rather than men, because female clients are less creepy and help them make more money from guys all night long. Plus, you control what happens and when. And there is less chance of a girl going psycho on you.

I actually have had some sketchy things happen in strip clubs, plus as I get older I've come up with some better ways to spend my money, so I don't go much anymore. But I would argue that they are a legit way for a girl (whether 99% straight, a little straight, half-straight, whatever) to scratch that itch.