How to let girls know you’re rich without being a douche

I've been matching with some hot community college girls on tinder, but I get the feeling they want to date their community college counterpart despite all the upside to dating a rich guy. Or maybe they're into frat dudes (my school doesn't have frats).

Do these chicks just not know how much bankers make? Should I mention in my opener or my bio that I make $150k? What's the strategy here boys

Any way to let girls know with your pics that you're rich? Do girls even care if you're rich? I thought CC girls would 100% care

Anyways let's hear your thoughts boys

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Comments (86)

Dec 19, 2018

this kid is in for a world of disappointment.

just google it...you're welcome

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Dec 19, 2018

Dude get real

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Dec 19, 2018

Tell them you're majoring in accounting.

Dec 19, 2018

You got something against shitty majors?

RIP theaccountingmajor

Dec 20, 2018

Yours is a little more colorful than his was.

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Dec 20, 2018

hhhhhh

Dec 21, 2018

"I'm a bank teller."
"Ryan told me to always tell women you work in finance."

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Dec 19, 2018

your best bet is to give them larger than normal tips at the strip club, this is also is a good way to meet high quality, marriageable women, worked for us!

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Dec 19, 2018

Bro, just make one of your pictures a screen shot of your bank account.

Dec 19, 2018

Unfortunately I spend all the money I make, so that wouldn't do me much good.

Maybe I'll include a screenshot of my contract or something

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Dec 20, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Unfortunately I spend all the money I make, so that wouldn't do me much good.

Your personal finance skills make me NUT.

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Dec 20, 2018

They want to know you got
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8 M's in your bank account

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Dec 19, 2018

https://finovate.com/fake-atm-receipts/
Scribble your number on the back. You're welcome.

Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

How To Let Girls Know You're Rich Without Being A Douche

First thing you're going to want to do is get an icced out grill like Paul Wall.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 19, 2018

classic

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Dec 19, 2018

"my school"... Clarify this point: are you in school or do you make $150k?

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Dec 19, 2018

College student soon to be making $150k

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Dec 19, 2018

obviously he owns it

Dec 19, 2018

Dude you're over thinking this. You need to pose in front of your base model German car with your submariner on. Make sure it's in plain view. Also open up with " hey you cc pleb. I make 6 figures And therefore you should date me" or something of the sorts. Bonus points if you can get a reservation at Dorsias. Hopes this helps!

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Dec 19, 2018

Yeah I've thought about just buying a fancy car. For some reason [CC] girls think having a fancy car makes you rich, although in reality it does just the opposite

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Dec 19, 2018

good point. Perhaps pics of you in your father's copter?

Dec 19, 2018

Haha it's called a chopper and he doesn't have one. I think I will do a pic in front of my house in the hamptons. Need to get in shape tho. I'm currently 5'8 220

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Dec 19, 2018

So maybe your Tinder problem is you're short, fat, broke and socially awkward

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Dec 19, 2018

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 20, 2018

wtf...Do you even lift?

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Dec 19, 2018

Not that you're asking a gal's opinion, but here it is regardless... news flash... not all chicks are into money. I hope that doesn't shock you or blow up your world view... :)

I dated a wide range of types before marrying and yes, guys with money can be fun, to a point.

But just like a hot chick has a limited shelf life... arm candy will only please and amuse you for only so long, am I right? If a rich guy's got a shitty/jerky attitude, or doesn't have anything interesting going on in his life, or doesn't know how to treat others/interact with others or isn't physically attractive to some degree or is lousy in bed... I'm gone, as would be many of my gender.

Plus, do you honestly want to attract women that are only interested in your money?

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Dec 19, 2018

Very convoluted response (no surprise there, right boys?)

Are you trying to say women get bored with money? Money doesn't age like a 20 year olds hot body so that's a poor comparison

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Dec 19, 2018

?!!!?!!!?!!!????

Dec 19, 2018

^ is trolling

Dec 19, 2018

You found my reply "very convoluted"? Seems you're in lonely company, if the quantity of MS thrown is any indication.

I'm saying that if one concentrates on only a single facet, whether it's looks or money or anything else, that things tend to lose their luster fairly quickly.

I'd prefer a guy, regardless of his age, with money and the confidence not to have to continually flex over a guy, again regardless of his age, with money who feels the need to flex at every turn.

Confidence and self-assuredness are sexy. Arrogance and cockiness are anti-aphrodisiacs.

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Dec 19, 2018

You just admitted you'd prefer a guy with money

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

You just admitted you'd prefer a guy with money

If that's all you took away from that last comment of mine, it figures. I tried the less convoluted route for your benefit, I concentrated on your fiscal argument, and removed my physical argument.

I said all things being equal in regards to money - that I'd prefer the one that had confidence and didn't flex 24/7.

Dec 20, 2018

Why do you keep bringing up men and their money? This is just proving my point about women...

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Money doesn't age like a 20 year olds hot body so that's a poor comparison

EliteStudent11:

Need to get in shape tho. I'm currently 5'8 220

lol wut?

https://media.giphy.com/media/ffZUy1P3edmhO/giphy.gif

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 20, 2018

Lmao he should check out my meal prep post

Dayman?

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Very convoluted response (no surprise there, right boys?)

Are you trying to say women get bored with money? Money doesn't age like a 20 year olds hot body so that's a poor comparison

I mean, by definition, it does. It's called inflation. You might have and/or look like a million bucks today, in 20 years, if you don't work to keep it up, it'll be similarly worthless.

Dec 20, 2018

@InfoDominatrix Your advice makes far too much sense to be on WSO

In all seriousness though your advice here and other discussions is really good

Dec 21, 2018

You're very kind to say so and very funny as well!

So maybe I don't hafta go spend more time on certain reddit and 4chan threads so I can be better embraced by the MGTOWs and incels? ;-)

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Dec 23, 2018

LOL. Yeah read up on that stuff and you'll definitely be prepared to give some WSO worthy advice. Then you can support these dudes thinking that bragging about their EB internship will get them laid for the first time instead of having an actual personality, knowing how to tell a joke, and being in decent shape.

Dec 19, 2018

Aren't you an intern?

Edit: You're still in college, therefore you aren't making anything. Overflexing on girls is a turn off from everything I've seen. I already think you're a douche but if you project success while not shoving it in some girls face, then maybe they will think otherwise. Let them come to their own conclusions because if you're trying to pick up the gorgeous women you say are flocking to you, be aware that when it comes to money, they could probably find guys making a lot more than you.

Dayman?

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Dec 19, 2018

I'll be making racks in June baby

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Dec 20, 2018

I'm glad thats what you gathered from my comment. The point of me saying that was to not overflex. It is GENUINELY A TURN OFF. A lot of the attractive girls I know do in fact date guys with solid bank accounts. However, these guys are really interesting and have a lot going on in their lives outside of work, which is what dominated the conversations that initiated the mutual attraction between them. Money can be a catalyst to be a more interesting person by giving you the financial support to pursue more hobbies and do more interesting stuff, but if its just sitting in your account that who cares. Also buying tables at fuckin Lavo or Marquee will only get you so far.

Also, all of these guys are in really fuckin good shape. If you started hitting the gym I'm sure that would help. Guess we do have that in common lol

Dayman?

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Dec 19, 2018

OP is a c-tier troll at best.

Dec 19, 2018

Says the king of humble brags

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Dec 19, 2018
m_1:

OP is a c-tier troll at best.

Agreed.

OP -- if a female wanted to date for money, why would she be going for a guy that only makes $150k per year? That would be an ineffective gold digging strategy.

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Dec 19, 2018

**"why would she be going for a guy that only makes $150k per year? ** That would be an ineffective gold digging strategy." **

Well said. Wealth X report states there are 260,000 UNHW Individuals out there with net worths $30M+
If a girl goes after someone making 150k she is in no way a gold digger........

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Dec 19, 2018

You are slicing the data in a manipulative way to make your point, which I respect #bankerlife. However, you're ignoring the fact that I'm 20.

I am in the .01% of earners for 20-22 year olds in America. Likely the .0001% in the whole world

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

I am in the .01% of earners for 20-22 year olds

I am?

More like: I will be, may be...

The tenses are very confusing on this thread.

You haven't even put in 1 day yet...

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 19, 2018

Finance everything! If you buy houses and mortgages on the hopes that you'll make enough one day to afford it, why not live that way in all aspect of life- including bragging!

Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

You are slicing the data in a manipulative way to make your point, which I respect #bankerlife. However, you're ignoring the fact that I'm 20.

I am in the .01% of earners for 20-22 year olds in America. Likely the .0001% in the whole world

You seem to forget that women can easily date older guys....

Dec 19, 2018

Young and rich > old and rich

If you have $4mil when you're 40 nobody cares. That just puts you on track for retirement. $4mil when you're 20 though? Different story

Obviously the numbers aren't the same in this story but the point stands

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Young and rich > old and rich

If you have $4mil when you're 40 nobody cares. That just puts you on track for retirement. $4mil when you're 20 though? Different story

Obviously the numbers aren't the same in this story but the point stands

But, how does $0 at age 20 stack up? Isn't that what you actually have? Maybe less?

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Dec 19, 2018

I have about $250k from my parents

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Dec 19, 2018

Impressive. Now that's something I can respect.

Dec 20, 2018

Big bank take lil bank

Dayman?

Dec 19, 2018

$4mm at 20 and $150k at 20 is a big difference... Plus as Dick said, you likely have <= $0 right now...

Dec 19, 2018

$250k my parents gave to me as a graduation gift

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Dec 19, 2018

You still have't graduated though.

Dec 19, 2018

Mate you can't buy a LaFerrari with 250k....

thots and prayers

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Dec 20, 2018
2and20:

Mate you can't buy a LaFerrari with 250k....

thats a sick car

2014
$3,590,000

https://www.autotrader.com/cars-for-sale/vehiclede...

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 20, 2018

That color combo is on point, not that one can go wrong with any color in a LaF

thots and prayers

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Dec 19, 2018

I feel like 99% of them don't even know what money is....
it's more like a card she can swipe that let's her buy shit she wants, which she already has

thots and prayers

Dec 19, 2018

Interesting question that hasn't been answered... how do you work it into the conversation? Or how do you get the girl to ask how much u make

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Dec 19, 2018

dont worry about being smooth, after they know you have money, nothing else will matter right?

So just say it up front, "Hi, I make $150,000 a year, my name is Ryan, is lunch or dinner better for you?", after you throw out how much you make, you just use the assumptive close.

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Dec 19, 2018

drop your W-2 on the floor and ask her to pick it up for you

Dec 19, 2018

0/10 on the troll attempt

Dec 19, 2018

You need a girl like this.

Dec 19, 2018

why not impress some girl from your school that has a Goldman TMT offer or something I'm sure she's just as hot as the community college girls and you know she has a brain

Dec 19, 2018

Maybe a Goldman S&T offer... idk if you've met any banker girls

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Dec 19, 2018

we have provided a lot of good solutions, I think you ow it to us to implement and report back.

Dec 19, 2018

It's easy I just stuff my Ferrari down my pants.

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Dec 19, 2018

that's hot

Dec 19, 2018

This isn't real, right? Let me guess....photo of you won't do the trick? Just guessing...

Dec 19, 2018

One time I was on Metro North heading to White Plains when I was eavesdropping on some youngsters near me. It was one ginger guy presumably 17 or 18 years old and two girls of comparable age that he seemed to have had just met. This guy is interjecting how he's going to college next year into seemingly every topic among other things he's bragging about. I mean somehow he keeps bringing up his college over and ober again. Now I get that a high school senior is excited to go to college but this was just over the top. After like 10 minutes of this one of the girls FINALLY asks the question this guy had been fishing for: where are you going to college? And I swear in my brain I'm like he's about to say Harvard for sure. And what do you know on fuckin cue he says Harvard. Now I have no idea if he was telling the truth or not. But that certain rehearsed casualness in his answer said to me that he had done this many times before and would do so many times in the future. This technique of baiting out the question so that he could coolly bring up his admission to Harvard was truly the mark of an aspiring expert braggart. You don't go through that whole routine just to tell people you're going to Binghampton.

And THAT'S how you show you're a douche with or without being rich.

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Dec 19, 2018
thurnis haley:

And THAT'S how you show you're a douche

I lol'ed

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 20, 2018

If he were playing the long game he should have said he was going to Harvard the polite way; going to college in Boston.

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Dec 19, 2018
Dec 19, 2018

Hilarious great find

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Dec 19, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Do these chicks just not know how much bankers make? Should I mention in my opener or my bio that I make $150k? What's the strategy here boys

I've never laughed so hard, +1.

Dec 20, 2018
EliteStudent11:

Or maybe they're into frat dudes (my school doesn't have frats).

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/what-school...

EliteStudent11:

I go to Penn

https://www.vpul.upenn.edu/ofsl/organizations.php "There are 48 fraternity and sorority chapters currently active on Penn's campus."

hmmmmmmmmmmm

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 20, 2018

*my school doesn't have frats that will accept me

Is what I think he must've been implying

Dec 21, 2018
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Dec 22, 2018

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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