How to lose my v-card?
I'm a 22 year old virgin. Never went out to a party, club, date, etc. Part of the issue was I was very facially unattractive/lacked sex appeal up until roughly 20-21 and my face + body changed a ton. It also helped that I grew from 5'3'' in mid highschool to 6'1'' today.
My life had started changing a bit noticing how much better looking I became. I'm pretty neurotic but I noticed a ton of small changes in my day to day life but mainly women would approach me to talk to me, teachers/parents treated me much nicer, got more call backs after first round interviews, other guys wouldn't pick on me as I used to be that easy target, etc.
I found out about tinder account and I got 500 matches in a couple months but I literally don't have any social skills or know what to do. Even when I get approached and just have small talk I don't know how to take that step forward. I don't think I project awkward-ness in those situations but rather come off as uninterested when I'm clearly not.
I want to step on this issue, which I view as something extremely serious, mainly because you only are young once. The days of being able to just hit on women and sleep with them on the same night practically are coming to an end soon and I never experienced it once; not to mention looks fade on both ends. I know if I don't do anything about I will be extremely resentful and a serious wreck. I don't think it's the actual lack of sex bothering me but it's stemming from this idea that I've wasted my youth and it slipped so fast due to my cycle of self-hatred and this is a symptom of it.
I don't really have anyone in my life to talk to about this, so sorry if this thread was weird lol feel free to say whatever is on your mind that would help.