I think this is somewhat of a relevant question as we are often asked to quantify this range in all the dating apps. What do you list as your range?

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most women (not all, but most) undergo a psychological change around 26 years old...they start thinking more long term and become more strategic (not totally Machiavellian, but in that general direction).

So, depending on what you are looking for, i would suggest choosing a side of 26

22-26 for fun, carefree, and all the possibilities in the world

27-32 if looking to get married in the near future and have kids

meeting women over 32 is tricky... women have difficulty getting pregnant around 34/35+ and so you are really limiting your chances for a genetic family (from a statistical perspective)

just google it...you're welcome
 

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Currently mid-20s and usually throw the range finder on 18-39, not using the apps for "serious" dating.

  • 18-20 still got the hormones flowing and asses you can bounce a quarter off, might as well until I'm old right?
  • 21-27 to hang out and go to bars/festivals with
  • 28-29 still that 20s hot but have the near-30 shadow (especially if they're not successful professionals) which makes them easier than 21-27
  • 30+ I refuse to break bread with a man (or woman) who can't appreciate a good MILF/strong independent woman looking for some snoo snoo on Tinder
  • Anything over 40 is gross unless it's J.Lo
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Bro you can laugh, but there are some HOT 35 year olds. I was being conservative in my range, honestly I would date a 40+ as well. Of course, they can’t be the average 35-40 year old, and I can’t see myself in a serious relationship, but a short term thing with them could be fun. Alessandra Ambrosio is incredibly attractive to me, I picture a woman like her when I say 35-40.
 

 

A woman who's hot, smart, and potentially makes enough to spoil you a little bit?  Ain't nothing wrong with a little cougar sugar. 

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if you want to date for fun, have lots of sex, lots of adventures, lots of "endless possibilities" where everything feels "new"...then stay under 26.

If you want to date to find a relationship, get married and have kids, then 26-30 is the sweetspot.

just google it...you're welcome
 

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I'm 28, and I prefer no younger than maybe 26 and no older than 32 or 33. I've actually been doing good with that early 30s range and I'm not complaining. Girls in their early twenties seem too immature and don't come off as stable, so its mostly a turnoff or viewed less serious for me. Too much older than me, I feel like it's a serious husband hunt for those women where they're hoping to get hitched at lightning speed which is way too soon for me.

 

As someone in their late twenties looking for something serious, 24-28 is what I set the apps to.  If I end up single in my thirties, would probably bump the upper end to whatever my age is.  

At least in new york you generally see a mental shift in women from wanting something chill to something serious at ~25, but I have seen some of my friends score 10/10 wife-material by "investing early" (if you will) with 23/24 year olds on the apps.  It is usually pretty clear what their deal is on the first date, and I am upfront about what Im looking for which avoids wasted time. 

 

I am a 21 year old female and I have my age range set at 26-35...but if I met someone at work or through friends I would go higher or lower. I am more concerned about someone fitting the qualities I am looking for rather than a specific age, but in my experience, my age range seems to fit what I am looking for best. 

 

Wow, everyone is so opinionated here with such narrow ranges... when I was single, I would date women much older or younger than me. 

My more serious relationships tended to be within a few years of me (my wife is 2 months younger), but if you are in a stage of "exploration and fun", why not a wide range.  I've dated 22yos that were more mature than some 32yos...  

 

Wanted to weigh in on the "pick a side of 26" thing.  While I agree that 18-22 is a tough age range for anything serious since people are still figuring themselves out, the concept that a switch suddenly flips is a little misleading.  First of all: you will find just as many stable/relationship-oriented 24 year old women as you will 26+ who are still a mess. I have found a number of serious contenders in the 23-25 range. My best advice is to keep the filters wide and then use your discretion to figure out what kind of individual you are dealing with.  If you just communicate you want something more long-term the flakes will usually see themselves out the door. 

Second of all: this is highly-dependent on where you are at in your timeline.  Eg I am in my late twenties, would ideally get married in my early thirties, and want to have a couple DINK years before having kids.  That is overall a four to five year process assuming a couple years of dating, year long engagement, and about two years before having kids.  Dating 24-27 year olds makes a lot of sense in my situation because it ends up being a max four year age gap, which imo is ideal because we can still relate to each other but aren't running into biological clock issues since she will only be about 29-32 when we have our first kid. My friends aged 26-32 generally keep their age filters down to 24 as well.  Now if you are 35, feel like you know enough to speed that process up to two years...dating a 24 year old makes less sense.  

EDIT: (meant to comment this in general thread- not as a reply)

 

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