You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Don't Take

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It was a standard Sunday for JRMM - Woke up entirely too early, ate breakfast, watched SportCenter, then had to kill time before the start of day 4 of the tourney. I had just gotten home from hitting golf balls and was about to firmly plant my ass on the couch for the remainder of the day when I caught the following tweet "in NYC with a few hours until takeoff, any blog readers want to get coffee?" The tweet belonged to a fund manager I respect greatly and whose blog I follow closely.

First thing through my mind is, "wow that's cool, I should respond." Second thing is, "wait, why would XYZ fund manager ever want to get coffee with me? What can I add to conversation?" Third thing is, "What's the worst that can happen?" So I fire off the email and sure enough, 5 minutes later, "Here is my number, call me". I call XYZ fund manager and after a short discussion he tells me to meet him in the lobby of his hotel. I hang up the phone and am ecstatic, "Holy shit, this is real, I have a super unique opportunity here." I throw on some respectable clothing (i.e. not sweatpants) and jump in a cab...

On my way downtown I started to think about what to expect. If nothing else I viewed this as an opportunity to pick the brain of someone I greatly respect. A chance to poke around and ask questions of what he likes/doesn't like, how he evaluates potential investments, and other general development questions. I went into it not expecting anything more than a simple conversation. (Spoiler Alert - There is no Hollywood ending where I say something and he is so enamored with the comment I get a job on the spot.)

When I arrived, XYZ fund manager was sitting in the corner with another gentleman. I approached them and introduced myself; a third would join us 10 minutes later. For the next three hours XYZ fund manager proceeded to discuss current trades, tell war-stories and field questions. My favorite parts of the discussion were when he broke out his laptop and proceeded to walk us though one of his shorts and his discussion of his biggest mistake of 2013. (I am a strong believer that you learn exponentially more from your mistakes/failures than from your successes). For anonymity reasons I won't discuss specifics. The event culminated when XYZ fund manager invited us to continue the conversation over dinner.

After all was said in done, we exchanged contact information, shook hands and went our separate ways. I wish I could dive into greater detail about what we discussed but I won't. Put simply, it was an invaluable experience where I got to have an in-depth semi-private conversation with a well-respected fund manager.

The point of this write up is to hammer home how important it is to take shots, no matter how improbable you think they are. After I initially saw the tweet I closed my laptop and had a conversation with myself about how ridiculous this was and that XYZ fund manager would never respond if I emailed him. At some point between the fridge and the couch I remembered how I spent my first summer after college cold calling i-banks looking for positions and had I approached that summer with a similar mind set I never would have made it out of my hometown. (This is a different story for a different thread but I had an offer rescinded 2 weeks before graduation due to an office closure and spent the summer doing everything possible to find a job) That is when I fired off the email that set off the event above. You should always take a shot at something you view as improbable because you never know when or how it will pay off in the long run.

Side note - I wasn't sure where to put this so I am dropping in in the HF section, if any of the mods think it belongs elsewhere please feel free to move it.

Comments (43)

Mar 24, 2014

I love the rush of those scenarios where you know a window of opportunity has opened and you only have a few moments to decided whether to pussyout or take it. Props for the balls to go. Gives us all another reason to always be prepared for things.

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Mar 24, 2014

Almost makes me think I should be on Twitter. Good story

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Mar 24, 2014

Great post.

Mar 24, 2014

+1 SB, I can never get enough of stories like these. Thank you!

Mar 24, 2014

Really cool story!

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Mar 24, 2014

Awesome story, love it. And agreed 100% - if you don't try you'll never know what could have happened.

"When you stop striving for perfection, you might as well be dead."

Mar 24, 2014

Great story, thanks for sharing!

Mar 24, 2014

Great story. Kudos to you for sending out that email and giving it a shot regardless of the odds

Mar 24, 2014

Good stuff.

Mar 24, 2014

You just sold me on a twitter account.

Mar 24, 2014

It is great and surprising to know there are fund managers who do things like that.

Anyway, I will join in the praise. Great story and great lesson. And to add to that, in so many cases, you lose nothing if you take the shot and it doesn't work out. If you e-mailed this guy and he didn't respond, so what? I'll take that risk/reward ratio any day.

And +1 SB!

Mar 24, 2014

time to get a twitter account...

Mar 24, 2014

This is awesome. Good for you for taking the opportunity and I'm glad it worked out well. I may just have to start checking Twitter a little bit more.

-- reaper

Mar 24, 2014

Thanks for sharing and kudos for making that jump.
Goes to show you that in life, you sometimes need to take shots on mere faith.

Death is certain; Life aint.

Mar 25, 2014

SB'd and getting a twitter account now...

Mar 25, 2014

Interesting post, thanks!

Twitter is about to see a small bump in its membership due to this post. Considering signing up now...

Jul 8, 2014

Absolutely agreed, you need to seize the opps.

Mar 25, 2014

Cool stuff.

Mar 25, 2014

Awesome story. I actually landed my internship for this summer through a string of opportunities I took a shot in the dark at. Only takes one rare chance

Mar 25, 2014

If you are afraid of failures you will never succeed, reminds us all that we have to take shots sometimes

'The critical investment factor is determining the intrinsic value of a business and paying a fair or bargain price." W.B."
we venture the motto, Margin of Safety." Ben Graham

Mar 25, 2014

There's no way that this could be anyone other than XXXX. And it is. Does that make you XXX?

(Mod): Warning.

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Mar 25, 2014
MItchc:

There's no way that this could be anyone other than XXX. And it is. Does that make you XXX?

Not cool to out people bro. I would be smart and delete this comment. It wasn't tough to figure out but totally unnecessary to post.

Mar 25, 2014
Gray Fox:
MItchc:

There's no way that this could be anyone other than XXX. And it is. Does that make you XXX?

Not cool to out people bro. I would be smart and delete this comment. It wasn't tough to figure out but totally unnecessary to post.

I think it's fair game. Apropos to the topic of shots you don't take, if you're jealous of OP, send John an email. You won't get to have dinner with him, but he's a friendly and reasonable (and not anonymous) guy. If you write him something thoughtful, he may very well respond. Same is true of others.

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Mar 25, 2014

Great story. Too many times have opportunities slipped through our fingers simply because of the thought: "Why even bother wasting time trying?". Even if the chance is remote, what's wrong with trying? Just remember to manage your expectations well.

Mar 25, 2014

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Mar 25, 2014

Great story!

Mar 25, 2014

Inspiring! I am sure it was an invaluable experience for you.

Here is for taking shots!

Mar 26, 2014

Great story!!! Agree wholehearted that you miss the 100% of the shots you don't take! You have nothing to lose so go for it!

Mar 26, 2014

Wanted to +1 this post myself. I re-read this last night and decided to send a note off to another hedge fund manager (who is pretty high up on the Forbes list), and he responded with pointers/advice. Amazing how many people want to pass along knowledge.

Mar 26, 2014

OP, this sounds like the best possible meeting anyone could ever have (networking-wise).

I hope you stay in touch and continue to crush it.

Mar 27, 2014

Thanks for the comments. Was a very cool experience.

Mar 27, 2014

Awesome story. Thanks for sharing.

Mar 29, 2014

Do you work for twitter?

Apr 13, 2014

so true, love it. Reading Warren Buffets biography i also thought the same thing, the guy just thinks outside of the box (voluntarily or not) and thus creates a whole lot of opportunities for himself. I also think it's not just about taking the shots, but also creating them in the first place.

Apr 13, 2014

Nice post, it was inspiring!

Apr 24, 2014

agreed

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