Got back from a date. This is what she said. Is this a red flag?
Really pretty girl. 22 yro. Just graduating out of Columbia. Majored in computer science. So, shes really smart too.
I'm a 25yro third year analyst at a BB.
Date went well. Dinner went really well. We laughing all the time and then I asked her what are the most important things she looked for in a guy for long term purposes. And she answered "well, the first thing is that he has to have ambition. Second, and this sounds horrible I know, but he has to be making more than me. I don't really care what he does, as long as I'm not footing our bills and really, he has to at least make more than me. Sorry if that sounds bad!"
Now, I've been on a LOT of dates, both in college and after college. I've heard the whole "I want a man with ambition" ALL THE TIME, but never the "he has to make more than me" line. That's a first! Now, gentlemen of WSO, is this a red flag? She was pretty eager for a second date but I don't know if I want to pursue that anymore. Or am I overreacting here? Cause she just forced me to compare her to an old TA's hot hot fiance who graduated med school and makes 180k while he makes ~140k which is lower than hers and she seems to be cool with that.





How else do you expect to
How else do you expect to support me, douchebag.
seedy underbelly: How else do
How else do you expect to support me, douchebag.
HA. yeah but she wasn't even cool if the man had the SAME salary as her, whether that salary be $80k or $1,500,000. The man has to always have a higher salary even if just a $1. that's what she said lol.
Ask her how much she makes
Ask her how much she makes and report back.
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Frankly I don't think it's an
Frankly I don't think it's an auto-ding at this point. A lot of girls probably think something like that, but would just never actually say it to a guy. Points for honesty?
If you start to see that there's an overall pattern of her being materialistic/excessively conscious about money, however, then it's clearly a problem.
seedy underbelly: How else do
How else do you expect to support me, douchebag.
LOL just saw you go to columbia, class of 12. listen babe, did you like my cologne earlier?
seabird: Ask her how much she
Ask her how much she makes and report back.
haha will do
If I made less than my
If I made less than my fiancee I'd kill myself
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does 'As long as I'm not
does 'As long as I'm not footing our bills' mean 'pay for all my shit while i buy fendi?'
and is that really the top of her list? yeah id get rid of that
I need a crib, a big estate, I need a boat and that need a lake, I need some salmon that need a plate, that need a chef so I feed my safe
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A ship is safe in harbor, but that is not what a ship i
Yeah I would give it another
Yeah I would give it another shot but if you can tell she's got materialistic tendencies DROP HER ASAP
I didn't say it was your fault, I said I was blaming you.
note to all : most of the
note to all : most of the girls in nyc are materialistic, unballin, prestige/status chasin whores. use it to your advantage but dont fall in love with one of them :) find the alpha independent baller females for wifey
I need a crib, a big estate, I need a boat and that need a lake, I need some salmon that need a plate, that need a chef so I feed my safe
From trading equities to slanging wine in Latin America
A ship is safe in harbor, but that is not what a ship i
did you fuck her?
did you fuck her?
Kick her to the curb.
Kick her to the curb.
Code phrase: I'm quitting my
Code phrase: I'm quitting my job once I find my man but I won't settle for a lower standard of living.
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illiniPride: Code phrase: I'm
Code phrase: I'm quitting my job once I find my man but I won't settle for a lower standard of living.
I haven't met many smart people in my life. IlliniPride, however, has just convinced me he is one of them. +1
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Depends what you're looking
Depends what you're looking for. Let's say she is a gold digger (we don't know this, but let's just assume), you gotta ask yourself if that's what you want. There are plenty of ppl on this site who are fine with a girl dating them just for their money, given they are hot enough. Personally, I would never do that. I wont get into my convoluted thought process here, but in short i feel like the woman always has the upper hand in money/ gold digger relationships. I wudnt touch that shit with a 10 ft. stick, not to say I don't respect those who do.....to each his own
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Tell her to apply to CBS,
Sounds like a golddigger.
I don't know guys... A
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just because she got the
I need a crib, a big estate, I need a boat and that need a lake, I need some salmon that need a plate, that need a chef so I feed my safe
From trading equities to slanging wine in Latin America
A ship is safe in harbor, but that is not what a ship i
valleybandar: Tell her to
"Well make more fuckin' money. This is America. You don't make money, then you're a fuckin' douchebag." - Mr. French
Don't know how you can
pump and dump
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Personally I don't think
OP you are not going to get
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ThePOTUSMan: Cause she just
Give her a second chance.
You're over thinking things.
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