Hey guys - what is a gift that you'd love to receive?

As the title says - what is a gift that you'd love to receive as a guy?

For context, I'm a female working in NY, and I've gone on a quite few dates with a guy, and he's exceptionally thoughtful and so kind, and I really like him. I'm compiling a little gift basket to give to him on our next date and wanted to put some things into it - I have a few items in mind from our conversations (e.g. a Tilly hat bc he said he thinks they're cool and he burns easily, some Korean skincare items because he said he likes face masks, + a few more items) but I was wondering if anyone else had any recommendations for items that they'd LOVE to receive as a guy?
If this helps, I've already told him I'm compiling a little gift basket so this isn't totally out of the blue. I don't have a hard-line budget 

 

WTF??? She's trying to like the guy and have a relationship with him, not be his mother! GTFO with this dumb suggestion. 

 

I sort of disagree with all the above answers. I have a razor and don’t need another and wear specific socks and boxers. I don’t need someone buying me stuff I’ll never use.

The skincare products would be an awesome gift to include - I recently have started moisturizing and have several different things. It’s not gay to have nice skin. I think the best gifts are those that you can see benefiting him that he wouldn’t buy on his own. A great example of this is a really nice pair of nail clippers. I got a Japanese pair for Christmas after using the super cheap ones my whole life and they’re a game changer.

I hate clothes for gifts - I have a wardrobe that’s worth several thousand dollars, and if I truly want something, I buy it. Given this, I still wear shirts that are over a decade old. Recently downloaded the Nike app to buy my cousins some stuff and saw that my Nike socks are over 5 years old.

Skincare products, loofah (although those wear out and ideally should be replaced every few months), nail clippers, chapstick, possibly an eye mask for sleeping.

The key imo is to make the gift basket include quality items. Personally, I’d value a nice tube of chapstick over a cheap watch, even if the watch is more $$$

 

Full skincare routine box with cologne. Something like one of those boxes you pick up at macys or one of the department stores that have cologne shaving cream moisturizer and shampoo/conditioner in it

 

True, I love skincare products because I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I’ll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.

 

Agree with all of the above maybe add in a southwest gift card, depending on how much your spending. If things progress bt you two, that points at a weekend getaway to somewhere fun

 

I think your gift basket is taking pretty good shape so far. I'm thinking back to times when women have done this for me and I think I've appreciated the time & effort more than the dollar value of the gift itself. So, to add to your current list, how about something you made? I remember one girl made some cookies for me, another made me a whole birthday cake. And I thought those were incredibly thoughtful and showed care. Is there something you can make/craft to add to your gifts? 

 

Before I moved in with my gf and we hadnt been together that long we used to still like to spend 3/4 nights a week with each other. We used to prefer going to her place as it was nicer but it was always super tricky during the week cos I'd finish late and then have to go home and grab a clean ironed shirt and pair of chinos for the next day. One day I went back to her place and she'd bought me 4 shirts and a pair of chinos (the exact same brand size I already own) that were all ironed and pressed to keep at her place for weekday nights. Wasn't a massive gesture but it genuinely meant a lot to me 

 

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Towels with his monogram, Peter Miller polo from his college, nice candle, coffee table book on one of his hobbies, nice kitchen knife if he likes to cook, or a wine subscription if he's into wine are a few that come to mind

Monograms are basura. Candle is nice suggestion.

 

Why are you giving him gifts? Maybe I'm out of touch but I've never heard of a couple going on dates getting gifts. Always felt like that was relationship thing - bc it sets the tone that HE needs to start getting gifts which could scare him off. curious if anyone else also had this thought here. 

 

I mean, it's a care-package and I know he's really busy at work rn so I thought it was a nice gesture for him to get some nice things & snacks. I'm not particularly fussed - to each their own, if gifts are something you'd only do in a relationship for you, that's okay. gifts aren't solely reserved for relationships for me & that's also okay! 

 

I’ve always been more of an experiences over things kind of guy. Obviously if he’s working in banking that makes it hard to do things but tickets to a ballgame or something of the like would mean much more to me than any cologne or other items could

 

If he wears a suit to the office definitely I would include cufflinks in the basket! 

 

Luxury toiletries - I'm personally a sucker for anything Tom Ford, so if he has a brand he likes that maybe he only splurges on once or twice a year, get him something from there

If he has an interest in something, related to that: watches >> leather watch travel case; golf >> personalised golf balls by his favourite brand; etc.

Does he follow a sports team or like the theatre / certain museums? Tickets always go down well

I can guarantee there's probably something small-ish that he's been wanting to get himself for a little while and just hasn't had the chance yet - I'd suggest probing to find out what this is and, if it's within budget, getting it for him

I'd avoid books - unless you know the person extremely well, it'll likely be something you like, not what they like, yet they'll feel obliged to read it 

"Work is the curse of the drinking classes" - Oscar Wilde
 

Very good comments already, so I'd only add:

Picture of you (both or just you) in a nice (simple, but quality) frame. This one only if you feel you both are in synch and progressing towards a good relationship.

Something he cares about, but could use an upgrade. I got a nice hat from my gf, now wife. She was spot on both that one, and kept me thinking of her every time I wore or saw it.

Quality/care and thought on the present >>> than price or quantity. It's about the detail, that whispers "I like you and am thinking of you, here is something for you to think of me" than yelling "hey here is this expensive Rolex or whatever, because it was the only thing I came closer to my goal".

Good luck, perhaps you can update us what you decided on and his/her reaction.

 

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