“My mentoring session with Andre was extremely valuable and gave me the clarity and direction I needed at an important stage of my application journey. He was kind, approachable, and generous with his time, creating an atmosphere in which I felt comfortable sharing my experiences, asking questions, and discussing my doubts openly.
One of the most helpful aspects of our conversation was his guidance on how to organize and communicate my personal story. Andre helped me understand how to connect different experiences into a coherent narrative, identify the elements that matter most, and explain their significance more clearly. His perspective was fundamental in helping me see how to present my background with greater confidence, purpose, and authenticity.
I particularly appreciated his advice on what to avoid. He helped me recognize that including every detail does not necessarily make a story stronger, and that being selective can make a message much more effective. Our discussion gave me a clearer understanding of how to avoid unnecessary repetition, keep my narrative focused, and ensure that each part contributes something meaningful to the overall application.
Andre also provided valuable guidance on how to organize the application process itself. He helped me think more clearly about priorities, how to approach the different components, and how to make the work feel more manageable. Having a clearer structure has made a difference to my mindset: instead of seeing the applications as one overwhelming task, I now feel better equipped to approach them through specific, achievable steps.
Another important takeaway was his advice on how to use the coming days effectively. Our conversation helped me understand where to focus my energy, which tasks deserve immediate attention, and how to establish a realistic plan. I left the session with a stronger sense of direction and a better understanding of how to balance thoughtful preparation with consistent progress.
What made the experience positive was the combination of practical guidance and encouragement. Andre offered suggestions in a considerate and constructive way, helping me reflect on my choices while also making me feel supported. His kindness made it easier to engage honestly with the process and to see areas for improvement as opportunities to strengthen my applications.
Overall, this session was fundamental in helping me understand both what I want to communicate and how to move forward. I now have a clearer approach to telling my story, organizing my applications, avoiding common mistakes, and planning the next few days with intention.
I am very grateful for Andre’s support and for the care he brought to our conversation. His advice gave me useful tools, renewed confidence, and a more focused approach to the work ahead. I would highly recommend a session with him to anyone seeking thoughtful guidance, practical direction, and a supportive space to develop their application narrative. The session helped me turn uncertainty into a clearer plan, and I feel much more prepared to make the most of the time ahead and present my experiences in a meaningful and convincing way.”
Honestly I struggle with this myself - I would suggest just taking it easy on yourself. You mentioned you exercise and you have read the self-help books. I think my advise will be stuff you already know at the surface level, but w.e. I post this for the broader support it may provide, because I suffered very hard from anxiety.
First of all, you are human you will make mistakes, be kind to yourself - mistakes are inveitable and this industry can be ruthless - the last person you need being hard and critical of you is yourself - the world is harsh enough.
Second workout to reduce stress (that helps). Period.
Third - Get some prespective. At the end of the day, it’s just a job and a job is a job… do your best, and be locked in at work, but remember that no matter how intense the deadline, it is not the end of the world. Step back, and appreciate the situation. And when you do that will enjoy the rush of the deal!! It can be very fun when you are fully present to the intensity that triggers your anxiety.
Fourth - Do not be outcome dependent - this is a long game - even if you fuck up this opportunity there will be many more, optimize for learning. Try to not stress about that return offer - being too outcome dependent vs. enjoying the process is what flares up my anxiety - in essence, you are worrying about something you inherently cannot control. That is a recipe for anxiety because no matter how much you do it won’t be enough. Reframe it such that a good experience is you learning a lot. I know you want the return offer, but true freedom from anxiety and the accompanying peace comes from freedom of outcome. Even if you do not get the offer, you will have solid experience to re-recruit. So chill, and get the most from the experience. God speed young one.
thank you for answering!! much appreciated
M&A analyst probably the most anxiogenic job in finance so take it easy on yourself
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