Sir/Ma'am in Banking

So, I am a military guy with plans to go in Banking, and recruiting will be coming soon. When talking to more senior guys, like VPs and MDs, should I assume to call them Mr./Ms. X or Sir/Ma'am or just go by their first name right off the bat?

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Sir and ma'am are fine, Mr./Ms. are fine. If they ask you to call them Jack or Sally or whatever, do that.

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haha poster above is joking. if it makes you feel more comfortable, you can say sir/maam once, then go directly to first name. it is perfectly acceptable to go directly to first name right off the bat though

 

Let me clarify, I use sir/ma'am or Mr./Ms. generally on meeting someone. 99% of the time people will say, oh, please call me (insert first name here).

Generally just call the person whatever they say their name is.

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