You're going to make it

This is for all of you who feel down because of recruiting, rejections, and the overall difficulties that this field brings with it. You're going to make it. Be patient, stay committed, and trust the process.

I've just accepted my dream offer at my dream bank, after getting rejected ~50 times. It's hard and painful but you have to commit. Believe in yourself and improve with every step along the way. Gradually, you will see improvement.

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These posts are always thinly-veiled humblebrag posts from people who are still on the high of getting an offer

Of course you, someone who just got an offer, thinks it was because of your amazing patience, commitment and "trust in the process" (lol)

Congrats on your offer but that doesn't mean everyone else will make it (it's statistically impossible for everyone who's interested in IB/similar jobs to make it in), it's mostly luck

 
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nah he's right. this is a humblebrag post. it's sad that you need to go to an anonymous forum for self worth and sadder still there are so many of these types of posts. 

banking is such a narcissistic profession, glorified paper pushers who think the world of themselves lol. unreal

the best part is banking is going to fucking suck this next decade so have fun with that :)

 

i dont think the idea of you getting lucky and getting an offer

while others arent as lucky

is quite the motivation you think it is 

This is for all of you who feel down because of recruiting, rejections, and the overall difficulties that this field brings with it. You're going to make it. Be patient, stay committed, and trust the process."

fking cringe

 

Lol the intern is spot on. We get at least one of these posts every week and it's all variations on a theme. I don't like being the cynic but it's quite easy for OP, who just landed his dream offer and is now in a nice and cushy position, to start going around giving superficial motivation to others. I'd bet my money that had he not gotten the offer, this post wouldn't exist. 

Also: "This is for all of you who feel down because of recruiting, rejections, and the overall difficulties that this field brings with it. You're going to make it. Be patient, stay committed, and trust the process."

Seriously? MS me all you want but this is seriously cringe lmfao, especially the bolding 

 

These posts are always thinly-veiled humblebrag posts from people who are still on the high of getting an offer

Of course you, someone who just got an offer, thinks it was because of your amazing patience, commitment and "trust in the process" (lol)

Congrats on your offer but that doesn't mean everyone else will make it (it's statistically impossible for everyone who's interested in IB/similar jobs to make it in), it's mostly luck

It is definitely not "mostly" (implying >50%) luck. Unless you start comparing us to kids born in third world slums

 

These posts are always thinly-veiled humblebrag posts from people who are still on the high of getting an offer

Of course you, someone who just got an offer, thinks it was because of your amazing patience, commitment and "trust in the process" (lol)

Congrats on your offer but that doesn't mean everyone else will make it (it's statistically impossible for everyone who's interested in IB/similar jobs to make it in), it's mostly luck

If you really think that it's mostly luck…you were/are doing it wrong. 

 

These posts are always thinly-veiled humblebrag posts from people who are still on the high of getting an offer

Of course you, someone who just got an offer, thinks it was because of your amazing patience, commitment and "trust in the process" (lol)

Congrats on your offer but that doesn't mean everyone else will make it (it's statistically impossible for everyone who's interested in IB/similar jobs to make it in), it's mostly luck

And you are doing others a disservice. 

 
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Or you're not, and that's fine too.

Don't kill yourself trying to get a job that sucks at least as much as any other job.

Take a breath, grab some perspective.

You won't be able to jerk yourself off to your bank's logo like this poster, but it's really okay in the end.

Do something else, get experience, get an MBA and come back later - or realize that this just isn't for you. 

For 99% of people, it's really not the promised land, it's a job.

 

I agree. Students put so much pressure on themselves to get into banking, then once they get in the reality hits that it's a very over-glorified position. Then they put pressure on themselves to break into the buy-side. Then they realize that's not so different. then maybe they put pressure on themselves to get into an M7 MBA program, then after that the pressure comes back to break into another IB or buy-side role. The pursuit to be satisfied with where you are and what you have is never ending. 

 
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I can't relate to these weird posts at all.

Did anyone else just study consistently in college, do an internship or 2 and then make IB? I know I did - It's just a job, not winning an olympic gold medal.

Hardly consumed all my thoughts or faced heaps of rejection. Just one aspect of my life... obsessing over banking doesn't really improve your chances. Some college kids here need perspective.

 

Some people's life isn't handed to them on a silver platter. Let people talk about their achievements. You clearly went to a target school and are an affluent white kid. Also you work in DCM; it's not like that's a hard position to get anyway.

 

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