Absurd rent rant

S&T VP here. Know there have been many posts about this in the past but I need some sanity checks here as I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around renting a new apt.

Base:215k Comp this year was 415k, next year If all goes well, looking for 475-500k.

Parting ways with the roommate and getting my first place myself. Looking at 1BRs for 4000~. Have a car that costs 400 a month to park/insurance (no pmt/paid for car in cash) so all in expenses are looking at like 4700 with rent/car/utilities. Apt is not NYC but right outside. No other debts except credit card from normal spending which can be steep some months. Post 401k, each paycheck around 5k.

Girlfriend will move in with me next year so the single renting burden will be about a year/we’ll go 50/50 when she moves in taking my monthly back to about 2500. However if we break up (doubtful but who knows with women) it’ll all be on me for the foreseeable future so I’m thinking ahead. Household likely around 600-700k between me and her when she moves in.

Is this absurd? Can’t stomach the fact that I’ll be saving near 0 with 215k base comp until bonus season. Saving up for wedding/house in the next 5 years.

TL/DR- NYC area blows

16 Comments
 

I made a similar post recently. Was looking at something that’s $3500 but I’m on associate pay still.
 

I got comfortable with it because I’ve saved every bonus I’ve ever made - sitting around $500k NW with the recent run up in stocks.

If you’re a VP, I’m assuming your net worth is even higher than mine. Spending the entirety of your base is not crazy when bonus is over half of your comp and you have several hundred k saved. I probably spent a little more than my base this past year.

 

My all in comp last year was $120-$130k and I pay ~$3200/month for housing. But this is the cost of 1) ownership in 2) SoCal.

let’s just say I cut it close some months

 

Yeah I was going to say - I thought SoCal was bad but it isn't almost $5k for a one bedroom bad 

Commercial Real Estate Developer
 
Most Helpful

Is this absurd? Can’t stomach the fact that I’ll be saving near 0 with 215k base comp until bonus season. Saving up for wedding/house in the next 5 years.

But this is only half your income... I don't understand this reasoning.  You say that your "comp" is going to be nearly $500,000, but when it comes time to calculate your rent and savings you suddenly don't count 60% of it?  You make $700k as a household and you're griping about paying 60k/yr in rent?  I think the issue here is your expectations, not the reality of the rental market.

There is absolutely no chance that you can't find a luxury rental apartment just outside NYC for less than $4,000.  Five seconds of internet searching and I found luxury rental apartments for ~3,000.

 

I think it’s smart to live within the means of your base, but recognize that if you spend a large portion of that base on living expenses you’ll still be able to bank some or all of the bonus. You could also think rear-facing and only live on last year’s money that you already received. Takes some planning and a mental shift. The dollars are fungible regardless. With your household total comp this seems achievable.

I spend roughly 1/4 of my gross base salary on rent and would only go a little higher in rent, but my firm weighs heavily on carry with generally smaller bonuses. Even once we start getting distributions from this fund I’d be hesitant to rely on it instead of topping up investment accounts.

 

You can say NYC blows, but it's unlikely you'd make that kind of comp anywhere else (I'd imagine even Chicago takes a small hit?). You'd still be paying $2k - $3k for a solid place in most cheaper cities if you're living in an urban area, so figure you're paying an extra $2k a month to be in New York = $24k a year = you need to make about $40 - $50k more in New York to make up the difference. I think for sure you're making $50k more a year than if you lived anywhere else in the country. And by the way - also super rare in other cities in the country to find a gf/potential wife that's making $200k at a young age too. 

Back to the point though, I think $4k rent on $400k+ income isn't bad at all, plus it becomes way better if your gf is paying half. You mention if you break up - well if you break up, you don't need to save for that wedding/house anymore either!

 

Who said she's young? She might be a granny and he's worried she might not be around, you know - health-wise.

 
Lester Diamond

$4k rent on $500k comp is not a big deal…

Yeah 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Sapiente numquam voluptatibus perferendis dolorum aperiam id sunt. Voluptatem rem ratione placeat dicta id. Odio laboriosam eos rerum dolorem veniam qui. Sint similique et sunt mollitia molestias aut. Dolore voluptas explicabo voluptatum commodi odio quia deleniti delectus. Est quae natus ea voluptatum et et. Id beatae eum quas eaque delectus adipisci tempore.

Magni quibusdam ea et iure consequatur. Autem natus eos quis odit quod ipsum voluptatibus. Mollitia commodi iusto reiciendis enim et. Ratione quis explicabo laboriosam.

Career Advancement Opportunities

May 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.8%
  • JPMorgan 01 98.2%
  • Guggenheim Partners 01 97.7%
  • Morgan Stanley 07 97.1%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

May 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.4%
  • Morgan Stanley 01 98.8%
  • Evercore 01 98.2%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.6%
  • Banco Santander 01 97.1%

Professional Growth Opportunities

May 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.4%
  • Evercore No 98.8%
  • Morgan Stanley 05 98.2%
  • JPMorgan No 97.7%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.1%

Total Avg Compensation

May 2026 Investment Banking

  • Vice President (14) $434
  • Associates (43) $259
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (8) $210
  • 2nd Year Analyst (22) $179
  • Intern/Summer Associate (13) $156
  • 1st Year Analyst (75) $151
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (65) $101
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
3
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
4
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
5
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
6
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
7
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
8
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
9
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
10
Jamoldo's picture
Jamoldo
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”