Anyone here with a Sugarmama?

Young Back/Middle office guy here.

I never had the drive to make it into a front office investment banking role, but what I lack in work ethic I make up for in good looks & charm.

Lately I've been approached by quite a few slightly older female bankers who make a lot more money than I do.

Have any guys on this forum dated an economically superior woman? Was it uncomfortable to have them pay for everything? 

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This is the adult version of "hot for teacher". You're going to get a lot of "go get 'em!" responses, including mine. Now cue the Southpark scene and repeat after me: "Niiiiiiice"

Who pays is only uncomfortable if you make it that way. Offer to pay and be a gentleman, and if they insist who are you to refuse when you offered first? My only caution would be just don't dip the pen in company ink. Same industry, fine. Same company, pushing it. Same vertical or closer than that? Just give me a heads up so I can cook some popcorn first for that sh*tshow.

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I dated an older woman in my 20s who was loaded, but she still made me pay for dinners and everything because she said the ‘man is supposed to’.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

If you didn’t make it to IB, why did you select IB restructuring as your industry profile?

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