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“The only thing that helps is time really and truly” my best friend told me this when I was going through a rough break-up, he had been in a nasty one before, and it really was true. Prioritizing other relationships, friends, family, and just going out of your way to build new ones I found really helped me out. Improve yourself, fuck other sluts, and become obsessed with being a better person.

 

OP here, thanks for the advice. I wouldn’t say that the breakup itself was rough, I just feel like shit for not really thinking things through and not trying to even revive the relationship

 

Out of sight out of mind brother. Resist the temptation to look at her ig, vsco, etc. 

remember before you try to that every time you have it’s just made you hurt  

there will come a point where it doesn’t hurt to look and at that point you can look just to “keep up with what she’s doing” if you want

outside of that, try to find new girls to talk to. take some time alone but hit Hinge / mutual friends / chicks at bars when you’re good and try to spark something genuine. Meaningless cheek claps when I’m hurting only make me feel worse, just me tho 

 

She is not a perfect 10. Girls have a way of making themselves look better in photo than they are in person. Bunch of superficial scumbags. You broke up with her for a reason. Remember that.

If you do want her back though, just approach her again. Don't be desperate though. Act like you are doing her a favor by getting back with her.

 

Lol what did you do to her?

Btw for my original comment, I'm not saying to be an asshole. Be nice, but don't act desperate like you will crumble without her. Just be cool. I think you can make it happen if you're charismatic enough.

 

Bro my biggest personal advice that I’ve lived by is that whenever I’ve thought a girl was “the one” or whenever I thought I couldn’t recover or couldn’t ever do better... I’ve bounced back. I got over her, met someone better, etc. 

it might need to take a few “shes the one” breakups to fully realize this, but there are a ton of fucking fish out there bro. 
 

granted, everyone’s ideal girl has a lot of specific traits that narrow down the potential list pretty quickly, but there are tons of chicks out there probably looking for the same in you. Good luck boss, enjoy being single, take the time to heal and develop your own person and then get involved with the next when she comes around 

 

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