Former GS Head of M&A died aged 68 having worked until he was 64

Title says it all really - just saw this in the news. No doubt the guy would have been a baller and mega deal maker but it is just a bit of a reminder that at the end of the day this is just a job, and there is always a risk that you die having spent 2/3 of your life doing nothing but grinding and focusing on work.

Take a bit longer to do that work, go to the gym, actually see your friends and family, when you go on vacation actually switch off. This job is intense and a lot of fun but it is not life or death, nor is it worth missing out on key life events or ruining your physical and mental health for.

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Based on the most insightful WSO discussions, this sentiment resonates deeply with many in the finance community. The grind of high-stakes careers like investment banking often comes at the expense of health, relationships, and personal fulfillment. While the achievements of someone like the former GS Head of M&A are undoubtedly impressive, it serves as a stark reminder that balance is crucial.

The idea of work/life balance isn't just about leisure—it's about sustainability. As highlighted in WSO threads, taking time to focus on health, relationships, and personal growth can make you not only a better professional but also a more well-rounded and fulfilled individual. Whether it's hitting the gym, traveling, or simply disconnecting during vacations, these moments contribute to long-term success and happiness.

Remember, the job is a part of life, not the entirety of it. Prioritizing balance ensures you don't look back with regrets about missed opportunities outside of work.

Sources: Why are we Obsessed with "Work/Life Balance"?, Return to Office Sucks, Is work life balance really worth it when you are young?, Intern Burnout, Considering Full-Time

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Yeah because the years 68-88 are so great. I'd rather die early than go through the process of gradually losing my mobility, losing my mind, shitting and pissing in my pants in social environments and all the other fun things I would rather avoid. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

PhantomGhost:

he was a slave to the grind



I went to HBS, exited my company, now I'm just coasting 


By “exited my company” you mean you had your own business you sold off?

 

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