Getting serious about saving…

I’m deserving of some heat for asking this considering my job revolves around managing money but here we are…

I’ve always been quite the spender, and have supported that via working both since I began high school, as well as mooching off my parents.

Now that I’m getting closer to becoming independent, I’ve realized that I have to wake up and smell the coffee

It doesn’t help that I enjoy my gym membership, whole foods, and supplements, as well as the nights out that you might expect for a college student. Have I set myself up for failure?

How did you get yourself on a budget and get your finances on lock? TIA!

8 Comments
 

Something that works well for me is to remove money from my paycheck before it hits my bank account - I can't spend what isn't there. 401k's and high yield savings are your best friends.

Get your discretionary spending under control. Try a single month of really conservative spending to get a baseline. Use that to build a reasonable budget that doesn't cost you a fortune and let's you do some of the things you enjoy. 

 

My advice is going to sound counter-intuitive, but I would say first and foremost: change nothing and begin measuring your spending relative to what it yields. Basically, create an inventory of your expenses and see what the total damage is at the end of a given month. 

From there, look into what your top five discretionary expenses are and non-discretionary expenses. As some have pointed out, rent may very well be the overwhelming monthly spend as compared to the other quality of life purchases. The other may be alcohol/nights out. So if you can assess that and reduce just those, that'd make a much bigger impact than cutting out your gym membership, supplements and cofee combined. 

The goal is not to deprive yourself of things you enjoy, rather find out how to optimize your spending whilst saving a certain percent you think makes sense for larger purchases and retirement. Creating a cash sweep to auto-deposit money into your investments account, matching your 401k contributions and using other investment vehicles can be taken as a tactical next step once you've figured out how much you're willing to part with.  

 

I really like this approach, very analytical and a good visual which is what really works for me - spending less on nights out alone should save me a ton, I definitely don’t need to be a philanthropist buying rounds like I used

 

Also remember it’s about building habits to have success long term. Focus on building strong and good habits- start saving a little and ramp it up from there.

What has helped me is creating a spreadsheet that has a bunch of major life expenses laid out and my wealth by year. I have house, dream car, kids college, retirement, etc. basically figure out the life you want and how much you need to save.

i project mine very conservatively and figure if i beat my targets, it just means lower-to-no mortgage required, dream car earlier, or early retirement. But generally just seeing all the major purchases in my future and how much I need to save now is a huge help for me, otherwise it’s all too abstract.

 

Those are not crazy expenses? Lol gym membership / whole foods / supplements are all great and you need to have some fun as well at this age (trust me, very few 35 year olds love partying every night)

Try to cook at home a good amount and don't buy super expensive toys when you're young (cars, 10k watches, etc). And maintain a budget and don't let it scale with comp (i.e. going from 8yr single malt to 36yr once you get promoted)

For me, the main expenses I need to rationalize are a) food and b) dumb one-off stuff that just becomes chronic because of poor planning. Otherwise I don't think it's crazy

 
Most Helpful

Perferendis unde praesentium id molestias. Quia quam nihil veniam. Repellendus reiciendis dolor voluptatem et. Iure minima nam id et. Qui asperiores voluptas ipsam quisquam aperiam in. Sed voluptatibus sint nobis dolorem voluptas ex voluptas. Eos nobis et fugit harum qui.

Eos voluptas excepturi fuga. Animi rerum voluptate est et ut ex enim. Et quis consequatur error inventore. Ipsam debitis et et illo. Quo nesciunt aperiam consequatur repudiandae mollitia velit. Rerum architecto voluptatem praesentium. Rerum porro et rerum est in sit.

Adipisci qui ut sit. Eveniet tempore aliquid qui sunt atque magnam est.

Nostrum eos beatae deleniti. Est consectetur culpa illo eligendi autem.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.

Career Advancement Opportunities

November 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.5%
  • Moelis & Company 01 99.0%
  • JPMorgan 01 98.4%
  • Guggenheim Partners 02 97.9%
  • Morgan Stanley 06 97.4%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

November 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.5%
  • Morgan Stanley 02 99.0%
  • Evercore 01 98.4%
  • Banco Santander 02 97.9%
  • BMO Capital Markets 13 97.4%

Professional Growth Opportunities

November 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.5%
  • Moelis & Company 01 99.0%
  • Morgan Stanley 05 98.4%
  • Goldman Sachs 01 97.9%
  • JPMorgan No 97.4%

Total Avg Compensation

November 2026 Investment Banking

  • Vice President (16) $429
  • Associates (57) $264
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (8) $210
  • 2nd Year Analyst (29) $183
  • Intern/Summer Associate (16) $161
  • 1st Year Analyst (84) $151
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (77) $101
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
3
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
4
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
5
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
6
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
7
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
8
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
9
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
10
Mimbs's picture
Mimbs
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”