Got a girl's number. What now?

Yes, another one of these posts. I was talking to a girl at a party recently. She was attractive, I'm attractive, I made her laugh, blah blah blah. Long story short, she gave me her number. What the fuck do I do now? I see her in person quit a bit. Would it be better to ask her out in person? Most importantly what do I even say? Where do we meet up again? Don't call me autistic, I've never been in this position before. Thank guys.

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Hey, it was nice meeting you at X!

Thanks, it was nice meeting you too!

So what are you up to this week?

*talk about what's going on that week

Would you like to (coffee, food, etc.) at (free time for both)?

 

Ok. This sounds weird, but start texting her. Like don't just sit on her number and do nothing. Maybe send her something funny, relate to something you were talking about in person, etc, but don't just sit on her number. This is if she is actually into you, and this is not just the first girl you've ever talked to. (ie. If she was not actually into you, don't do what I just said). Maybe if you just met her once, don't ask her out yet. Wait till you see her a couple more times maybe. Just start texting her though. Build a relationship outside of class or whatever.

 

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