How has #metoo affected you, if at all, in how you deal with women?

How has #metoo affected you, if at all, as men? I am NOT a fan of #metoo, as a woman. I don't like it for reasons that may be different than your own. Since this is an anonymous board, I would appreciate your candidness.

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yeah i have actually. I heard about this guy in a story I read a while ago that said "hey good looking" to a woman and almost went to jail. I get that some women don't want to hear that kind of stuff, but really? She called that sexual harassment?

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"Skyywalker" I feel like this one is especially garbage

The amount of incel/men's rights posts from sub-500 SB accounts this past week has been comical. 8+ at my count.

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"QuiltEmerson" I swear to God, I'm gonna run out of MS because of these threads.

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Can we do something to stop relatively new accounts from turning the off topic forum into IncelOasis? All of these have sprung up recently:

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/record-number-of-american-men-no…

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/do-any-single-men-actually-like-…

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/what-woulddid-you-do-ifwhen-you-…

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/what-do-you-fill-in-as-genderrac…

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/selling-virginity-thoughts

https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/millennials-porn-addiction-and-e…

Along with plenty of other older threads that have been suddenly bumped, and not to mention this current monstrosity that contains the following actual quotes:

When I'm in an elevator or any confined space with women, I make sure that my arms are straight in front of me, lest they falsely accuse me of touching them inappropriately.
We as men are better off not even talking to women anymore for fear of how they might react
men can never say anything to women anymore, for fear that it will somehow be claimed as sexual assault or harassment

I know that white men in their 20's are the most discriminated against group in American and all, but maybe we could contain these kind of things to a "I blame my low T on liberals and porn addiction" megathread.

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You have to be extremely careful and mindful of every social context.

  1. When I go on a date, I text a few of my trusted friends that I'm out on a date and the location. That way, if we sleep together, and she accuses me of rape, I have an alibi.

  2. At work, I only discuss work related matter with women: no personal talk or even talk about how their weekend went. Strictly professional.

  3. When I'm in an elevator or any confined space with women, I make sure that my arms are straight in front of me, lest they falsely accuse me of touching them inappropriately.

In today's dark times, when bogus accusations can ruin a man, you can never be too safe.

 
"AMIsLife" Exactly. We as men are better off not even talking to women anymore for fear of how they might react

lolololololololololololololol.

"I don't know how to explain to you that you should care about other people."
 

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