How tf are you guys getting gf/bf

Literally just joined the workforce after 4 years of singlehood in college. So how tf do you guys get into serious relationships if coworkers are off limits?Literally all I do is work<-->home, and this covid environment is not so great for socializing

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People hate on online dating but imo it's the way to go.

Bars and clubs are full of thirsty drunk guys trying to score easy puss and loud music

Most girls despise the cold approach, and I know of some who will reject guys who do it out of principle

Meeting girls through friends or hobbies is too risky, you talk to a few girls in your yoga class and it doesn't go well, then it's forever awkward to be around them

 
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Listen here man, the 20’s is a long long time. Think about how much time has passed since you were 10 years old, to 20 years old. You literally went from a young child to a young man, you finished up middle school, did all of high school, and half of college.

Think about how many days and nights that is right there…. You’re gonna be okay. Take a deep breath and focus the fuck on yourself man, you’ll find something if you seek it. Don’t seek too hard, know you’re worth too.

It will all be okay my friend just give it some time for Christ’s sake

 
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Lol bro not sure why the girls around you are playing you, you've got a solid job man. All others shouldn't be too off either I'm assuming (looks/personality)Honestly this is making me attempt at dating apps, but I just think it's not romantic at all to meet your SO there.

 
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Female here. Dating is hard when work consumes most of your time but it is manageable if you make the time and effort. Really recommend finding a solid group of friends in the city (assuming you're somewhere like SF/NY/CHI) and do activities where you're most likely to run into the opposite gender. Bars, concerts, clubs, events, etc. are a few places to meet guys but more than often they're just looking for hook-ups. Also meeting guys through your friends is an easy and common way to find decent guys to date plus it eliminates some of the awkwardness since they aren't a total stranger off the internet. Lastly, use Hinge (it's probably the best dating app out there).

 

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