How To Make it Past VP in PE?

It's widely known that it is very difficult to make it past VP in PE. So what, in your experience or opinion, differentiates the people that actually make it past VP in PE?

Is it purely social skills? The ability to find good investments? Would love to hear your thoughts.

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1. Performance. This means high quality DD, proactive management of portcos, strong returns/portco performance, and starting to build circle of competence to source and close good investments.
2. Think like an investor/owner. Associates/VPs do deals to build resume. High returns are your resume as a Principal/MD. The best VPs already think like Principals/MDs in this regard.
3. Be part of growing organization. Senior PE seats are sparse and they only open at growing firms/funds.
4. Some luck involved. As is true with any senior level promotion across industries, there is going to be some luck involved with timing, relationships, macro, etc.

 

All important, but number four is probably the most relevant. As much as it may suck, sometimes people just get unlucky. Individuals in this industry will play favorites, shift workloads, and make decisions based on emotion rather than logistical output. You may find yourself having conversations with Partners, being exposed to investors leaving them with good impressions, or anything in between. May not matter at the moment, but five years later - boom. 

Now, luck won't matter at all if someone doesn't have the first three things you listed. I think those first three are the baseline minimum, and number four is the kicker that will really push certain players over the edge. Time is also a factor - unless someone is pigeonholed (in which case they should leave the group), eventually, that promotion will come around. Put in good work for long enough and the luck will even itself out. Now, whether an individual is up for the lengthy process is a personal decision, which I think is the biggest reason why so many folks don't make the 'cut' from VP -> Principal/Director. They grind their way up the totem pole, working their ass off as a VP5+ for years until eventually, another opportunity arises. That opportunity is better, and suddenly their life in the PE space is done. 

That's not a bad thing either. PE is usually not an end-all for a lot of folks, regardless of what their ambitions may seem like now. Transitioning out of the space into Corp Strat or upper management of other companies seems to be a pretty large chunk of people who are in this space. As for me personally, I'd kind of imagine something similar. I truly don't know if I'll ever make MD, nor am I sure that I want to. I am happy where I am now, and will continue to put in good work, but if another opportunity arises that's better for my family and me, then my work in this space is done. It's just personal preference. 

Great original comment, fcf_yield. Good stuff.

 

I have to agree with this. I’ve spent some time in both a LMM fund and a UMM/MF fund. I definitely felt like with the LMM fund I had to hustle a lot harder in terms of sourcing and relationship building, which I was pretty good at and enjoyed despite the pressure of it. Even when it comes to banked deals, you still need to get close with the bankers, closer than other sponsors at least because it is such a crowded space at that size of the market. At the large end of PE, I’ve found that sourcing is less critical. This is because there are far fewer competitors - like there’s only so many PE firms that are going to chase a $2.5bn building products deal for example and the bankers that cover the space (usually bulge brackets + a few elite boutiques) know who those firms are. It is exceptionally rare to find a proprietary deal at this size, everyone is a fiduciary and everything is super banked. But still, having ins with industry execs for diligence, and things like that are really important. 

 
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I have to agree with this. I've spent some time in both a LMM fund and a UMM/MF fund. I definitely felt like with the LMM fund I had to hustle a lot harder in terms of sourcing and relationship building, which I was pretty good at and enjoyed despite the pressure of it. Even when it comes to banked deals, you still need to get close with the bankers, closer than other sponsors at least because it is such a crowded space at that size of the market. At the large end of PE, I've found that sourcing is less critical. This is because there are far fewer competitors - like there's only so many PE firms that are going to chase a $2.5bn building products deal for example and the bankers that cover the space (usually bulge brackets + a few elite boutiques) know who those firms are. It is exceptionally rare to find a proprietary deal at this size, everyone is a fiduciary and everything is super banked. But still, having ins with industry execs for diligence, and things like that are really important. 

A man that has clearly actually done the job. Agree.

 

Are you at the LMM or UMM/MF fund now and why? Curious given the dynamics above, which make sense. 

One thing I've been thinking about is if large funds are actually easier day to day (other variables like team excluded of course) because of the lower dealflow and not having to be "always on" sourcing etc. Yet equally harder to progress given inability to differentiate yourself from being more than just a good process manager / analytical executor vs bringing in deals...

Also the competition dynamic is interesting - would you say for a given asset theres many more funds bidding in LMM vs megafund space (despite the MF space having far fewer assets, which everyone is already aware of)

 
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"Getting the picture", which is an abstraction for understanding what matters in the metagame and performing well against that.

Private equity is about earning fantastic sums through performance fees. That's it.

There are only two ways to do that.

  1. Raising a significant enough sum of money that performance fee income is favorable just from absolute scale
  2. Delivering attractive returns such that performance fee income is favorable from ... performance. 

This means that to earn a seat at the adult table, you have to prove your value as someone who can either get capital in the door or out the door.

It is unlikely that someone at the VP level at an established firm is going to get a lot of exposure to the fund investor conversation. This touches on the discussion in other comments about luck. If you're at a growing firm early in its lifecycle (second or third fund, not a top-heavy shop yet), taking the initiative to mine your b-school network or contacts from prior employers to bring LPs to the table will be received remarkably favorably. 

The other clear on-ramp to the partnership is doing good deals. That might mean sourcing, it might mean process. Process as in great diligence, great portfolio management, and to whatever extent possible, transaction structure.

Most people just show up to do the work. If you find a real way to 'do more', it will be noticed. If it isn't, take your ball and play elsewhere. Which ties back to that point about luck. Sometimes you can do something marvelous and get zero credit for it beyond a 'thanks, good work'. Don't stay at a place like that. 

I am permanently behind on PMs, it's not personal.
 

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