I have a friend who's doing a summer internship at a bank (not BB, but a smaller place).
His boss invited a bunch of the employees on his boat July 4th and all was good... until the boss broke out the Old School joint and started getting high.
The joint went around the group, and every employee took a hit... except my friend, who -- when the joint got to him -- politely said "No thanks" (my friend has never done drugs). The boss persisted for a bit, and ribbed my friend for being a wimp, but my friend was staunch in his refusal -- he wasn't gonna get high. Eventually, the boss relented and that was that.
But my friend said ever since then, the boss has a been kind of cold to him at the office. Not outright hostile or anything, but definitely things seem...* off *between the two. Almost like his boss is pissed at him that he didn't partake in the pot.
So now my friend is wondering if he made a major mistake not getting high with the boss -- that maybe he won't get asked back, or even get a bad recommendation that he's not a "team player." (Yeah, that sounds stupid, but that's what he's worried about).
So what's the proper pot protocol when the boss wants you to get high? Or even just get drunk with him, even if you're not a big drinker? Would most of you put aside your principles and just take a toke?
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