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2/10/12

Is there a certain number? Is there a point where you start to wonder "damn, wtf am I doing with my life?"

I was recently watching an episode of how I met your mother where Barney is trying to find the perfect lay for his 200th. And it got me thinking at what point does it become too much?

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2/10/12

200th is pretty impressive...

But I can't shake the feeling that by 30 or so, I'd like to be settled down...

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2/10/12

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

2/11/12
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

I didn't say it was your fault, I said I was blaming you.

2/11/12
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

2/11/12
Angus Macgyver:
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

Sounds gay to me. You might as well tell him to bang Elton John

By the way, why would he hits on girls when he is looking for women?

So you want him to become a pedophile like some catholic priest?

You got a sad and twisted mind. May God Bless your soul cause you need prayer.

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

2/12/12
Angus Macgyver:
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

Don't forget that you should be taller than women with high heels in most cases.

2/11/12
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

1 - I'm a little older than most of you (mid 30s). So as Eddie pointed out, after a few years 100 is really not as high a number as you think it is. But of course you don't get there by accident. I think my real number is 130+ (ish)

2 - I'm tall - 6'4". That helps :). I have yet to meet a woman that likes a short guy over a tall guy. Not trying to hate on the short guys. Women are just pre wired to like tall guys.

3 - Be confident and assertive. Forget all the women's lib bullshit, women like a man that takes the lead and are dominant in the relationship. Don't ask her, TELL her. Don't be an asshole, but be firm. "is it ok if I pick you up? When will you be ready? Where would you like to go?". WRONG. Try this instead: "I will be at your place at 7 and I have a reservation for us at this restaurant that I want to go to and I think you look great in your blue skirt and would appreciate it if you wore it for me tonight . . .". Sure, it's not going to work for everyone, but just try it, you might be surprised at the results.

4 - you gotta have some game. A wise man once told me that women like a man who cooks. It's true. You invite a woman over, pour some wine, have some flowers for her, cook a dinner for both of you. Keep a nice & clean place with some music in the backround and, fughedaboudit, her panties will just slip off, you wont even have to try.

5 - you gotta know shit about the world. I have this theory that women are turned on by learning things. Teaching them things makes then want you in some primal way. I'm a voracious reader on current events so I tend to talk about those things. I also read about (and enjoy) wine & cigars and teach women about that. This is all just a theory of course but it's worked well for me.

I'm sure there's other things that im forgetting right now (didn't list any of the bedroom stuff) but this will get you started :)

2/11/12

I'm saving myself for marriage.

Under my tutelage, you will grow from boys to men. From men into gladiators. And from gladiators into SWANSONS.

2/11/12

I am still waiting for some jaded guy to say, "One."...

2/11/12
God of Wine:

I am still waiting for some jaded guy to say, "One."...

The OP can't get any. So One is a lot for him

One One One One

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

2/11/12

I remember thinking 100 was a HUGE number when I was 19 and the first of my friends passed the century mark at 23 (he commemorated the occasion with a party and a hot Asian hooker). As you get older you realize that 100 is just an average of 10 over 10 years, which you'll probably hit by accident if you just make it to dollar drink night once a week.

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Until you get to be my age, that is, and it's a minor miracle that anyone will sleep with you at all.

2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I remember thinking 100 was a HUGE number when I was 19 and the first of my friends passed the century mark at 23 (he commemorated the occasion with a party and a hot Asian hooker). As you get older you realize that 100 is just an average of 10 over 10 years, which you'll probably hit by accident if you just make it to dollar drink night once a week.

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Until you get to be my age, that is, and it's a minor miracle that anyone will sleep with you at all.

So Tonton Edmundo, tell us. Which one of your wives/ex -wives is better?

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Tis the curse of being a man.

Capitalist

2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better..

Eddy , which one of your wives is a better fucker?

Do you compare them to each other like you said in your post?

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

7/15/14

Edmundo Braverman:

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked.

True Dat!

2/11/12

Counting after 5-10 is pretty lame, what are you trying to justify your masculinity through your number? I have a good idea of the range of my number but to be honest there has been so many 2nd shots or more that months later you're giving it another go and you really lose track of whether this is the first time with this girl or you've already had sex with her a few times before.

2/11/12

As many of the poster before me has pointed out; After a couple of years with a normal sex drive you've most likely slayed 50+ laidies/dragons. I don't know my exact number, but it is somewhere in the range of 50-70 as I don't keep tab on who I've done before in an inebriated state at 4 in the morning.

A tip is never to ask a woman/girl/lady/dragon if you've slept together before because you recognize the motions. Can't possibly turn out good for you.

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2/11/12

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

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2/11/12
Lotin:

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

I still get 10-15 in HS.

Under my tutelage, you will grow from boys to men. From men into gladiators. And from gladiators into SWANSONS.

2/11/12
Flake:
Lotin:

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

I still get 10-15 in HS.

it's really not that hard

Coming from the inner city, where we had about 5 different high schools around.
get 2 chicks from each high school and a couple from your own.

2/11/12

Anyone else notice a trend all of us traders are triple digits while the bankers want to settle down?:p

2/11/12

Lotin, his comment went right over your head.

2/11/12
txjustin:

Lotin, his comment went right over your head.

I just read it over, lmaoooooo

2/11/12

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

2/11/12
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

2/11/12
IamObama:
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

Nice try.

"Thus, in total, 21 percent of the men and 15 percent of the women admitted they had lied and/or they had provided an inaccurate partner count. "
"Analyzing the responses of these admitted liars, whom Brown calls "self-incriminators," compared to other respondents who said they were telling the truth, he found that self-incriminators composed more than half of all respondents who said they had had more than 50 lifetime sex partners."
http://www.physorg.com/news10824.html

Most of those who state 50+ numbers are liars. Here people are boasting about triple digits.

2/15/12
etherlord:
IamObama:
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

Nice try.

"Thus, in total, 21 percent of the men and 15 percent of the women admitted they had lied and/or they had provided an inaccurate partner count. "
"Analyzing the responses of these admitted liars, whom Brown calls "self-incriminators," compared to other respondents who said they were telling the truth, he found that self-incriminators composed more than half of all respondents who said they had had more than 50 lifetime sex partners."
http://www.physorg.com/news10824.html

Most of those who state 50+ numbers are liars. Here people are boasting about triple digits.

The problem is NYC is a whole other beast. While 6 may be the correct average of the nation, let's say, most people in ANY other city do not go out like we go out EVERY night. Just by chance alone if you go 50% of the business year, say 125 nights, you would score at least 20 women a year. It sounds high, but look at the wider net you're casting. If a guy in Boise fucking Idaho goes out three times in a year and goes home each time he has scored 100% of the time. I'm sure people on here are exaggerating, but going on my own experience, which is well over 100 and my friend I go out with is easily over 300, it's not that unbelievable. I even have a spreadsheet I started way back when to keep track of my numbers.

2/11/12
IamObama:
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

http://wallstreetprep.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=1000&source=600x400

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

many of which are probably hanging out around here during a saturday ;)

Capitalist

2/15/12

valentines day is definitely the best time to make rape jokes

2/11/12

I got more in HS then i'll end up with when I graduate undergrad in May. But I think that has a lot to do with the fact that I started young, was an All American athlete in HS, i'm short which has started to hurt me more, and my undergrad is full of trolls. I shouldn't have to work so hard for a 6 but apparently 7's are like the holy grail here.

Also, this is true for me but i'm sure it's true for other guys as well, I rather have a girl who i'm steadily having sex and I know I can always go back to than having to work hard every time I go out. Fuck buddies ftw.

2/11/12

I find those numbers impossible to believe. With the exception of one hetero guy I know in that age range, I've personally watched most of my friends smash more than six randoms. Not as in "watched them in the act" - that would just be creepy. As in, watched them go home with more than 6 sluts over the years.

There has to have been an explosion in vocations to the clergy just to skew the numbers from my crew alone down to 6.1.

2/11/12

I hope I hit 100 some day....

Competition is a sin.

-John D. Rockefeller

2/11/12

6.1 isn't that hard to imagine when you take into account the amount of religious people in the world who believe in monogamous relationships (or even having 4 wives still puts you under the 6.1 number)

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2/11/12

ether you seriously dont have any manwhore friends who have slayedmore than 6 people?

im pretty sure ratinamaze has even slept with over six

2/11/12
shorttheworld:

ether you seriously dont have any manwhore friends who have slayedmore than 6 people?

im pretty sure ratinamaze has even slept with over six

Six - yeah, sure. 30-50 - possible. But 200 in their 20s?
To hit 200, you have to have sex with a new girl every week, 4 years in a row.

Unless they have plenty of time and money to spare, are above average looking, don't ever have relationships, and bang fat/ugly skanks/buy escorts, I would say that's highly improbable.

IMHO, chances of encountering someone like that on a banker forum filled with 4.0 GPA nerdy kids is close to zero. Chances of encountering liars obsessed with status are, however, extremely high.

2/11/12

an average of SIX means youre waiting YEARS to sleep with a diff girl

2/11/12

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

Calling Ron Paul an isolationist is like calling your neighbor a hermit because he doesn't come over to your property and break your windows.

2/11/12
Leonidas:

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

I don't discriminate against fatties, they tend to be the real freaks and I like my women a little freaky. Not my preference, but I'm not hating on them either. I agree about the solid 6s. Most 9s and 10s are a pain in the ass to deal with anyways and I get tired of that shit quickly.

2/11/12
Leonidas:

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

I don't discriminate against fatties, they tend to be the real freaks and I like my women a little freaky. Not my preference, but I'm not hating on them either. I agree about the solid 6s. Most 9s and 10s are a pain in the ass to deal with anyways and I get tired of that shit quickly.

2/13/12
Leonidas:

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

I'm sorry but that's just lazy behavior and a total lack of attention to detail. Keep a 6 cum bucket on the back burner so you can chase the 9/10's and still have a backup plan when you blow up at 4 AM.

2/13/12
greengohome:
Leonidas:

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

I'm sorry but that's just lazy behavior and a total lack of attention to detail. Keep a 6 cum bucket on the back burner so you can chase the 9/10's and still have a backup plan when you blow up at 4 AM.

Maybe I should have explained further. First off, when I say 6s, I refer to girls with tight bodies, and an average face. I need sex more than the average man. If I'm in a dry spell, I find myself grumpy and downright irritable. It's not like I prefer 6s to 9s, but when I walk into a bar, (I don't drink, so the only reason I go to bars is to get with chicks) I immediately scout out chicks who look the least like a frigid bitch. And due to the fact that there are more 6s-7s than 8s-9s, more often than not, I end up with the former.

IMO, people should realize what dating actually is - cheap sex (getting a nice hooker sets you back by at least a couple grand). That is why I prefer "relationships" to one-night-stands. That way, I get to have sex with the least amount of effort.

I chase after 9s-10s when my friends and I are out at the bar. It's sort of like playing beer-pong to me tbh - fun but the results hardly matter. Ravenous is right btw, acting like an asshole works the best with 9s-10s (provided you have some game). But the sex I have with 9s isn't fundamentally different from that with 6s.

I think that getting to a 100 is hardly impossible. I had sex with 20-30, my median score was around 7, and ranged from 6-9s (I made it a point to never sleep with below 6s). I'm in my early 20s. The point is that if I cruised into about 30 chicks by now, without even caring about the number, it's not that much of a stretch to imagine a guy getting to 100 by his late 20s, actively pursuing triple digits.

SLE, your frat bro has the right idea.

Also, never ask women what their number is, they will vastly under-state the actual number. I always assume that a typical girl has had sex with an average of 10 guys ever since she was 15.

Lastly stop comparisons with the average male, because the average male fails out of middle school, works menial jobs, has minor retardation, and is a social reject.

Calling Ron Paul an isolationist is like calling your neighbor a hermit because he doesn't come over to your property and break your windows.

2/11/12

I'll probably end up around 30-50.

2/12/12

42...

2/12/12

How the hell did you start in HS? I'm pretty sure only Andover is fine with that. Exeter, Choate, DA, Hotchkiss, Lawrenceville, Loomis are quite serious.

2/15/12
michael grimes:

How the hell did you start in HS? I'm pretty sure only Andover is fine with that. Exeter, Choate, DA, Hotchkiss, Lawrenceville, Loomis are quite serious.

Have you ever been to the golf course at hotchkiss after dark?

2/12/12

If you get with 100+ diff women, what's the probability that some of them had a STD? Someone create a probability distribution (I don't know the STD statistics). Plus the women who are likely to get down sooner have higher chances of having an STD.

6.1 over lifetime can make sense.... women tend to underestimate that number, men over-exaggerate it... it equals out. Then also incorporate normal Americans. Being on WSO, on average, we are probably more exposed to the party scene in college (only a fraction of Americans receive their bachelors), we probably make more $ to our peers (finance jobs pay well and women prefer $ makers), etc.

The math for 100+ seems simple (~1 girl per month, within a decade)... but that seems like a lot of work. Plus you have to assume that you will settle down if you find the "right one" even if for a few months.

I'm taking the 10-15 in h.s. and 40-50 in college with a grain of salt... actually overdosing on salt. I don't believe that whatsoever. You would have to be the star QB or super wealthy kid to pull that off... on top of just surrounding yourself around sluts.

2/12/12

and having money has nothing to do with anything... women like cool guys... money helps to a degree but if you are a nerd.. you are a nerd

2/12/12
monty09:

and having money has nothing to do with anything... women like cool guys... money helps to a degree but if you are a nerd.. you are a nerd

.

Most people in Finance were/are nerds to an extent and those with money don't seem to have a problem. Let's face it. Where I live, men with money have access to hot, beautiful women with the right pedigree in some cases as well. Think Penelope in Trading Places. When you're Louis Winthorpe, you get access to high caliber women. Women are wired to want someone who is successful. Goes back to the wild when the man had go out and hunt. I've had two women in the past few months ask me how much do people in my profession make as a sly prequalifier.

2/12/12

The vast majority of people don't have a bunch of sexual partners in HS. Not sure why people keep assuming 10-15 partners in HS, for most it's about 1-2 max. I had a decent amount in HS but I was probably the only person I know that had more than 3-4 in HS.

2/12/12

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

2/12/12
monty09:

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

Yes, I get that half this thread has been about you bragging. I also played a d1 sport before having a career ending injury and I also was with a lot of chicks in HS. But the point being that if you looked around you, realized we were talking about averages, you would see that most kids aren't banging a lot of girls in HS. In the US the average age for a kid to lose his virginity is 17. Which means Junior/Senior year. Assuming that most of these kids are in legit relationships when they lose their virginity you would expect most to have slept with 1-2 girls in HS, which is what seems to be the norm if I think about people I know from my HS.

2/12/12
bears1208:
monty09:

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

Yes, I get that half this thread has been about you bragging. I also played a d1 sport before having a career ending injury and I also was with a lot of chicks in HS. But the point being that if you looked around you, realized we were talking about averages, you would see that most kids aren't banging a lot of girls in HS. In the US the average age for a kid to lose his virginity is 17. Which means Junior/Senior year. Assuming that most of these kids are in legit relationships when they lose their virginity you would expect most to have slept with 1-2 girls in HS, which is what seems to be the norm if I think about people I know from my HS.

not bragging but for someone to say flat out its bs is dumb... not everyone falls into the under 10 for life bucket.. and while most will... you will have many who are 5-15x over that number...

sorry you got hurt bud... i had a bad injury my freshman that I thought would end my playing... def sucks

2/12/12

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

2/12/12
monty09:

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

Exactly, I mentioned that earlier.

Not everyone went to private schools Exeter, Deerfield, etc... When you're in the inner city, it is easier.
And who was that kid that posted a few weeks ago saying it was easier picking up chicks I the city instead of his small town. That's how I look at it.

2/13/12
monty09:

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

A couple of the guys I played sports with in high school had 3-4 kids with different girls before they were college age (not that they went), also at an inner city high school.

2/16/12
monty09:

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

Every 10 inner city girls on your "scorecard" counts as 1 regular white suburban girl, you're counting your stats in D3 and most of this forum played in the SEC.

2/12/12

Use the Internet and see exponential growth

2/12/12

and i would not call any hs relationship "legit"

2/12/12

shouldn't the numbers balance out in the end?

a lot of the women i know (from big cities, good looking, not socially awkward), usually say the've had on average about 4-5 partners so far. I would argue that they are probably under-counting a bit, and it's more around 6-9.

I wouldn't be surprised if a couple of people here have hit really high numbers, but probably a lot more are still in the single digits...

Capitalist

2/12/12
esbanker:

shouldn't the numbers balance out in the end?

a lot of the women i know (from big cities, good looking, not socially awkward), usually say the've had on average about 4-5 partners so far. I would argue that they are probably under-counting a bit, and it's more around 6-9.

I wouldn't be surprised if a couple of people here have hit really high numbers, but probably a lot more are still in the single digits...

one thing i have learned is that girls under-count big-time. Any single girl in her mid 20s in a big city who hasnt had a long-term boyfriend is going to have big numbers but she will never admit it. I would say average single girl in her mid 20s in NYC has slept with 30 guys at least and thats assuming she didnt go crazy in college. But she will tell u 10 until it is clear you dont care.

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2/12/12

agree

2/12/12

I think region matters much more, too. I go to a school in the south with about 6000 undergrads, but I think most girls are a little more conservative here. Probably doesn't make a huge difference, but it is the bible belt after all.

2/12/12

you are all liars or homos. average hetero male has 6 partners over a lifetime, lesbo has 5, hetero female around 5, and gay men 200+.

2/12/12

HIV WILDFIRE

2/12/12
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Get busy living

2/12/12
UFOinsider:
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Yeah, when chicks make it too easy it makes me think about how many other times they've basically just opened their legs for random dudes... n I like peeing without my penis burning, so I'm real careful with that

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/12/12
UFOinsider:
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Keep in mind that I'm one of the guys in the 100+ club so I've done research on this. First, the rate of transmission from male to female (unprotected) is very low. The numbers are slightly higher for guys who are not circumcised since the foreskin can help transmission. With a condom it drops to virtually zero for all males. It increases a little for anal sex but as the male, it's still a low rate. I forget what the rates are for giving oral sex (make to female) but i know theyre not as high as most people think. I believ its something in the 2% range. By far the riskiest activity you can do is gay sex where you are being penetrated, very high rate of transmission in that scenario. Finally, its no secret that some races have higher incidents of HIV than others. Not trying to hate, but there are some that I will rarely sleep with out of the increased risk.

2/12/12

i'm moving to new york next week and just got out of a 4 year relationship. assuming i am the golden god i claim to be, how many should i expect in the first month, six months, year, etc?

2/12/12

I'm kinda surprised at all the small minds in this thread. Some of you went to really small schools, in small towns, with very few people and you, most likely, have no game. So you say, "I've only had 3 partners therefore it's impossible for anyone to have 100!!!!ONE!!!"

Well some of us grew up in large metro areas went to large schools and large colleges. Oh, and also have some game :). It's very possible, even likely, to rack up these numbers. Again, I'm older than most (all?) of you so it's really not hard to get to 100. All I'm saying is that it's completely dumb for anyone to say these numbers are impossible just because your small circle of friends and you have a dozen chicks combined . . .

2/12/12
GentlemanJack:

I'm kinda surprised at all the small minds in this thread. Some of you went to really small schools, in small towns, with very few people and you, most likely, have no game. So you say, "I've only had 3 partners therefore it's impossible for anyone to have 100!!!!ONE!!!"

Well some of us grew up in large metro areas went to large schools and large colleges. Oh, and also have some game :). It's very possible, even likely, to rack up these numbers. Again, I'm older than most (all?) of you so it's really not hard to get to 100. All I'm saying is that it's completely dumb for anyone to say these numbers are impossible just because your small circle of friends and you have a dozen chicks combined . . .

I don't think anyone is saying it's impossible (I know i'm not). I know for sure one of my friends has hit triple digits and another is on his way. That said, the fact that the thread was instantly invaded with half of WSO claiming to have fucked enough women to fill the hudson makes the veracity of those statements a bit dubious. I believe you, especially since you said you are in your thirties. But I think where the thread went sideways was when it seemed that 1) people were using it to talk about how awesome they were and 2) when those same people were acting like there is no way that 6 is average.

I had sex with more than 6 people by the time I was 17 (though I doubt I ever hit more than 30ish). But it doesn't surprise me that the number is that low. At 22 years old I can look on FB and see 80% of my HS class married/getting married/in a relationship that is leading toward marriage. And most of those people have not fucked more than 6 at this point in their lives. Likewise, at my second ugrad roughly 75% of the kids are trolls, super nerdy, or have aspergers. If you really think about it, it seems clear that it is in no way likely that the average person will rack up the type of numbers you are talking about; even the average single man won't. I say good for you and I hope that I will if I stay single that long.

2/12/12

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

2/12/12
whatwhatwhat:

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

"higher quality" is much too subjective. So the answer has to be no.

2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
whatwhatwhat:

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

"higher quality" is much too subjective. So the answer has to be no.

George Carlin never did a ten, but he did five twos?

Get busy living

2/13/12

You should sleep with as many girls as it takes to find the one you want to keep.

2/13/12

Take whatever number Wilt Chamberlin had achieved and add +1 to it. That is too many.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12

Take whatever number Wilt Chamberlin had achieved and add +1 to it. That is too many.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I love that someone else uses the term "strange!"

In college we loved the lingo, "I'm tryin' to get some strange ass tonight."

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12

How many times using your right or left hand will equal sex with a girl?

I eat success for breakfast...with skim milk

2/13/12

A lot of people in this thread are definitely lying. I used to read a couple of game blogs by guys who have dedicated their entire lives to banging as many different women as possible. I mean, they are fucking hardcore about it. Some of them don't even work, all they do is try to pick up women and fuck them.

And these guys, most of them are between 100 and 200 in their 30s or early 40s. They don't have anything special going for them like lots of money, athlete status, etc. but they have mad game and that's the best they can do.

Think about that. If your "job" was to fuck women and all you did was work on your game, and you "only" got to 150, how can the average schmoe on this website come even close to that? The guys working in finance make good money, that's true, but they're also mostly fat, stressed and boring as hell with little time to go out and meet women.

Further, a lot of the things people are saying on this website obviously don't work in real life. Buy her flowers and cook her dinner? BAHAHAHA alright, have fun with a bottle of lube and some kleenex.

Seriously, this thread is bullshit. Sorry, you are not all Tucker Max.

2/13/12
Ravenous:

A lot of people in this thread are definitely lying. I used to read a couple of game blogs by guys who have dedicated their entire lives to banging as many different women as possible. I mean, they are fucking hardcore about it. Some of them don't even work, all they do is try to pick up women and fuck them.

And these guys, most of them are between 100 and 200 in their 30s or early 40s. They don't have anything special going for them like lots of money, athlete status, etc. but they have mad game and that's the best they can do.

Think about that. If your "job" was to fuck women and all you did was work on your game, and you "only" got to 150, how can the average schmoe on this website come even close to that? The guys working in finance make good money, that's true, but they're also mostly fat, stressed and boring as hell with little time to go out and meet women.

Further, a lot of the things people are saying on this website obviously don't work in real life. Buy her flowers and cook her dinner? BAHAHAHA alright, have fun with a bottle of lube and some kleenex.

Seriously, this thread is bullshit. Sorry, you are not all Tucker Max.

You can believe whatever you choose to believe. Your opinion of it doesn't change my stance or my number. I'm telling you exactly what to do with women to get to those numbers, you refuse to do it, and then call everyone a liar. So you haven't tried anything new and yet still believe that you are absolutely correct. That doesn't make any sense.

2/13/12

My best friend is a frat-star with endless amounts of girls after him and his number is < 30. I'm a decent looking guy who works out, can socialize, etc and my number is < 15. 50+ seems completely unrealistic before your 30s unless you have zero filter and/or a ton of free-time. In my experience (granted only hs + college) you have to go through at least one prude hookup before they give it up. Plus most guys I've seen get laid in college end up with long-term girlfriends which doesn't really contribute to this >100 theory.

So yea I don't know about some of these numbers.

2/13/12

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

2/13/12
spaceagecowboy:

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

You don't have to go overseas for that. I'm convinced that the single demographic that gets laid the most is a male junior college professor. See my previous post - there's something about being in a position to teach women that turns them on. I have a friend that teaches at a juco and he gets more tail than you can imagine and his male colleagues are all the same way. If you are a decent guy, get your masters and teach at a juco you'll be at 100 in no time.

2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
spaceagecowboy:

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

You don't have to go overseas for that. I'm convinced that the single demographic that gets laid the most is a male junior college professor. See my previous post - there's something about being in a position to teach women that turns them on. I have a friend that teaches at a juco and he gets more tail than you can imagine and his male colleagues are all the same way. If you are a decent guy, get your masters and teach at a juco you'll be at 100 in no time.

I think we can conclude which group do you belong to on the basis of your post.

A junior professor would be an idiot to sleep with one of his students, even if he was handsome enough to get every girl in his class interested. Here is the reason: there is such a thing as sexual harassment policy at any university. And it explicitly prohibits professors from dating their students - ask your university HR department. Untenured professor is not going to risk his career for it - that happens very rarely, maybe once in several years with one professor on the whole campus. Raking up triple digits by banging his students in his position is not extremely unlikely, it is impossible. At least in the US, but maybe the universities sponsor orgies for their professors in Taiwan, who knows?

I taught at a university and at a community college at one point. The university was one of the top party schools in the US. I also know people who taught, and people who teach at those places, as well as other universities and colleges, so I have a very good idea what I am talking about.

2/13/12
etherlord:

I think we can conclude which group do you belong to on the basis of your post.

A junior professor would be an idiot to sleep with one of his students, even if he was handsome enough to get every girl in his class interested. Here is the reason: there is such a thing as sexual harassment policy at any university. And it explicitly prohibits professors from dating their students - ask your university HR department. Untenured professor is not going to risk his career for it - that happens very rarely, maybe once in several years with one professor on the whole campus. Raking up triple digits by banging his students in his position is not extremely unlikely, it is impossible. At least in the US, but maybe the universities sponsor orgies for their professors in Taiwan, who knows?

I taught at a university and at a community college at one point. The university was one of the top party schools in the US. I also know people who taught, and people who teach at those places, as well as other universities and colleges, so I have a very good idea what I am talking about.

Take it easy there Dr. Doolittle . . .

I am not a professor of any kind, so you can kill about 90% of your ASSumptions right there. Second, I never said he dated them during class. Most women think it's a slick move to hand in their course evaluations with their phone number on it - he gets at least 2 or 3 every quarter, every class he teaches. Besides, he doesn't teach the entire damn campus, there are other women out there that aren't his students, you know?

2/13/12

I don't understand why people keep making the claim "the average person." The "average person" is a fucking retard, so of course they wont be able to achieve such numbers. But it's impossible for one to assume that everyone on this forum is "the average person." While some could be lying it's more than likely that most are telling the truth espesically knowing many of the members outside of this forum. So to those of you saying ZOMG no way everyone on this forum has asbergers that just isn't true. There are manhores among us it is alright you can accept it.

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WSO is not your personal search function.

2/13/12

Saying I haven't tried anything new is definitely not correct. I don't do anything by the book or standard. I can't remember ever taking a girl out for a dinner date at a restaurant, let alone my place, for example. The most recent girl I fucked, the conversation started with me saying "Fuck you" to her after she asked me to buy her a drink. I banged her less than an hour later. I've had two girls propose to me in the last 3 months (neither of which I was dating), one offer to move in (unsolicited), and have been propositioned by 3 married women. I wouldn't consider doing anything on your list, ever. If it works for you, that's great, but you are definitely in the minority with that approach. My approach is to be fit, interesting, aloof, and slightly cruel in a humorous way. Women date up, so all you have to do is be higher value than she is. There is no wooing involved, which, by definition, places the value on her (that's a losing stance).

You may have hit 100+, I really don't care. But most people in this thread are lying.

2/13/12

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

2/13/12
bears1208:

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

Thanks for the backup in teaching these young pups . . . the one's who say that cooking for a woman doesn't work are just plain wrong.

You don't need to be a Michelin chef but you do need some skills. I have some wine ready (not 2 buck chuck), an appetizer of cheeses and Italian meats to eat while you cook. Then I either grill up some steaks or make a chicken dish of some kind. Trader Joes is good for this since they have a ton of things that are prepped and ready for the grill. You serve dinner at a proper table with napkins and place settings and then serve dessert (it can be pre-made, no one expects desserts from scratch) while sitting on the couch with music playing. Keep the wine flowing throughout the night and let everything else run it's course, you won't even have to try. If you can't bat a thousand while doing this then you're either (1) dating too many bull dykes or (2) lame.

2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
bears1208:

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

Thanks for the backup in teaching these young pups . . . the one's who say that cooking for a woman doesn't work are just plain wrong.

You don't need to be a Michelin chef but you do need some skills. I have some wine ready (not 2 buck chuck), an appetizer of cheeses and Italian meats to eat while you cook. Then I either grill up some steaks or make a chicken dish of some kind. Trader Joes is good for this since they have a ton of things that are prepped and ready for the grill. You serve dinner at a proper table with napkins and place settings and then serve dessert (it can be pre-made, no one expects desserts from scratch) while sitting on the couch with music playing. Keep the wine flowing throughout the night and let everything else run it's course, you won't even have to try. If you can't bat a thousand while doing this then you're either (1) dating too many bull dykes or (2) lame.

Someone sticky this shit.

2/13/12

If you're teaching at a juco, haven't you already pretty much failed in life? I mean, seriously. How much worse is it gonna get if you get caught pounding out co-eds?

2/13/12
Edmundo Braverman:

If you're teaching at a juco, haven't you already pretty much failed in life? I mean, seriously. How much worse is it gonna get if you get caught pounding out co-eds?

Most juco gigs are part time for other work. You only need a masters to teach at most (some you can teach with a Bachelors) so teaching at one isn't necessarily a failure.

2/14/12
Edmundo Braverman:

If you're teaching at a juco, haven't you already pretty much failed in life? I mean, seriously. How much worse is it gonna get if you get caught pounding out co-eds?

Bahahahahahahahahaha. Give this man bananas please. +1.

2/13/12

100+ isn't impossible...

supposedly Charlie Sheen fucked over 4,000 women...

2/13/12

TBF, one of my good buddies is as adjunct at Ole Miss while working in state public policy, and he has fucked two students, both who apparently went out of there way to trick him into thinking they weren't undergrads.

2/13/12

Now on possibility to score triple digits in general...

I actually know someone who is above 200 range (actually in 400+ range). The guy is in his late 30s, looks like a Greek god, is wealthy with plenty of time to spare, and is obsessed with women. He is batshit crazy about increasing the number. He even has an Excel spreadsheet to track the women.

That type of a guy is on the far right side of the long tail of the distribution. It is theoretically possible that people like that do post in this thread - at the end of the day, WSO has gazillion users. However, it is very unlikely.

2/13/12
etherlord:

Now on possibility to score triple digits in general...

I actually know someone who is above 200 range (actually in 400+ range). The guy is in his late 30s, looks like a Greek god, is wealthy with plenty of time to spare, and is obsessed with women. He is batshit crazy about increasing the number. He even has an Excel spreadsheet to track the women.

That type of a guy is on the far right side of the long tail of the distribution. It is theoretically possible that people like that do post in this thread - at the end of the day, WSO has gazillion users. However, it is very unlikely.

That is hilarious... an Excel spreadsheet lol.

He is def an outlier though. But I agree with Ravenous.I don't even see many good guy candidates getting to 100. It's not that easy to hook up with random girls consistently for a decade. People are also underestimating relationships (which are quite time consuming). Plus the game eventually gets old.

2/13/12
mb666:

He is def an outlier though. But I agree with Ravenous.I don't even see many good guy candidates getting to 100. It's not that easy to hook up with random girls consistently for a decade. People are also underestimating relationships (which are quite time consuming). Plus the game eventually gets old.

Why do you view it as impossible? Over ten years it's only about a new girl every 6 weeks. Over 15 years (ie 20-35) it only becomes about 6-7 girls a year. You would only view that as impossible if youre lacking self confidence. And if you lack that then you'll be lucky to get laid even one time kiddo.

Plus I'm not talking about 100 relationships, I'm talking about two people having fun behind closed doors. What are you doing? Taking them to ice cream socials at the 4H club??? Gimme a break. Be a man. Dress like a man. Be assertive. Don't ask her, tell her. Take the lead and you might be surprised at the results.

2/13/12

Look, no one said 100 is impossible. I said people on this thread are lying. I know people who claim to have done more than 100 different chicks and I believe them, but mainly because I've seen how low their quality standards are. Personally, you couldn't pay me to fuck a 4 or a 5 -- it's sex, true, but then you have beastly flashbacks for the rest of your life. It's not worth it. The goal should be on maintaining a high mean score for the women you have fucked (to a point -- obviously one 9 is a high average, but if that's all you've got, you're doing it wrong).

People in their 20s (which is what most people on this board are) that clear a hundred either put an inordinate amount of time into the effort (which is not possible if you studied your ass off in college and then work 100 hours a week), or have some other angle (fame, extreme wealth, high status collegiate athlete, whatever). It can be done. But to have multiple people on this board claiming they've done it is fishy at best. Most of the people posting here are probably nerdy Jewish kids.

And frankly, what most of the people are saying here about how they cleared 100 or know people who used X technique to clear 100 sound like bullshit based on real world observation. Sorry, it's not teaching at a junior college or cooking or shopping at Trader Joe's. It's just not. That's not what actually works in real life.

For a bunch of people aspiring to analytical roles, you people are doing a really shitty job on this thread.

2/13/12
Ravenous:

And frankly, what most of the people are saying here about how they cleared 100 or know people who used X technique to clear 100 sound like bullshit based on real world observation. Sorry, it's not teaching at a junior college or cooking or shopping at Trader Joe's. It's just not. That's not what actually works in real life.

There you go again being a dumbass. You're like a fat tub of lard complaining about how going to the gym isn't going to help their weight problem - "It just CAN'T work!!!!". Have you ever actually tried any of these things???? Again, I really don't care what you think because (1) you've seen other people on this thread validate my point and (2) you're just full of assumptions that are plain wrong. I'm not in my 20s and I'm not Jewish.

You know, your post pisses me off for you being small minded more than anything. If the Internet has taught me anything its that the world has TONS of people out there and those people have done TONS of interesting and exciting, and even bad, things. So when I hear things (anything), I consider it very pessimistic of myself to say - "no way that person did that!". The world goes way beyond your little, safe, sanitized-for-your-protection corner. So the worst thing you can do is be closde-minded and that's exactly what you're doing right now kiddo.

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Do prostitutes count?

2/13/12

you guys are talking some crazy numbers. 100+ seems way high, like you never had a girlfriend but just a steady stream of new ass. I think I had 9 by the time I left high school, and just cleared 30ish (total, including HS) before I got married. And I'm a god damn rock star (fact). Granted, I had a gf for 6 years during my prime college years, and for shortly after, which probably dented my number significantly, but I still can't imagine I would be in excess of 100 right now if I had been single that whole time.

2/13/12

People who fuck lots of women constantly tend to have pretty low standards for women.. they just get drunk and grab anything they can. As long as the girl has a hole, they don't care. One of my friends is like that. I swear he fucks girls that I would never touch with a 10-foot long stick.

It's about quality, not quantity. I would very much rather fuck a 8 or 9 in a stable, invested long-term relationship, rather than doing bar hopping to score random 5's or 6's here and there.

I think any reasonably good looking dude with some game, with a decent job/ income, can easily reach 100+ mark if he tries hard enough by the time he's late 20s. However, the question is what kind of girls, not how many girls, you are able to score.

2/13/12

I think there are two reasons men have sex (not necessarily mutually exclusive, but often are): to satisfy their lust or their ego.

The folks in the first group appreciate beauty but are mainly interested in racking up high numbers of lays. This generally means sleeping with 5-6s that are mostly uneducated and probably inebriated. These are not girls you brag about to your friends the next morning.

The dudes in the second group appreciate a challenge that will validate their self-image, which means banging a woman that is very hot/smart/successful/rich/highly unattainable/etc.

It's hard to answer the question of how many is too many, as it depends on which category you are in.

2/13/12
Amphipathic:

I think there are two reasons men have sex (not necessarily mutually exclusive, but often are): to satisfy their lust or their ego.

The folks in the first group appreciate beauty but are mainly interested in racking up high numbers of lays. This generally means sleeping with 5-6s that are mostly uneducated and probably inebriated. These are not girls you brag about to your friends the next morning.

The dudes in the second group appreciate a challenge that will validate their self-image, which means banging a woman that is very hot/smart/successful/rich/highly unattainable/etc.

It's hard to answer the question of how many is too many, as it depends on which category you are in.

Some guys aren't able to get their dick up before fucking 5's or 6's, unless they take a pill of viagra... It's much more about a guy's natural instinct and taste for women. Some guys feel attracted to much wider range of women and they want to fuck 4's and 5's all the time... some other guys are attracted to only 7's and up... and so on.

personally, i don't care about how many girls i fuck. I only care about quality.

2/13/12
Sexy_Like_Enrique:
Amphipathic:

I think there are two reasons men have sex (not necessarily mutually exclusive, but often are): to satisfy their lust or their ego.

The folks in the first group appreciate beauty but are mainly interested in racking up high numbers of lays. This generally means sleeping with 5-6s that are mostly uneducated and probably inebriated. These are not girls you brag about to your friends the next morning.

The dudes in the second group appreciate a challenge that will validate their self-image, which means banging a woman that is very hot/smart/successful/rich/highly unattainable/etc.

It's hard to answer the question of how many is too many, as it depends on which category you are in.

Some guys aren't able to get their dick up before fucking 5's or 6's, unless they take a pill of viagra... It's much more about a guy's natural instinct and taste for women. Some guys feel attracted to much wider range of women and they want to fuck 4's and 5's all the time... some other guys are attracted to only 7's and up... and so on.

personally, i don't care about how many girls i fuck. I only care about quality.

If you can't get your dick up fucking a 6, assuming a standard distribution with 5 as average and median, then you have some big problems going forward. Especially with the neurosis that is evident in most of your posts.

eta Also, i'm assuming you never had sex at Cornell then because there are roughly 5 girls in the whole school who are better than a 6.

2/13/12
bears1208:
Sexy_Like_Enrique:
Amphipathic:

I think there are two reasons men have sex (not necessarily mutually exclusive, but often are): to satisfy their lust or their ego.

The folks in the first group appreciate beauty but are mainly interested in racking up high numbers of lays. This generally means sleeping with 5-6s that are mostly uneducated and probably inebriated. These are not girls you brag about to your friends the next morning.

The dudes in the second group appreciate a challenge that will validate their self-image, which means banging a woman that is very hot/smart/successful/rich/highly unattainable/etc.

It's hard to answer the question of how many is too many, as it depends on which category you are in.

Some guys aren't able to get their dick up before fucking 5's or 6's, unless they take a pill of viagra... It's much more about a guy's natural instinct and taste for women. Some guys feel attracted to much wider range of women and they want to fuck 4's and 5's all the time... some other guys are attracted to only 7's and up... and so on.

personally, i don't care about how many girls i fuck. I only care about quality.

If you can't get your dick up fucking a 6, assuming a standard distribution with 5 as average and median, then you have some big problems going forward. Especially with the neurosis that is evident in most of your posts.

eta Also, i'm assuming you never had sex at Cornell then because there are roughly 5 girls in the whole school who are better than a 6.

During my time at Cornell, I didn't have many random hook ups. I was in 5 different serious relationships in college... so not too many random hook ups. I've been dating a girl for a year now. Once you get a good girl that you are really into, trust me, you don't care about any random 5's or 6's that may be up for easy grabs at some random bars near you. You are right that the quality of girls at Cornell is fucking terrible. That's why I never dated anyone from my school.

What I was saying before is that the guys I know who fucked a ridiculous number of chicks tend to be guys that have no dignity for their dicks whatsoever. One kid in my frat is like that. He fucks almost any girl, as long as she's not a fat ass.

Many other guys I know are much more selective about girls, and they don't give a fuck about how many girls they fuck. Even if you pay them 1k to fuck 4's or 5's, they wouldn't do it. Like I said, it really depends on your taste for women and how much dignity you have for your dick.

2/13/12

If you don't know or have any friends that have hooked up with at least 6 women, then either you went to a seriously boring school or u didn't spend enough time socializing. Most people will average about 6 women in the lifetime because, contrary to popular belief, not every man cares about sleeping with a lot of women and not every man is a ladykiller. With that said, if you've been gifted with good looks, all you really need is a bit of confidence and personality specially if your in college or in an inner city.

2/13/12

It should be pointed out that scoring girls in LA/NY is way different than scoring girls in Philly, for example. Seriously, go out to Santa Monica on a weekend and every hot girl has some adonis guy who is 6'5" etc. Go out just south in Long Beach and it's a free for all.

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2/13/12

I don't have a problem getting laid, I just think you are a liar. Those are two different arguments.

But actually, I think we might agree now that I think about it more. I know from observation that cooking and being a doormat doesn't work on really attractive women (who almost universally prefer masculine qualities and bad boy behavior). But maybe your standards are lower, and I could see it working on women with fewer options who would be happy to have the attention. So I think we can both be right. For a man to go over 100, they have to have something special or have low standards. No regular guy sleeps with 100 hot women. Basic supply and demand prevents that from happening, especially in the US, where the average woman is a fat cow. If you had said overseas, I would agree, especially if you were talking about Asia or LatAm where it is very easy.

Nobody validated your point.

I wasn't referring to you with the 20-something Jewish comment, don't read into that.

You have no idea who I am. I've been to more than 50 countries on six continents (lived in 3 foreign countries), slept with, I would guess, between 50 and 60 women with a mean score around 7.0-7.5 with a low standard deviation (based on my standards), and have read probably between 600 and 800 books on all subjects. I know a lot about a lot.

Anyway, that's it. If you did sleep with 100 attractive women, hats off to you.

2/13/12
Ravenous:

You have no idea who I am. I've been to more than 50 countries on six continents (lived in 3 foreign countries), slept with, I would guess, between 50 and 60 women with a mean score around 7.0-7.5 with a low standard deviation (based on my standards), and have read probably between 600 and 800 books on all subjects. I know a lot about a lot.

Wait, wait! Don't tell me. You can't show me a picture of your girlfriend because I wouldn't know her . . .she's from the Niagara Falls area, right?

2/13/12
Ravenous:

I don't have a problem getting laid, I just think you are a liar. Those are two different arguments.

But actually, I think we might agree now that I think about it more. I know from observation that cooking and being a doormat doesn't work on really attractive women (who almost universally prefer masculine qualities and bad boy behavior). But maybe your standards are lower, and I could see it working on women with fewer options who would be happy to have the attention. So I think we can both be right. For a man to go over 100, they have to have something special or have low standards. No regular guy sleeps with 100 hot women. Basic supply and demand prevents that from happening, especially in the US, where the average woman is a fat cow. If you had said overseas, I would agree, especially if you were talking about Asia or LatAm where it is very easy.

Nobody validated your point.

I wasn't referring to you with the 20-something Jewish comment, don't read into that.

You have no idea who I am. I've been to more than 50 countries on six continents (lived in 3 foreign countries), slept with, I would guess, between 50 and 60 women with a mean score around 7.0-7.5 with a low standard deviation (based on my standards), and have read probably between 600 and 800 books on all subjects. I know a lot about a lot.

Anyway, that's it. If you did sleep with 100 attractive women, hats off to you.

To be fair, Gentleman Jack said earlier that he doesn't care too much about a girl's attractiveness for fucking...

I don't think he is lying at all. I have a buddy at 22 who fucked over 200 girls. So, it can be done.

Also - some guys don't really care about how pretty the girl is, but they care much more about the girl's body. Guys like that have much easier time getting laid.

2/13/12

I work down at the pizza pit
And I drive an old Hyundai
I still live with my mom and dad
I'm 5'3 and overweight

I'm a Sci-Fi fanatic
Mild asthmatic
Never been to 2nd base
But there's a whole nother me
That you need to see
Go check out MySpace

'cause online I'm out in Hollywood
I'm 6'5 and I look damn good
I drive a Maserati
I'm a black belt in Karate
And I love a good glass of wine

It turns girls on that I'm mysterious
I tell 'em I don't want nothing serious
'cause even on a slow day I can have a three way
Chat with two women at one time

I'm so much cooler online
So much cooler online
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UE6iAjEv9dQ

2/13/12

Oh, did he say that? I missed that. Alright, my bad. If he doesn't care too much about what they look like, I totally believe that he hit 100 or more.

I don't have a girlfriend and don't want one.

2/13/12

Be smooth. Be Bold. Be Confident.

The Four E's of investment
"The greatest Enemies of the Equity investor are Expenses and Emotions."- Warren Buffet

2/13/12

I dont want to be involved in the numbers thing but 100 is definitely possible and not just for people with low standards. I wouldnt expect someone in college to get this because not alot of their friends have approached this number, but as you get a little older you'll see that it isnt that abnormal if you dont get married young or have a serious long-term relationship. A couple of things I have learned through experience that i think distort people's perceptions on this topic:

1) Girls (all of them including your girlfriend) massively understate their numbers. Being kind of a nightlife junkie and becoming more experienced has really opened my eyes to the idea that most women will sleep with many guys and just never say anything about it, not even to their friends. I am not saying I am some stud but I have slept with girls who I guarantee would never tell a soul and I will never meet any of their friends...especially true for girls who are younger and are kind of embarassed about sleeping with a guy a decade older then them. So when all your female friends tell you how many guys they have slept with they are lying most likely by a big amount. What is funny is that now I will sometimes sleep with college-aged girls and so do friends who are my age...but when i was in college none of the girls I was friends with ever said they slept with 30 year old guys....alot of them no doubt did and just didnt say anything to anyone because it wasnt socially acceptable.

2) 5% of guys have 95% of the sex. This is pretty well known but it means that unless you know or are one of those 5% you get a skewed perspective. Most of my friends who were never really good with girls and got married pretty young dont really get this and think i am insane when this topic comes up.

Keep in mind, I am not saying everyone (or anyone) on here is telling the truth...I have never even met these people and of course in reality the averages would suggest that most people who claim these type of numbers are lying. But I am just saying that 100 women is not really something crazy. I also dont think a high number is really something to strive for...I mean sex is awesome but I dont really see any value in trying to rack up as many different partners as you can.

2/13/12

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"...all truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

  • Schopenhauer
2/13/12

It all depends what you like or looking for. No one who is looking for quality is going to tell me that they circled 100 and all were a good time. If you one of those dudes, you seriously stop counting after a while cause you do not really want to remember them all.

Also by quality I do not mean getting down fatties or uggies, you could even take back a '9' whos the hit of the club, totally posh, making you look like so the man. Then 2 hours later be like thats it? that sex stunk and she made you do all the work and you just want to sleep. Man all the effort it took to take her home and that was it...

2/13/12

fudge..

2/13/12

If you keep an excel sheet to keep track of how many girls you've fucked, you've probably got some pretty big insecurity issues. I hope he feels like a manly man.

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/13/12

"Moulay Ismail of Morocco is said to have fathered 888 children. To achieve this feat, Ismail is believed to have copulated with an average of about 1.2 women a day over 60 years."

Like a boss
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ismail_Ibn_Sharif

Impossible is nothing

2/13/12
EPS:

"Moulay Ismail of Morocco is said to have fathered 888 children. To achieve this feat, Ismail is believed to have copulated with an average of about 1.2 women a day over 60 years."

Like a boss
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ismail_Ibn_Sharif

Holy shit. The guy is baller as fuck. A few choice quotes:

" (He) succeed(ed) his half-brother Moulay Al-Rashid who died after a fall from his horse" Suuure fell from a horse...

"He has also been given the epithet "The bloodthirsty" for his legendary cruelty."

"He is also known in his native country as the 'Warrior King'."

It's inconceivable that after all this, the best historical bad guy Hollywood can come up with, is a giant Persian who enjoys giving sensual back-rubs to half naked men.

Calling Ron Paul an isolationist is like calling your neighbor a hermit because he doesn't come over to your property and break your windows.

2/13/12

Oh god, did his kids start picking up his diseases at around the 200 mark?

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/13/12

jebus the national average is only 6.1 over a lifetime?!?!?!? Are they including a bunch of virgins and priests and gay guys in those surveys???

I haven't broke triple digits, but definitely broke 30 even tho I was a late boomer in that area.

2/13/12

Wait, wait, wait isn't this the same Gentleman Jack that was bragging about the sexy grandma he was banging?

If I had sex with every girl that wanted to sleep with me, my number would damn sure be higher. Standards are a bitch.

2/14/12
eriginal:

Wait, wait, wait isn't this the same Gentleman Jack that was bragging about the sexy grandma he was banging?.

Yes it is :). To be fair, she's not a grandma, only old enough to be one. There's a huge difference when you're with a woman who's body is not wrecked by child birth (ask around). I don't expect any of you to understand this because I consider myself to be in a VERY unique situation right now - I'm sure TLC would love a reality show on us j/ k. We hang out, we play golf in the mornings, get it on like bunnies in the afternoon, I nap and I wake up to a home cooked meal from scratch. We have no expectations from each other other than to just have a good time. Life is good.

Shes by far my oldest friend but we have a good time together. She has taken incredible care of herself, she has skin that would make 20 year olds jealous and, yes, she's had some work done. All of our friends belong to the same country club that we do and are well aware of our ages and they think it's awesome because we get along so well. I'm sure you boys are going to give me hell over this but spare me because I don't give a fuck.

2/14/12

n00ds or it didn't happen

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/14/12
scottj19x89:

n00ds or it didn't happen

Ha! Well I have plenty of nudes of my friends but I'm definitely not posting any and certainly not of my current lady. I belong to a picture site where I have them posted for friends, people I've met IRL, but that's as far as I go with it.

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2/14/12
melvvvar:

http://freecodesource.com/people-of-walmart/Women-...

ok jack which one is she?

LOL!

I'm sure that's a natural reaction to my situation and I ain't even mad. I know that when people hear I'm dating a woman in her 60s you think of some gray haired lady in a mumu & slippers, smoking a Newport :)

But it's the exact opposite of that. My girl is in amazing shape, always dresses in designer clothes, her nails & hair are impeccable at all times and she wears lingerie for me that some college girls would think is too slutty. She never had children, so her body is perfect and she's had very selective work done to enhance her 36DDs and other parts. She's basically NOT what you think about when you hear of a woman of her age.

2/14/12

im jealous of u guys

2/14/12

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

2/14/12
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

Sounds fun but I can only claim 2 in 24.

2/14/12
GentlemanJack:
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

Sounds fun but I can only claim 2 in 24.

same here, only had 2 in a 24 hour period.

2/14/12
ST Monkey:
GentlemanJack:
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

Sounds fun but I can only claim 2 in 24.

same here, only had 2 in a 24 hour period.

Same...

2/14/12
ST Monkey:
GentlemanJack:
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

Sounds fun but I can only claim 2 in 24.

same here, only had 2 in a 24 hour period.

Same...

2/14/12
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

possibly have this lined up today. being single on valentine's day is awesome

2/14/12
whatwhatwhat:
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

possibly have this lined up today. being single on valentine's day is awesome

That's funny - I was just talking to a friend about how the day before V-day is when you always get those. "I don't want to be alone - want to go out?" calls. I had 2 yesterday but already have plans.

So I have no doubt that someone could get their trifecta on a day like today. Good luck man!

2/14/12
GentlemanJack:
whatwhatwhat:
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

possibly have this lined up today. being single on valentine's day is awesome

That's funny - I was just talking to a friend about how the day before V-day is when you always get those. "I don't want to be alone - want to go out?" calls. I had 2 yesterday but already have plans.

So I have no doubt that someone could get their trifecta on a day like today. Good luck man!

i have lunch, dinner, and going out to a club with a bunch of girls after. we shall see!

2/14/12
whatwhatwhat:
GentlemanJack:

That's funny - I was just talking to a friend about how the day before V-day is when you always get those. "I don't want to be alone - want to go out?" calls. I had 2 yesterday but already have plans.

So I have no doubt that someone could get their trifecta on a day like today. Good luck man!

i have lunch, dinner, and going out to a club with a bunch of girls after. we shall see!

Let me know how it goes, I'm genuinely curious about this. The challenge to V-day is that (from my experience) everyone wants to go out at night. It's like if its a V-day lunch it doesn't "count" in their minds. I had considered doing a double like that today, but I didn't think they would go for it. So I have to limit myself to one but maybe I'm just not being creative enough. Report back soldier! :)

2/14/12
Edmundo Braverman:

Okay stallions, who here has pulled a trifecta (pounded out 3 different women in one 24-hour period)?

Full disclosure: I have not.

College was definitely fun... I will say that every school has their big "end of semester" day where people come from all over, as do tons of alums. If you get in the situation where someone (or ones) you're messing with on campus are there, an alum that still wants it comes back, and any new visitor, it's not that difficult. I had a crazy weekend for that second semester senior year celebration lol.

But I'm a bit surprised, yet not surprised at the same time. People that are in disbelief are either oblivious, naive, or sheltered.

Were none of you on an athletic team?... a frat?... had game... tall...or just popular overall?

The crews I had in HS and College were absolute savages, and I have stories with those dudes that'll last a lifetime. It's really not that hard to get it in if you're social and assertive. For the people in disbelief at HS numbers, consider the possibility of you going to a NYC public school where EVERYONE is getting it in. There's literally 2000 kids in some of these schools, not counting hunting your neighborhood schools or other randoms. Hitting 15-20 in that type of environment isn't the norm, but it isn't unheard of either.

College is a whole other animal. Freshmen are flippiing out, and there are quite a few senior cougars who have had their reputation in their own classes tarnished and go after the youngsters because 1) The youngins don't know any better and 2) They'll be gone shortly. You've got road-trips to other people's schools, conferences, a whole slew of other things. The ratio is also absolutely ridiculous for Black males though. I've had some road trips where it was like shooting crabs in a barrel.

The working world, while not quite as loose, hasn't been too bad either.

2/14/12
IBTeaching:

The ratio is also absolutely ridiculous for Black males though. I've had some road trips where it was like shooting crabs in a barrel.

The working world, while not quite as loose, hasn't been too bad either.

Thank you my friend.
Considering i go to a school that is predominantly Caucasian, being the Black kid on campus and a lot of the freshman girls that never had relations with Black guys, they are always curious.

And once they find out you play basketball or run track.

I do believe 6.1 is the average but don't be oblivious in someone said they have over 50.

2/14/12
Lotin:
IBTeaching:

The ratio is also absolutely ridiculous for Black males though. I've had some road trips where it was like shooting crabs in a barrel.

The working world, while not quite as loose, hasn't been too bad either.

Thank you my friend.
Considering i go to a school that is predominantly Caucasian, being the Black kid on campus and a lot of the freshman girls that never had relations with Black guys, they are always curious.

And once they find out you play basketball or run track, yea it's over.

I do believe 6.1 is the average but don't be oblivious if someone said they have over 50.

2/14/12

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2/14/12
Cluelessfromoz:

I guess you all need some of this....
$29 for a Bulk Set of 144 Assorted Quality Condoms Plus Bottle of Massage Oil ($64.59 Value)
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2/14/12
GentlemanJack:
Cluelessfromoz:

I guess you all need some of this....
$29 for a Bulk Set of 144 Assorted Quality Condoms Plus Bottle of Massage Oil ($64.59 Value)
http://www.groupon.com.au/deals/adelaide/-four-sea...

I use an ahem larger size. I use Skyn Large for a comfortable, non-latex fit

They are assorted. I am sure they will be in there somewhere.

2/14/12

This thread is really funny to read. I don't think anyone is lying blatantly but maybe some exaggerating.

I think the whole counting thing is stupid, especially as a method of comparison of gaming prowess. I believe the 6 lifetime average, judging from what I see from other guys. I turned 26 recently, did a quick count and my number is 8 (for sex only, not blowjobs, makeouts, etc). There's another ~10 girls that are only blowjobs and dozens more of just makeouts.

I'm smart, attractive, and have game. I'm better with women than most guys. I have always been about quality over quantity though. I have been with some very high quality girls. I know guys in my social group with similar game to mine that are probably at around 40 lays (so they will hit triple digits in their 30s). They will sleep with new 6s where I'd rather go home to jerk off to some porn or sleep with someone ive already slept with (I am absolutely terrified of STDs, it only takes one to ruin your life).

Bottom line, to each his own. I think it's dangerous (both emotionally and physically) to pursue numbers for the sake of numbers, but I can see how that would matter to some people. Personally, I'd rather fuck one super model my whole life than to fuck 10,000 6s. Even among celebrities you'll see disparities. Do you think Tom Brady has fucked anywhere near as many women as Charlie Sheen (even after adjusting for age)? That's quality vs quantity for ya. Hell, I bet even Prince William hasn't fucked more than 10 girls, and it's not for lack of options, lol.

Consultant to a Fortune 50 Company

2/14/12

It was just a matter of time before we started talking about dick size.

2/14/12

fwd'd this to a girl i'm kinda seeing, her response:

"men are so weird sometimes

plus i think the edmundo guy is right, once u are past certain age it is a miracle if a girl wants to sleep with u randomly.. so u'd better have been nice to someone before and she will still sleep with u even when u r old and not a millionaire as u thought u'd be.

also how does fuckin a prostitute even count?

even more... why do guys even count in the first place???

i have so many questions hahaha"

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2/14/12

100 while impressive, is not 'impossible' as a lot of you have theorized.

Am I at 100? Nope. Am I close? Somewhat.. I don't really know exactly. I kept count in college since it was the 'thing' to do in a Fraternity. I may have counted up to around 40-50 and just stopped when I had a girlfriend my Junior year.

To be honest, I knew of a few guys at my school who were close to or past 100 by the end of school. It could be lower standards or it could be just plain playing the numbers game. Either way, credit is due where credit is deserved.

Those of you (I won't mention any names) who are using canned lines from Pick Up Artist websites (be the bad boy!) and claiming that 100 is impossible.. it's time to get a life.

GentlemenJack hit it right on the head when he said it was about confidence.. not asking, but doing (and telling). Leading a woman at all times, etc. Knowing when to be romantic without being a pushover. That's what it's all about. I can tell just from the way he speaks that just like me, he loves women for who they are. And we just want more and more of them.

Those who obsess over #s of others or their own are just in it for the bragging rights.. and that's freaking stupid. #s aren't important in the end.. your happiness is.

2/14/12
rothyman:

GentlemenJack hit it right on the head when he said it was about confidence.. not asking, but doing (and telling). Leading a woman at all times, etc. Knowing when to be romantic without being a pushover. That's what it's all about. I can tell just from the way he speaks that just like me, he loves women for who they are. And we just want more and more of them.

Well put man.

The one thing that didn't come across in my posts is (as you say) how much a man can love women for who they are. I've always described it as the "feminine way" as the turn-on for me. I love the "girly girls" with the done up nails and heels and stuff like that. I can appreciate when a woman takes the time to do that for me and I encourage it in my friends. If I wanted to be seen at dinner with someone in jeans and flats, I'd just go out with my guy friends to a bar, it's cheaper :)

And I'm glad we agree about confidence and being the leader in the relationship. We need MORE men thinking like you & me in this society. Today's men are raised to believe that these things are wrong and shouldn't be done. Bad. Bad. Bad! But once you learn to let go of that, and know how to do it in a respectful way, the sky is the limit - women love it.

2/14/12
IamObama:

Is there a certain number? Is there a point where you start to wonder "damn, wtf am I doing with my life?"

I was recently watching an episode of how I met your mother where Barney is trying to find the perfect lay for his 200th. And it got me thinking at what point does it become too much?

When it starts feeling like shooting fish in a barrel, it might be time to bring on new challenges.

Until then, fuck away, fuck indiscriminately. It never sucks to have a highlight reel of greatest hits in your spank bank.

2/14/12

when you get AIDS... twice...

2/14/12

It seems 2 in a 24-hour period is eminently doable, but 3 is a statistical anomaly.

Monkeys, you have been tasked...

2/14/12

Task has been done, circa May 6th 2011.

2/14/12
IBTeaching:

Task has been done, circa May 6th 2011.

We're gonna need a ruling on whether or not slipping it to 3 passed out chicks after a Cinco de Mayo party actually counts.

Judges?

2/14/12

as long as they didn't mind in the morning

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/14/12

I'm pretty sure they didn't know in the morning.

2/14/12

well then I guess they didn't mind

I vote yes

edit: god damnit I'm going to hell if there is one :(

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/14/12

When would you talk to the 3rd to have sex with her? You'd need one in the AM and two at night

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2/15/12
blackfinancier:

When would you talk to the 3rd to have sex with her? You'd need one in the AM and two at night

You'll last forever for the 3rd girl.

2/15/12
mb666:
blackfinancier:

When would you talk to the 3rd to have sex with her? You'd need one in the AM and two at night

You'll last forever for the 3rd girl.

Good point. I never go for a triple with a woman unless I warn her ahead of time and let her know what she's getting into. "It's going to be a while, I need lots of nasty talk and I'm going to pass out right after, OK?" :) Thats for like a tripe in 90 mins

2/14/12

how the hell do you keep a count beyond 20? there is so much mental gymnastics regarding sexual encounters. i have erased more than a couple from the memory bank.

100+ with no stds/pregnancies is a pretty remarkable k/d ratio

2/15/12

I was having a pretty good streak a couple of years ago, but then I realised most of these easy girls probably were doing the same as me. Probably the 100+ guys are doing it with the 100+ chicks. After that realisation I lost all interest in getting the count up as you can imagine.

2/15/12
t4s:

I was having a pretty good streak a couple of years ago, but then I realised most of these easy girls probably were doing the same as me. Probably the 100+ guys are doing it with the 100+ chicks. After that realisation I lost all interest in getting the count up as you can imagine.

It def depends on the group you surround yourself with. Of the girls I know (whether from college, the professional world, random friends) I'd say about 10% are complete whores and unashamed, 10% are somewhat promiscuous but try to keep it quiet, but the rest def wouldn't f*ck a dude unless they spent a considerable amount of time with him. So if you bang some chick relatively quickly, assume she has, on average, very loose morals and that she's been around. Some guys wouldn't care but personally I'm not interested in cum dumpsters. Banging even a very attractive girl that is a whore is not as satisfying as reeling in that cute innocent girl from next door.

Because I have a gf I'm not on the prowl but I would say that the easiest girls are those that are single/unmarried and in their late 20s/early 30s. I can tell by their mannerisms. There's def some derivation from the Pareto rule where 20 percent of the girls have 80% of the sex and the same goes for men. It's not probably not based on factors such as good looks, personality, money, as much as you would think. It is more relevant for guys to get laid though. Pretty much surround yourself around sluts, play the numbers game and you'll get laid.

2/15/12

fail

2/15/12

Yeah, I used to think like you guys too . . .

One of the biggest realizations I've had with getting to my number is that women love sex just as much as men do. The biggest mistake you can do is to hold up women as these soft & gentle creatures that only selectively share their bodies with other people. Fuck that. They like to get it in just as much as anyone else.

I know this may sound silly to you but think about this simple statement: Sex & The City didn't get to be a ridiculously popular show and movie because women aren't having sex, right?

2/15/12
GentlemanJack:

Yeah, I used to think like you guys too . . .

One of the biggest realizations I've had with getting to my number is that women love sex just as much as men do. The biggest mistake you can do is to hold up women as these soft & gentle creatures that only selectively share their bodies with other people. Fuck that. They like to get it in just as much as anyone else.

I know this may sound silly to you but think about this simple statement: Sex & The City didn't get to be a ridiculously popular show and movie because women aren't having sex, right?

The Pareto rule, that 20% of the ppl have 80% of the sex still holds though. If you bang some random girl you don't know her sex history, but you can infer that if she's willing to f*ck you so quickly why wouldn't she some other guy?

Women are def more selective with sharing their bodies. A lot of guys are willing to fuck anything. There's also an evolutionary reason for women to be conservative: a consequence could be child birth. The male is not as invested as the women because its not stuck with the baby. Also men can get horny in 5 seconds whereas it takes longer for women. Men are also stimulated just by sight alone whereas most women also need some emotional bond too.

Men are far more fascinated by sex. That's why~90% of ppl who watch porn are male.

2/15/12
mb666:
GentlemanJack:

Yeah, I used to think like you guys too . . .

One of the biggest realizations I've had with getting to my number is that women love sex just as much as men do. The biggest mistake you can do is to hold up women as these soft & gentle creatures that only selectively share their bodies with other people. Fuck that. They like to get it in just as much as anyone else.

I know this may sound silly to you but think about this simple statement: Sex & The City didn't get to be a ridiculously popular show and movie because women aren't having sex, right?

The Pareto rule, that 20% of the ppl have 80% of the sex still holds though. If you bang some random girl you don't know her sex history, but you can infer that if she's willing to f*ck you so quickly why wouldn't she some other guy?

Women are def more selective with sharing their bodies. A lot of guys are willing to fuck anything. There's also an evolutionary reason for women to be conservative: a consequence could be child birth. The male is not as invested as the women because its not stuck with the baby. Also men can get horny in 5 seconds whereas it takes longer for women. Men are also stimulated just by sight alone whereas most women also need some emotional bond too.

1 - You can't apply the Pareto Principle across the board to everything in life. So I think your 80/20 assertion in this scenario is shaky at best. To say that a general maximum of 20% of women would sleep with you quickly is a very low estimate.

2 - Women are more naturally defensive but you're ignoring simple things like birth control pills, condoms and the morning after pill.

3 - The feeling that women need an "emotional bond", as you put it, is exactly what I think is wrong. That outlook has quickly changed and sometimes sex is just sex for women.

2/15/12

After chatting with my friends about this, I'd like to poll WSO...

Would you rather sleep with:

Four 6s (not at the same time!), each went to state school, works as a barista/paralegal/server/etc, favorite show is everyone loves raymond, reads people magazine, sleeps with lots of guys

One 6, graduated from Smith, works as violinist, smart dresser, favorite show is mad men, reads new yorker, selective and doesn't sleep with many guys

I think you know where I am going with this.

2/15/12
Amphipathic:

After chatting with my friends about this, I'd like to poll WSO...

One 6, graduated Smith, works as violinist, smart dresser, favorite show is mad men, reads new yorker, selective and doesn't sleep with many guys

This... as long as she's not a feminist... let's also changed New Yorker to WSJ/Life & Culture section

2/15/12
mb666:
Amphipathic:

After chatting with my friends about this, I'd like to poll WSO...

One 6, graduated Smith, works as violinist, smart dresser, favorite show is mad men, reads new yorker, selective and doesn't sleep with many guys

This... as long as she's not a feminist... let's also changed New Yorker to WSJ/Life & Culture section

Good idea

2/15/12
Amphipathic:

After chatting with my friends about this, I'd like to poll WSO...

Would you rather sleep with:

Four 6s (not at the same time!), each went to state school, works as a barista/paralegal/server/etc, favorite show is everyone loves raymond, reads people magazine, sleeps with lots of guys

One 6, graduated from Smith, works as violinist, smart dresser, favorite show is mad men, reads new yorker, selective and doesn't sleep with many guys

I think you know where I am going with this.

The violinist wins by a huge margin. At this point in my life I won't date someone who can't participate in intelligent conversation, who would make me do a facepalm each time after I introduce her to my friends, or bring her to the opera.

Don't forget that those four sluts will also bang other guys behind your back if you are in a relationship. If we are talking one night stands with 4 sluts vs a relationship with the violinist, that is a no brainer. If the violinist is a person with a normal sex drive, you'll get regular, quality sex vs random sluts, where your mileage will vary.

2/15/12
etherlord:

If we are talking one night stands with 4 sluts vs a relationship with the violinist, that is a no brainer. If the violinist is a person with a normal sex drive, you'll get regular, quality sex vs random sluts, where your mileage will vary.

I don't understand the reasoning behind this. Since when does a normal person mean that they have to have quality sex?

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/15/12
scottj19x89:
etherlord:

If we are talking one night stands with 4 sluts vs a relationship with the violinist, that is a no brainer. If the violinist is a person with a normal sex drive, you'll get regular, quality sex vs random sluts, where your mileage will vary.

I don't understand the reasoning behind this. Since when does a normal person mean that they have to have quality sex?

The reasoning behind this is that over time you can train her to do what you like, while with one night stand you can't.

2/15/12
Amphipathic:

Four 6s (not at the same time!), each went to state school, works as a barista/paralegal/server/etc, favorite show is everyone loves raymond, reads people magazine, sleeps with lots of guys

One 6, graduated from Smith, works as violinist, smart dresser, favorite show is mad men, reads new yorker, selective and doesn't sleep with many guys

Keep in mind that I'm assuming you mean just as a hook up, not the mother of my children. So the obvious answer is the four 6s. The one 6 sounds boring - I bet she likes missionary with the lights off. That's too "plain" for me. I don't mind a little (OK, a lot) of wild stuff so I'd rather take my chances with the 6s that have more "experience".

2/15/12

Amphipathic- Sleep with the four 6s for sure...I know what you want me to say as far as dating but that one from Smith you describe sounds terrible.....

2/15/12

to whoever said girls in their late 20s early 30s are the easiest

this is true..because they are still stuck in that mindset that they are in HS/College but now they are in the real world and dont have 504596 guys hitting on them all the time.

alpha currency trader wanna-be

2/15/12
watersign:

to whoever said girls in their late 20s early 30s are the easiest

this is true..because they are still stuck in that mindset that they are in HS/College but now they are in the real world and dont have 504596 guys hitting on them all the time.

That is the sweet spot, after early 30s though they are hyper about kids/marriage

1/22/15

That's not true. I'm 24 and I want a relationship (not marriage yet), but I can't force it on some guys. Also some girls are in grad school, some work 100+ hours a week, etc. Don't make the assumption that girls in their late 20's/30's are easy. Oh and btw I went to state school as a virgin and left with 4 under my belt. True story.

Greed is Good!

1/22/15

That's not true. I'm 24 and I want a relationship (not marriage yet), but I can't force it on some guys. Also some girls are in grad school, some work 100+ hours a week, etc. Don't make the assumption that girls in their late 20's/30's are easy. Oh and btw I went to state school as a virgin and left with 4 under my belt. True story.

Greed is Good!

2/15/12

@EddieB

I failed at this and became the third guy she slept with within 24 hours. I don't miss my days in the navy.

CNBC sucks

"This financial crisis is worse than a divorce. I've lost all my money, but the wife is still here." - Client after getting blown up

2/15/12

P.S. Now a quote from someone who did know from experience:

"With all of you men out there who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have learned in my life that having one woman a thousand different times is much more satisfying. " - Wilt Chamberlain

2/15/12

oh, well he was talking about hookups... in that case, assuming they're all std free, I'd pick the 4 sluts

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

"There are two types of people in this world: People who say they pee in the shower, and dirty fucking liars."-Louis C.K.

2/15/12
scottj19x89:

oh, well he was talking about hookups... in that case, assuming they're all std free, I'd pick the 4 sluts

Yeah I was just thinking of hookups, not dating or relationships.

2/15/12

if her favorite show was always sunny or archer then i would reconsider

2/15/12
whatwhatwhat:

if her favorite show was always sunny or archer then i would reconsider

Agreed, and if she watches Whitest Kids You Know then she is marriage material.

2/15/12
whatwhatwhat:

if her favorite show was always sunny or archer then i would reconsider

Amazing. My two favorite shows.

Under my tutelage, you will grow from boys to men. From men into gladiators. And from gladiators into SWANSONS.

2/15/12

Flake:
whatwhatwhat:
if her favorite show was always sunny or archer then i would reconsider

Amazing. My two favorite shows.


a little late but here you go
2/15/12

A smith graduate who works as a violinist, reads the new yorker, and doesn't go out much? Sounds boring as shit.

2/15/12

I am married, so I will take the 4 sluts over the intelligent violinist.

2/15/12

Pulled the trifecta once on merit. Pulled a 4 in 24 as well due to a 4some. Damn I miss college

2/15/12
Mfsl27:

Pulled the trifecta once on merit. Pulled a 4 in 24 as well due to a 4some. Damn I miss college

circle jerking with 3 other dudes doesn't count as a foursome.

2/15/12
melvvvar:
Mfsl27:

Pulled the trifecta once on merit. Pulled a 4 in 24 as well due to a 4some. Damn I miss college

circle jerking with 3 other dudes doesn't count as a foursome.

It does if you use the dutch rudder.... because that way it's not gay

2/15/12
bears1208:
melvvvar:
Mfsl27:

Pulled the trifecta once on merit. Pulled a 4 in 24 as well due to a 4some. Damn I miss college

circle jerking with 3 other dudes doesn't count as a foursome.

It does if you use the dutch rudder.... because that way it's not gay

this is a very rabbinical analysis. well done.

2/15/12
Mfsl27:

Pulled the trifecta once on merit. Pulled a 4 in 24 as well due to a 4some. Damn I miss college

Whether or not I'm impressed depends on the ratio of girls to guys.

2/15/12

I definitely lied so that I could feel good about getting attention on an anonymous Internet forum!

2/15/12

^ Post a screenshot of the spreadsheet or I call BS

(I really just want to see the format of the spreadsheet lol)

2/16/12

I knew a whore in college that had a goal of sleeping with 1 guy in every fraternity in a 1 night period. This isn't 24 hours, more like 6-8 hours max. My college had 8 fraternities and I think she got to 7 of them.

I told the guy in my frat she had "selected" to wrap his tool because she was a cum dumpster and he was the 7th of the night. I hope he listened.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

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