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2/10/12

Is there a certain number? Is there a point where you start to wonder "damn, wtf am I doing with my life?"

I was recently watching an episode of how I met your mother where Barney is trying to find the perfect lay for his 200th. And it got me thinking at what point does it become too much?

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In reply to Falcon
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2/11/12
Lotin:

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

I still get 10-15 in HS.

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2/10/12

200th is pretty impressive...

But I can't shake the feeling that by 30 or so, I'd like to be settled down...

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2/10/12

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

2/11/12

I'm saving myself for marriage.

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In reply to GentlemanJack
2/11/12
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

I didn't say it was your fault, I said I was blaming you.

In reply to Neighbor
2/11/12
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

In reply to Angus Macgyver
2/11/12
Angus Macgyver:
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

Sounds gay to me. You might as well tell him to bang Elton John

By the way, why would he hits on girls when he is looking for women?

So you want him to become a pedophile like some catholic priest?

You got a sad and twisted mind. May God Bless your soul cause you need prayer.

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

2/11/12

I am still waiting for some jaded guy to say, "One."...

2/11/12

I remember thinking 100 was a HUGE number when I was 19 and the first of my friends passed the century mark at 23 (he commemorated the occasion with a party and a hot Asian hooker). As you get older you realize that 100 is just an average of 10 over 10 years, which you'll probably hit by accident if you just make it to dollar drink night once a week.

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Until you get to be my age, that is, and it's a minor miracle that anyone will sleep with you at all.

In reply to GoW
2/11/12
God of Wine:

I am still waiting for some jaded guy to say, "One."...

The OP can't get any. So One is a lot for him

One One One One

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

In reply to Edmundo Braverman
2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I remember thinking 100 was a HUGE number when I was 19 and the first of my friends passed the century mark at 23 (he commemorated the occasion with a party and a hot Asian hooker). As you get older you realize that 100 is just an average of 10 over 10 years, which you'll probably hit by accident if you just make it to dollar drink night once a week.

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Until you get to be my age, that is, and it's a minor miracle that anyone will sleep with you at all.

So Tonton Edmundo, tell us. Which one of your wives/ex -wives is better?

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

2/11/12

Counting after 5-10 is pretty lame, what are you trying to justify your masculinity through your number? I have a good idea of the range of my number but to be honest there has been so many 2nd shots or more that months later you're giving it another go and you really lose track of whether this is the first time with this girl or you've already had sex with her a few times before.

In reply to Neighbor
2/11/12
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

1 - I'm a little older than most of you (mid 30s). So as Eddie pointed out, after a few years 100 is really not as high a number as you think it is. But of course you don't get there by accident. I think my real number is 130+ (ish)

2 - I'm tall - 6'4". That helps :). I have yet to meet a woman that likes a short guy over a tall guy. Not trying to hate on the short guys. Women are just pre wired to like tall guys.

3 - Be confident and assertive. Forget all the women's lib bullshit, women like a man that takes the lead and are dominant in the relationship. Don't ask her, TELL her. Don't be an asshole, but be firm. "is it ok if I pick you up? When will you be ready? Where would you like to go?". WRONG. Try this instead: "I will be at your place at 7 and I have a reservation for us at this restaurant that I want to go to and I think you look great in your blue skirt and would appreciate it if you wore it for me tonight . . .". Sure, it's not going to work for everyone, but just try it, you might be surprised at the results.

4 - you gotta have some game. A wise man once told me that women like a man who cooks. It's true. You invite a woman over, pour some wine, have some flowers for her, cook a dinner for both of you. Keep a nice & clean place with some music in the backround and, fughedaboudit, her panties will just slip off, you wont even have to try.

5 - you gotta know shit about the world. I have this theory that women are turned on by learning things. Teaching them things makes then want you in some primal way. I'm a voracious reader on current events so I tend to talk about those things. I also read about (and enjoy) wine & cigars and teach women about that. This is all just a theory of course but it's worked well for me.

I'm sure there's other things that im forgetting right now (didn't list any of the bedroom stuff) but this will get you started :)

2/11/12

As many of the poster before me has pointed out; After a couple of years with a normal sex drive you've most likely slayed 50+ laidies/dragons. I don't know my exact number, but it is somewhere in the range of 50-70 as I don't keep tab on who I've done before in an inebriated state at 4 in the morning.

A tip is never to ask a woman/girl/lady/dragon if you've slept together before because you recognize the motions. Can't possibly turn out good for you.

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2/11/12

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

2/11/12

Anyone else notice a trend all of us traders are triple digits while the bankers want to settle down?:p

In reply to Flake
2/11/12
Flake:
Lotin:

I seriously believe it is pretty easy to patten your numbers. In high school alone, you can get 10-15. freshman yr of college you better be able to get a good number and so on. Over time the numbers will slowly add up and next thing you know, you'll be at 50 and you're going to try to remember who was who and sometime you will even forget who you fondled with.

I still get 10-15 in HS.

it's really not that hard

Coming from the inner city, where we had about 5 different high schools around.
get 2 chicks from each high school and a couple from your own.

2/11/12

Lotin, his comment went right over your head.

2/11/12

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

In reply to txjustin
2/11/12
txjustin:

Lotin, his comment went right over your head.

I just read it over, lmaoooooo

2/11/12

I got more in HS then i'll end up with when I graduate undergrad in May. But I think that has a lot to do with the fact that I started young, was an All American athlete in HS, i'm short which has started to hurt me more, and my undergrad is full of trolls. I shouldn't have to work so hard for a 6 but apparently 7's are like the holy grail here.

Also, this is true for me but i'm sure it's true for other guys as well, I rather have a girl who i'm steadily having sex and I know I can always go back to than having to work hard every time I go out. Fuck buddies ftw.

In reply to Edmundo Braverman
2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better.

Tis the curse of being a man.

Capitalist

In reply to Edmundo Braverman
2/11/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I've often said that a man could have sex with only one woman in his entire life and be happy, but the minute he has sex with two he's fucked. Once you have someone to compare the first woman against (one will inevitably be better than the other), you begin your quest for the ultimate piece of ass and you'll always wonder if you could be doing better..

Eddy , which one of your wives is a better fucker?

Do you compare them to each other like you said in your post?

No one would remember the Good Samaritan if he'd only had good intentions; he had money as well.

In reply to etherlord
2/11/12
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

In reply to IamObama
2/11/12
IamObama:
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

Nice try.

"Thus, in total, 21 percent of the men and 15 percent of the women admitted they had lied and/or they had provided an inaccurate partner count. "
"Analyzing the responses of these admitted liars, whom Brown calls "self-incriminators," compared to other respondents who said they were telling the truth, he found that self-incriminators composed more than half of all respondents who said they had had more than 50 lifetime sex partners."
http://www.physorg.com/news10824.html

Most of those who state 50+ numbers are liars. Here people are boasting about triple digits.

2/11/12

I find those numbers impossible to believe. With the exception of one hetero guy I know in that age range, I've personally watched most of my friends smash more than six randoms. Not as in "watched them in the act" - that would just be creepy. As in, watched them go home with more than 6 sluts over the years.

There has to have been an explosion in vocations to the clergy just to skew the numbers from my crew alone down to 6.1.

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2/11/12

I hope I hit 100 some day....

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2/11/12

6.1 isn't that hard to imagine when you take into account the amount of religious people in the world who believe in monogamous relationships (or even having 4 wives still puts you under the 6.1 number)

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In reply to IamObama
2/11/12
IamObama:
etherlord:

"Median number of female sexual partners in lifetime, for men 25-44 years of age, 2006-2008: 6.1"
http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/abc_list_n.htm

Statistically speaking, everyone in this thread is either very exceptional, or a liar. I think, the latter is more probable.

http://wallstreetprep.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=2&aff_id=1000&source=600x400

That survey includes a good portion of the population that is socially awkward and obese

many of which are probably hanging out around here during a saturday ;)

Capitalist

2/11/12

ether you seriously dont have any manwhore friends who have slayedmore than 6 people?

im pretty sure ratinamaze has even slept with over six

2/11/12

an average of SIX means youre waiting YEARS to sleep with a diff girl

In reply to shorttheworld
2/11/12
shorttheworld:

ether you seriously dont have any manwhore friends who have slayedmore than 6 people?

im pretty sure ratinamaze has even slept with over six

Six - yeah, sure. 30-50 - possible. But 200 in their 20s?
To hit 200, you have to have sex with a new girl every week, 4 years in a row.

Unless they have plenty of time and money to spare, are above average looking, don't ever have relationships, and bang fat/ugly skanks/buy escorts, I would say that's highly improbable.

IMHO, chances of encountering someone like that on a banker forum filled with 4.0 GPA nerdy kids is close to zero. Chances of encountering liars obsessed with status are, however, extremely high.

2/11/12

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

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2/11/12

I'll probably end up around 30-50.

In reply to Leonidas
2/11/12
Leonidas:

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

I don't discriminate against fatties, they tend to be the real freaks and I like my women a little freaky. Not my preference, but I'm not hating on them either. I agree about the solid 6s. Most 9s and 10s are a pain in the ass to deal with anyways and I get tired of that shit quickly.

In reply to Leonidas
2/11/12
Leonidas:

Women are for the most part interchangeable to me. Frequency of sex is a hell of a lot more important to me than the number of chicks I bang. I only have one screening criteria: no fatties.

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

Anyone else in the same boat as me?

I don't discriminate against fatties, they tend to be the real freaks and I like my women a little freaky. Not my preference, but I'm not hating on them either. I agree about the solid 6s. Most 9s and 10s are a pain in the ass to deal with anyways and I get tired of that shit quickly.

2/12/12
2/12/12

How the hell did you start in HS? I'm pretty sure only Andover is fine with that. Exeter, Choate, DA, Hotchkiss, Lawrenceville, Loomis are quite serious.

2/12/12

If you get with 100+ diff women, what's the probability that some of them had a STD? Someone create a probability distribution (I don't know the STD statistics). Plus the women who are likely to get down sooner have higher chances of having an STD.

6.1 over lifetime can make sense.... women tend to underestimate that number, men over-exaggerate it... it equals out. Then also incorporate normal Americans. Being on WSO, on average, we are probably more exposed to the party scene in college (only a fraction of Americans receive their bachelors), we probably make more $ to our peers (finance jobs pay well and women prefer $ makers), etc.

The math for 100+ seems simple (~1 girl per month, within a decade)... but that seems like a lot of work. Plus you have to assume that you will settle down if you find the "right one" even if for a few months.

I'm taking the 10-15 in h.s. and 40-50 in college with a grain of salt... actually overdosing on salt. I don't believe that whatsoever. You would have to be the star QB or super wealthy kid to pull that off... on top of just surrounding yourself around sluts.

2/12/12

and having money has nothing to do with anything... women like cool guys... money helps to a degree but if you are a nerd.. you are a nerd

In reply to monty09
2/12/12
monty09:

and having money has nothing to do with anything... women like cool guys... money helps to a degree but if you are a nerd.. you are a nerd

.

Most people in Finance were/are nerds to an extent and those with money don't seem to have a problem. Let's face it. Where I live, men with money have access to hot, beautiful women with the right pedigree in some cases as well. Think Penelope in Trading Places. When you're Louis Winthorpe, you get access to high caliber women. Women are wired to want someone who is successful. Goes back to the wild when the man had go out and hunt. I've had two women in the past few months ask me how much do people in my profession make as a sly prequalifier.

2/12/12

The vast majority of people don't have a bunch of sexual partners in HS. Not sure why people keep assuming 10-15 partners in HS, for most it's about 1-2 max. I had a decent amount in HS but I was probably the only person I know that had more than 3-4 in HS.

2/12/12

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

2/12/12

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

2/12/12

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In reply to Angus Macgyver
2/12/12
Angus Macgyver:
tlynch5:
GentlemanJack:

To each his own but for me it's never enough. I don't know about 200 but I'm definitely over 100 and have no regrets. I've been married and it sucks - divorce is the worst possible thing in the world, humans just weren't meant to be married. I'm just going to enjoy all the fun and women life has to offer.

Over 100? teach me.

Option 1: Have George Clooney's charisma, Ryan Gosling's body, Patrick Dempsey's smile, and Johnny Depp's mystique.

Option 2: Have more money than the lovechild of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs.

Option 3: Hit on girls like a Catholic priest hits on little boys - shamelessly and in copious amounts.

Option 4: Some combination of the above.

Don't forget that you should be taller than women with high heels in most cases.

In reply to monty09
2/12/12
monty09:

i know several guys on the baseball,basketball team who had more then 10 in hs.. but i went to an inner city school of 3k students... my grad class was over 900

Exactly, I mentioned that earlier.

Not everyone went to private schools Exeter, Deerfield, etc... When you're in the inner city, it is easier.
And who was that kid that posted a few weeks ago saying it was easier picking up chicks I the city instead of his small town. That's how I look at it.

In reply to monty09
2/12/12
monty09:

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

Yes, I get that half this thread has been about you bragging. I also played a d1 sport before having a career ending injury and I also was with a lot of chicks in HS. But the point being that if you looked around you, realized we were talking about averages, you would see that most kids aren't banging a lot of girls in HS. In the US the average age for a kid to lose his virginity is 17. Which means Junior/Senior year. Assuming that most of these kids are in legit relationships when they lose their virginity you would expect most to have slept with 1-2 girls in HS, which is what seems to be the norm if I think about people I know from my HS.

In reply to bears1208
2/12/12
bears1208:
monty09:

yeah in hs i had a "gf" every 6 weeks.. it was hs.. college was kind of the same.. haha

I played D1 Baseball

Yes, I get that half this thread has been about you bragging. I also played a d1 sport before having a career ending injury and I also was with a lot of chicks in HS. But the point being that if you looked around you, realized we were talking about averages, you would see that most kids aren't banging a lot of girls in HS. In the US the average age for a kid to lose his virginity is 17. Which means Junior/Senior year. Assuming that most of these kids are in legit relationships when they lose their virginity you would expect most to have slept with 1-2 girls in HS, which is what seems to be the norm if I think about people I know from my HS.

not bragging but for someone to say flat out its bs is dumb... not everyone falls into the under 10 for life bucket.. and while most will... you will have many who are 5-15x over that number...

sorry you got hurt bud... i had a bad injury my freshman that I thought would end my playing... def sucks

2/12/12

and i would not call any hs relationship "legit"

2/12/12

shouldn't the numbers balance out in the end?

a lot of the women i know (from big cities, good looking, not socially awkward), usually say the've had on average about 4-5 partners so far. I would argue that they are probably under-counting a bit, and it's more around 6-9.

I wouldn't be surprised if a couple of people here have hit really high numbers, but probably a lot more are still in the single digits...

Capitalist

2/12/12
2/12/12

I think region matters much more, too. I go to a school in the south with about 6000 undergrads, but I think most girls are a little more conservative here. Probably doesn't make a huge difference, but it is the bible belt after all.

In reply to esbanker
2/12/12
esbanker:

shouldn't the numbers balance out in the end?

a lot of the women i know (from big cities, good looking, not socially awkward), usually say the've had on average about 4-5 partners so far. I would argue that they are probably under-counting a bit, and it's more around 6-9.

I wouldn't be surprised if a couple of people here have hit really high numbers, but probably a lot more are still in the single digits...

one thing i have learned is that girls under-count big-time. Any single girl in her mid 20s in a big city who hasnt had a long-term boyfriend is going to have big numbers but she will never admit it. I would say average single girl in her mid 20s in NYC has slept with 30 guys at least and thats assuming she didnt go crazy in college. But she will tell u 10 until it is clear you dont care.

2/12/12

you are all liars or homos. average hetero male has 6 partners over a lifetime, lesbo has 5, hetero female around 5, and gay men 200+.

2/12/12
In reply to kmzz
2/12/12
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Get busy living

2/12/12

i'm moving to new york next week and just got out of a 4 year relationship. assuming i am the golden god i claim to be, how many should i expect in the first month, six months, year, etc?

2/12/12

I'm kinda surprised at all the small minds in this thread. Some of you went to really small schools, in small towns, with very few people and you, most likely, have no game. So you say, "I've only had 3 partners therefore it's impossible for anyone to have 100!!!!ONE!!!"

Well some of us grew up in large metro areas went to large schools and large colleges. Oh, and also have some game :). It's very possible, even likely, to rack up these numbers. Again, I'm older than most (all?) of you so it's really not hard to get to 100. All I'm saying is that it's completely dumb for anyone to say these numbers are impossible just because your small circle of friends and you have a dozen chicks combined . . .

In reply to UFOinsider
2/12/12
UFOinsider:
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Yeah, when chicks make it too easy it makes me think about how many other times they've basically just opened their legs for random dudes... n I like peeing without my penis burning, so I'm real careful with that

If your dreams don't scare you, then they are not big enough.

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In reply to UFOinsider
2/12/12
UFOinsider:
kmzz:

HIV WILDFIRE

This shit terrifies me. When I'm in a relationship, IT'S ON and there's constant sex, but the chick looking for 'Mr. Right Now' doesn't get the time of day from me. If this sounds lame/strange, I don't care, I love my dick and I'm careful where I put him.

Keep in mind that I'm one of the guys in the 100+ club so I've done research on this. First, the rate of transmission from male to female (unprotected) is very low. The numbers are slightly higher for guys who are not circumcised since the foreskin can help transmission. With a condom it drops to virtually zero for all males. It increases a little for anal sex but as the male, it's still a low rate. I forget what the rates are for giving oral sex (make to female) but i know theyre not as high as most people think. I believ its something in the 2% range. By far the riskiest activity you can do is gay sex where you are being penetrated, very high rate of transmission in that scenario. Finally, its no secret that some races have higher incidents of HIV than others. Not trying to hate, but there are some that I will rarely sleep with out of the increased risk.

In reply to GentlemanJack
2/12/12
GentlemanJack:

I'm kinda surprised at all the small minds in this thread. Some of you went to really small schools, in small towns, with very few people and you, most likely, have no game. So you say, "I've only had 3 partners therefore it's impossible for anyone to have 100!!!!ONE!!!"

Well some of us grew up in large metro areas went to large schools and large colleges. Oh, and also have some game :). It's very possible, even likely, to rack up these numbers. Again, I'm older than most (all?) of you so it's really not hard to get to 100. All I'm saying is that it's completely dumb for anyone to say these numbers are impossible just because your small circle of friends and you have a dozen chicks combined . . .

I don't think anyone is saying it's impossible (I know i'm not). I know for sure one of my friends has hit triple digits and another is on his way. That said, the fact that the thread was instantly invaded with half of WSO claiming to have fucked enough women to fill the hudson makes the veracity of those statements a bit dubious. I believe you, especially since you said you are in your thirties. But I think where the thread went sideways was when it seemed that 1) people were using it to talk about how awesome they were and 2) when those same people were acting like there is no way that 6 is average.

I had sex with more than 6 people by the time I was 17 (though I doubt I ever hit more than 30ish). But it doesn't surprise me that the number is that low. At 22 years old I can look on FB and see 80% of my HS class married/getting married/in a relationship that is leading toward marriage. And most of those people have not fucked more than 6 at this point in their lives. Likewise, at my second ugrad roughly 75% of the kids are trolls, super nerdy, or have aspergers. If you really think about it, it seems clear that it is in no way likely that the average person will rack up the type of numbers you are talking about; even the average single man won't. I say good for you and I hope that I will if I stay single that long.

2/12/12

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

In reply to whatwhatwhat
2/12/12
whatwhatwhat:

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

"higher quality" is much too subjective. So the answer has to be no.

2/13/12

You should sleep with as many girls as it takes to find the one you want to keep.

In reply to GentlemanJack
2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
whatwhatwhat:

is it more prestigious to have more or less but higher quality?

"higher quality" is much too subjective. So the answer has to be no.

George Carlin never did a ten, but he did five twos?

Get busy living

2/13/12

Take whatever number Wilt Chamberlin had achieved and add +1 to it. That is too many.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12

Take whatever number Wilt Chamberlin had achieved and add +1 to it. That is too many.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12
Edmundo Braverman:

I have no opinion on how many is too many. I suppose strange is like money, so more is better.

I love that someone else uses the term "strange!"

In college we loved the lingo, "I'm tryin' to get some strange ass tonight."

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

2/13/12

How many times using your right or left hand will equal sex with a girl?

I eat success for breakfast...with skim milk

2/13/12

A lot of people in this thread are definitely lying. I used to read a couple of game blogs by guys who have dedicated their entire lives to banging as many different women as possible. I mean, they are fucking hardcore about it. Some of them don't even work, all they do is try to pick up women and fuck them.

And these guys, most of them are between 100 and 200 in their 30s or early 40s. They don't have anything special going for them like lots of money, athlete status, etc. but they have mad game and that's the best they can do.

Think about that. If your "job" was to fuck women and all you did was work on your game, and you "only" got to 150, how can the average schmoe on this website come even close to that? The guys working in finance make good money, that's true, but they're also mostly fat, stressed and boring as hell with little time to go out and meet women.

Further, a lot of the things people are saying on this website obviously don't work in real life. Buy her flowers and cook her dinner? BAHAHAHA alright, have fun with a bottle of lube and some kleenex.

Seriously, this thread is bullshit. Sorry, you are not all Tucker Max.

2/13/12

My best friend is a frat-star with endless amounts of girls after him and his number is < 30. I'm a decent looking guy who works out, can socialize, etc and my number is < 15. 50+ seems completely unrealistic before your 30s unless you have zero filter and/or a ton of free-time. In my experience (granted only hs + college) you have to go through at least one prude hookup before they give it up. Plus most guys I've seen get laid in college end up with long-term girlfriends which doesn't really contribute to this >100 theory.

So yea I don't know about some of these numbers.

In reply to Ravenous
2/13/12
Ravenous:

A lot of people in this thread are definitely lying. I used to read a couple of game blogs by guys who have dedicated their entire lives to banging as many different women as possible. I mean, they are fucking hardcore about it. Some of them don't even work, all they do is try to pick up women and fuck them.

And these guys, most of them are between 100 and 200 in their 30s or early 40s. They don't have anything special going for them like lots of money, athlete status, etc. but they have mad game and that's the best they can do.

Think about that. If your "job" was to fuck women and all you did was work on your game, and you "only" got to 150, how can the average schmoe on this website come even close to that? The guys working in finance make good money, that's true, but they're also mostly fat, stressed and boring as hell with little time to go out and meet women.

Further, a lot of the things people are saying on this website obviously don't work in real life. Buy her flowers and cook her dinner? BAHAHAHA alright, have fun with a bottle of lube and some kleenex.

Seriously, this thread is bullshit. Sorry, you are not all Tucker Max.

You can believe whatever you choose to believe. Your opinion of it doesn't change my stance or my number. I'm telling you exactly what to do with women to get to those numbers, you refuse to do it, and then call everyone a liar. So you haven't tried anything new and yet still believe that you are absolutely correct. That doesn't make any sense.

2/13/12

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

In reply to spaceagecowboy
2/13/12
spaceagecowboy:

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

You don't have to go overseas for that. I'm convinced that the single demographic that gets laid the most is a male junior college professor. See my previous post - there's something about being in a position to teach women that turns them on. I have a friend that teaches at a juco and he gets more tail than you can imagine and his male colleagues are all the same way. If you are a decent guy, get your masters and teach at a juco you'll be at 100 in no time.

2/13/12

I don't understand why people keep making the claim "the average person." The "average person" is a fucking retard, so of course they wont be able to achieve such numbers. But it's impossible for one to assume that everyone on this forum is "the average person." While some could be lying it's more than likely that most are telling the truth espesically knowing many of the members outside of this forum. So to those of you saying ZOMG no way everyone on this forum has asbergers that just isn't true. There are manhores among us it is alright you can accept it.

The answer to your question is 1) network 2) get involved 3) beef up your resume 4) repeat -happypantsmcgee

WSO is not your personal search function.

2/13/12

Saying I haven't tried anything new is definitely not correct. I don't do anything by the book or standard. I can't remember ever taking a girl out for a dinner date at a restaurant, let alone my place, for example. The most recent girl I fucked, the conversation started with me saying "Fuck you" to her after she asked me to buy her a drink. I banged her less than an hour later. I've had two girls propose to me in the last 3 months (neither of which I was dating), one offer to move in (unsolicited), and have been propositioned by 3 married women. I wouldn't consider doing anything on your list, ever. If it works for you, that's great, but you are definitely in the minority with that approach. My approach is to be fit, interesting, aloof, and slightly cruel in a humorous way. Women date up, so all you have to do is be higher value than she is. There is no wooing involved, which, by definition, places the value on her (that's a losing stance).

You may have hit 100+, I really don't care. But most people in this thread are lying.

2/13/12

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

In reply to bears1208
2/13/12
bears1208:

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

Thanks for the backup in teaching these young pups . . . the one's who say that cooking for a woman doesn't work are just plain wrong.

You don't need to be a Michelin chef but you do need some skills. I have some wine ready (not 2 buck chuck), an appetizer of cheeses and Italian meats to eat while you cook. Then I either grill up some steaks or make a chicken dish of some kind. Trader Joes is good for this since they have a ton of things that are prepped and ready for the grill. You serve dinner at a proper table with napkins and place settings and then serve dessert (it can be pre-made, no one expects desserts from scratch) while sitting on the couch with music playing. Keep the wine flowing throughout the night and let everything else run it's course, you won't even have to try. If you can't bat a thousand while doing this then you're either (1) dating too many bull dykes or (2) lame.

In reply to GentlemanJack
2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
bears1208:

Cooking for women absolutely works assuming you can cook.

Thanks for the backup in teaching these young pups . . . the one's who say that cooking for a woman doesn't work are just plain wrong.

You don't need to be a Michelin chef but you do need some skills. I have some wine ready (not 2 buck chuck), an appetizer of cheeses and Italian meats to eat while you cook. Then I either grill up some steaks or make a chicken dish of some kind. Trader Joes is good for this since they have a ton of things that are prepped and ready for the grill. You serve dinner at a proper table with napkins and place settings and then serve dessert (it can be pre-made, no one expects desserts from scratch) while sitting on the couch with music playing. Keep the wine flowing throughout the night and let everything else run it's course, you won't even have to try. If you can't bat a thousand while doing this then you're either (1) dating too many bull dykes or (2) lame.

Someone sticky this shit.

In reply to Leonidas
2/13/12
Leonidas:

Provided the girl is skinny, I really don't see the point in chasing after 9s and 10s, when I can bed solid 6s with minimal effort.

I'm sorry but that's just lazy behavior and a total lack of attention to detail. Keep a 6 cum bucket on the back burner so you can chase the 9/10's and still have a backup plan when you blow up at 4 AM.

In reply to GentlemanJack
2/13/12
GentlemanJack:
spaceagecowboy:

how about living overseas in Taiwan or Japan? Some of my friends who taught English over there slayed at least 50 chicks in the span of 1-2 years.

You don't have to go overseas for that. I'm convinced that the single demographic that gets laid the most is a male junior college professor. See my previous post - there's something about being in a position to teach women that turns them on. I have a friend that teaches at a juco and he gets more tail than you can imagine and his male colleagues are all the same way. If you are a decent guy, get your masters and teach at a juco you'll be at 100 in no time.

I think we can conclude which group do you belong to on the basis of your post.

A junior professor would be an idiot to sleep with one of his students, even if he was handsome enough to get every girl in his class interested. Here is the reason: there is such a thing as sexual harassment policy at any university. And it explicitly prohibits professors from dating their students - ask your university HR department. Untenured professor is not going to risk his career for it - that happens very rarely, maybe once in several years with one professor on the whole campus. Raking up triple digits by banging his students in his position is not extremely unlikely, it is impossible. At least in the US, but maybe the universities sponsor orgies for their professors in Taiwan, who knows?

I taught at a university and at a community college at one point. The university was one of the top party schools in the US. I also know people who taught, and people who teach at those places, as well as other universities and colleges, so I have a very good idea what I am talking about.

2/13/12

If you're teaching at a juco, haven't you already pretty much failed in life? I mean, seriously. How much worse is it gonna get if you get caught pounding out co-eds?

In reply to etherlord
2/13/12
etherlord:

I think we can conclude which group do you belong to on the basis of your post.

A junior professor would be an idiot to sleep with one of his students, even if he was handsome enough to get every girl in his class interested. Here is the reason: there is such a thing as sexual harassment policy at any university. And it explicitly prohibits professors from dating their students - ask your university HR department. Untenured professor is not going to risk his career for it - that happens very rarely, maybe once in several years with one professor on the whole campus. Raking up triple digits by banging his students in his position is not extremely unlikely, it is impossible. At least in the US, but maybe the universities sponsor orgies for their professors in Taiwan, who knows?

I taught at a university and at a community college at one point. The university was one of the top party schools in the US. I also know people who taught, and people who teach at those places, as well as other universities and colleges, so I have a very good idea what I am talking about.

Take it easy there Dr. Doolittle . . .

I am not a professor of any kind, so you can kill about 90% of your ASSumptions right there. Second, I never said he dated them during class. Most women think it's a slick move to hand in their course evaluations with their phone number on it - he gets at least 2 or 3 every quarter, every class he teaches. Besides, he doesn't teach the entire damn campus, there are other women out there that aren't his students, you know?

In reply to Edmundo Braverman
2/13/12
Edmundo Braverman:

If you're teaching at a juco, haven't you already pretty much failed in life? I mean, seriously. How much worse is it gonna get if you get caught pounding out co-eds?

Most juco gigs are part time for other work. You only need a masters to teach at most (some you can teach with a Bachelors) so teaching at one isn't necessarily a failure.

2/13/12

100+ isn't impossible...

supposedly Charlie Sheen fucked over 4,000 women...

2/13/12

TBF, one of my good buddies is as adjunct at Ole Miss while working in state public policy, and he has fucked two students, both who apparently went out of there way to trick him into thinking they weren't undergrads.

2/13/12

Now on possibility to score triple digits in general...

I actually know someone who is above 200 range (actually in 400+ range). The guy is in his late 30s, looks like a Greek god, is wealthy with plenty of time to spare, and is obsessed with women. He is batshit crazy about increasing the number. He even has an Excel spreadsheet to track the women.

That type of a guy is on the far right side of the long tail of the distribution. It is theoretically possible that people like that do post in this thread - at the end of the day, WSO has gazillion users. However, it is very unlikely.

2/13/12

Look, no one said 100 is impossible. I said people on this thread are lying. I know people who claim to have done more than 100 different chicks and I believe them, but mainly because I've seen how low their quality standards are. Personally, you couldn't pay me to fuck a 4 or a 5 -- it's sex, true, but then you have beastly flashbacks for the rest of your life. It's not worth it. The goal should be on maintaining a high mean score for the women you have fucked (to a point -- obviously one 9 is a high average, but if that's all you've got, you're doing it wrong).

People in their 20s (which is what most people on this board are) that clear a hundred either put an inordinate amount of time into the effort (which is not possible if you studied your ass off in college and then work 100 hours a week), or have some other angle (fame, extreme wealth, high status collegiate athlete, whatever). It can be done. But to have multiple people on this board claiming they've done it is fishy at best. Most of the people posting here are probably nerdy Jewish kids.

And frankly, what most of the people are saying here about how they cleared 100 or know people who used X technique to clear 100 sound like bullshit based on real world observation. Sorry, it's not teaching at a junior college or cooking or shopping at Trader Joe's. It's just not. That's not what actually works in real life.

For a bunch of people aspiring to analytical roles, you people are doing a really shitty job on this thread.

2/13/12

you guys are talking some crazy numbers. 100+ seems way high, like you never had a girlfriend but just a steady stream of new ass. I think I had 9 by the time I left high school, and just cleared 30ish (total, including HS) before I got married. And I'm a god damn rock star (fact). Granted, I had a gf for 6 years during my prime college years, and for shortly after, which probably dented my number significantly, but I still can't imagine I would be in excess of 100 right now if I had been single that whole time.

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