Calling MDs by their nickname/shortened name (Bobby, Richie, etc)

Changed names for anonymity.

Sent a networking email to an MD named Robert, he replied and signed his email "Best, Bobby." I sent him a follow up email where I called him Bobby. When he emailed me back he had changed his name on his signature to Robert.

tl;dr MDs are petty and don't like to be called Bobby smh

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"thebrofessor" when talking with superiors, it's best to use terms of endearment, it keeps it fun in the office. here are some of my faves

champ sport slick chap (bonus points for 'ol chap) bud chief my lord your highness your majesty mr. firstname (like a YMCA camp counselor)

Also: Captain Tiger Killer Boss Hoss Bro Tough Guy Hollywood Big (whatever their name is, Big John for example) Rap-ize their name (B-Rad, or if their name is Paul Garofalo, something like Paulie G, etc)
 
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I think it depends on the work environment and culture of the firm. I definitely prefer someone call me by what I sign at the bottom of my email. First emails or when you don’t know the person that well, fine use the “Mr/Ms” title, but if you know the person it gets weird. Again, firm dependent, but I would feel pretty weird with people using such formal language.

 

wrong wrong wrong and wrong. I read your reply to low eq watch dog - wrong. a lot of mds would think it’s weird (unless they’re super old school, which even then knowing some super old school mds would still find it weird) to consistently call them Mr. x, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with calling them by their first name in an email

 

That hasn't happened to me, but I always address tham by "Hello Professor XXX," and if I'm in person, I'll just say, "Hello Professor," unless in the beginning of the quarter they say, "Oh, and you can just call me by my first name, Bobby."

"Markets can stay irrational longer than you can stay solvent."
 

At my university (T30 private), I’ve noticed that the professors who insist on being called by their last name and title usually haven’t accomplished anything in their careers. The professors who write in top journals, receive huge grants, and earn prestigious fellowships almost always insist on being called by their first name. Just an observation.

 
"FutureBankTeller" Some of my professors won't respond without Dr/Professor titled followed by last name. Even Mr/Mrs. doesn't cut it. Has this happened to anyone else?

That's because they're loser fucking academics that have to manufacture social protocols for respect because their accomplishments are not self-evident.

Thankfully the private sector is a different universe. Pay someone's checks and they'll fucking respect you, you don't need to be slighted by them calling you the common first name that literally everyone else in your life calls you.

“Millionaires don't use astrology, billionaires do”
 

I always use whatever name people sign off with when emailing me. You're probably overthinking it but if he changes his signature, just change what you call him in line. Not going to go around saying "Robert Diamond," "Robert Arnott," "Robert Axelrod" when it should be Bob, Rob, and Bobby.

Be excellent to each other, and party on, dudes.
 

You did the right thing and you’re just overthinking it. Your first email should be addressed to their first name and in subsequent emails you should note how they sign off. If you send an email to an MD named Edward and he signs off “Ted” then you call him Ted. Do not call him “Mr. Goldstein”. Believe it or not even when you come in as a first year analyst the culture today is that you are a professional in a professional setting.

 

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