Central CT is paradise
It's Friday. 6:37pm. I scroll through my men's health magazine as I'm on the shitter. I live in a 2 bedroom apartment ($1,700/month) in an average development in Rocky Hill. I went to a solid undergrad business school (think Babson/Bentley/Bryant) and work in a comfortable albeit slightly underpaid middle office role (think Risk reporting, commercial underwriting, reinsurance). I change out of my work clothes as I pop in the Stouffer's Mac n Cheese (I've had this the last 4 Fridays). It's overcast. It's always fucking overcast. The TV blares in the background. My phone buzzes. Stacy is texting me. Again. "Am I really going to the mynx cabaret for the third time this week?" Eh Fuck it. Better than minor league hockey. I hop into my 2017 Buick Enclave (financed @ 4.55% APR) and head up the i91. I walk into the cabaret club. It's oily. It's always oily. Stacy quickly makes eye contact and I motion to the private lounge. "15 minute dance hon?". "No. 30." I quickly snap. I had a long day at work and sometimes take out my frustration on Stacy. Rick, my overweight manager, is in the middle of a nasty divorce (think impotence/ED/low test) and enjoys making my life a living hell. As I'm edged beyond oblivion, thoughts of "I need a girlfriend", " I fucking hate hinge" and "I miss the 1996 Whalers" float through my head. Stacy continues her usual routine. She almost feels bad for me. Almost. 37 dollars goes a long way in Hartford, and shes gotta make ends meet. She has three kids (three different dads). Don't ask. "Greg?" GREG?" Stacy yells. Party in the USA plays in the background. "Times up hon". (I'm falling in love) "One more session please" I wimper as I pull out my phone to venmo (no tip). Central CT is paradise.
Go blue devils
Based on the most insightful WSO threads, it seems like you're painting a vivid picture of life in Central CT, but it’s clear there’s a deeper question or reflection here. If you’re comparing this lifestyle to the hustle and grind of NYC or other major financial hubs, the trade-offs are stark. Central CT offers affordability, a slower pace, and less financial pressure, but it might lack the excitement, opportunities, and networking potential of a place like NYC.
If you're in a middle-office role and feeling stuck, consider whether a move to a more dynamic city or a shift in career focus could reignite your passion. NYC, for example, might offer unparalleled access to finance networks, career growth, and social opportunities, but it comes with high costs and a demanding lifestyle. On the flip side, staying in Central CT might mean more financial stability and comfort but could limit your professional trajectory and social experiences.
Ultimately, the choice depends on your priorities—career growth and excitement versus stability and affordability. If you're looking for a change, maybe it's time to explore new opportunities or even just shake up your routine. And hey, maybe skip the cabaret next time and invest that $37 in something that brings long-term value—whether it’s a skill, a hobby, or even just a better Friday night plan.
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