Ghosted after 7 interviews at Morgan Stanley

I understand if I am not the right person for the role, but don't understand the disgusting lack of professional courtesy.

These types of practices need to end.

I will never apply to a role with them or respond to a recruiter who is shilling them ever again.

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Wrote a post about this a while back, "Ghosted? You will have the last laugh"

You had 7 interviews at MS. So I presume that you're a pretty qualified candidate who will be working in the industry under a different bank or firm very soon. Really dumb of them to behave this way simply out of self-interest as it's pretty likely that your paths will cross again.

 

Thank you, it is just so frustrating and shortsighted.

I honestly wouldn’t have minded if they said, “we are going on another direction” or “sorry we found a more qualified candidate”, but to say they are preparing an offer then disappear for two months and find out from a friend the role was filled; that hurts and is low class.

It feels a lot like dating in SF

 

Happened to me with MS as well. Gave me a verbal offer than retracted 1 month later. 

 

One time I had five interviews at Goldman.  After the fifth they said I was put through to the final round which I would have to fly to London for in person.  Didn't hear back for weeks despite multiple follow ups with HR and interviewers.  Six months later after I got another position I received an automated rejection email.  It's an unfortunate hallmark of the industry that these companies feel so entitled that they have no professional courtesy.

 

This has happened numerous times, the worst was I took a day off to interview for a super day. Turns out got through a 60% of the interviews and found out the back half of my schedule couldn't make my interview so wanted to reschedule another half day the next day. I was very annoyed that I took a day of PTO then had to make up another excuse as to why I was out the day after as well. 

All this and then got ghosted, I emailed the HR then called and actually got my HR rep on the phone - I think I caught her off guard and she said she would call me back. To my surprise she never did. 

 

Do I get why people are mad about this, yes.

Is it appropriate, no. 

Is it smart, yes; therefore, I never get why people complain, they know whats going on. Its like dating, "ghosting" the girl/guy whose your second choice instead of if your first choice doesn't work out. Candidate 1 might be who MS wants, but Candidate 1 might want JPM or GS; MS doesn't want to be caught with their pants down. Whats easier for them, telling you no then coming back begging you to take the role, or knowing there's a high probability you'll be waiting in the wings and they can give you a "sorry, been crazy over here, we want to offer..."

 

large corporate bureaucracy, but as they go with the candidate of their choice, followed by an estimate 2 weeks of negotiations/winning candidate weighing and accepting the offer, followed by an additional 2 weeks of background check/ followed by the candidate joining the firm 2-3 weeks later. That is a 1.5-2 months ghost period. Firms unfortunately have to be 100% certain that their candidate of choice does join the firm before they can inform you of their decision not to move forward with you. In the event that something happens with their original candidate of choice, it would be a huge set back for them to have already declined all their other candidates. 

We're not lawyers. We're investment bankers. We didn't go to Harvard. We Went to Wharton!
 

Same being ghosted after had 11 interviews with GS. Don’t care if they gave me a letter or not, if I don’t hear back within two days, I move on

 

I recently went through a similar experience for a mid-level position at a name brand HF and was baffled. Completed eight interviews, including with senior management, and passed a very detailed case study somewhere in the middle of the process. Throughout it all received timely and encouraging feedback from the HH running the process on how much they liked me, thought good fit, etc. Process was very well ran and I was never waiting around for more than a day or two to hear about the next round. At the conclusion of the last interview was told they wanted to complete background and reference checks before extending an offer. I received notice the background check had cleared, but after over a week none of my references had been contacted yet. HH hadn't heard anything. After 2 weeks I reached out to the fund's HR who I had also been in touch with and didn't hear back, but the next day got a call from the HH who told me the fund had basically "changed my mind" and cited some obscure concern about my case study that I had never heard until that point, which was surprising given the positive feedback from the team on it. 

Absolutely baffling and extremely inappropriate in my opinion. But such is life 

 

Raymond James has been known to ghost candidates as well - it has happened quite a few times to my close friends and network. I don't think the blame is entirely on HR; instead, I think that at least one of the members of the team that interviewed a candidate can at least spend 5-minutes drafting a kind rejection email as opposed to leaving a candidate in the dark who likely spent hours preparing. 

7 rounds of interviews leading to getting ghosted is insane. I feel for you!

Not like this means anything but I do think that the world works in mysterious ways and hopefully something positive comes to you in return for this in the near future!

 

Same experience but with Q. Shits whack but ig it shows how much competition there is.

 

Same experience but with Q. Shits whack but ig it shows how much competition there is.

 

Same experience but with Q. Shits whack but ig it shows how much competition there is.

 

Same experience but with Q. Shits whack but ig it shows how much competition there is.

 

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