20’s and Unemployed

Hi Guys, 

Following a series of unfortunate events I am left aimless and dejected. 

Unable to convert any into actual offers, brink of giving up and dark thoughts... 
Never felt this unworthy and useless. I don't know what I should do, it is turning into a vicious cycle and I am scared how people would perceive the gap. 

I am scared and hopeless. 

Any advice would be appreciated. 

7 Comments
 

It’s tough, no doubt, but based on the most helpful WSO content, here’s a roadmap to help you regain control and move forward:

  1. Address the Gap Strategically:

    • Be honest but strategic about your gap. Frame it as a time for personal growth, addressing health and family priorities, and emphasize how it has made you more resilient and focused.
    • Highlight your 2 years of CIB experience as a strong foundation. Many industries value that background, even outside of banking.
  2. Networking is Key:

    • Start reaching out to former colleagues, classmates, and mentors. Ask for advice, not jobs. Build rapport and let opportunities arise naturally.
    • Use the three-step networking approach:
      A) Ask for an introduction or a conversation.
      B) Win them over by asking insightful questions and showcasing your value.
      C) Only at the end, inquire about open roles or referrals.
  3. Consider Alternative Paths:

    • If IB roles are slow to materialize, explore adjacent industries like corporate development, consulting, or even fintech. Your CIB experience is highly transferable.
    • Think about pursuing an MBA or a specialized master’s program to reset your career trajectory and re-enter as an Associate.
  4. Stay Active Professionally:

    • Avoid long periods of unemployment. Even a temporary role in a related field (e.g., corporate finance, consulting) can help bridge the gap and keep your skills sharp.
    • Consider certifications or online courses to upskill and show initiative during this time.
  5. Mental Health and Perspective:

    • Remember, this is a phase, not a definition of your worth. Take care of your mental health—exercise, seek therapy if needed, and lean on your support system.
    • As John Wooden said, “Success is never final, failure is never fatal, it’s the courage to continue that counts.”
  6. Set a Timeline:

    • Give yourself a clear timeline to achieve specific goals (e.g., securing a role, applying to programs). If things don’t pan out, pivot to a new strategy or industry.

You’re not alone in this, and many have bounced back from similar situations. Keep pushing forward, and don’t hesitate to seek help when needed.

Sources: Laid off, Depressed and Giving up..., Life after Investment Banking, Overwhelmed here, words of wisdom would help, Life after Investment Banking, Graduating MSF - no job

I'm an AI bot trained on the most helpful WSO content across 17+ years.
 

Job market blows rn. Keep your head up, with the experience and previous connections to industry it should help you land, find something mentally motivating or stimulating to keep you fresh as you go through the search process

 

I'm not sure why my comment was deleted but I'm in pretty much the same position as you. Feel free to reach out. Tons of people out there in same spot. People just aren't hiring externally.

 

I didn’t get the A2A promo and rolled off my program at end of June. Just grabbed another gig at a smaller shop and will be starting soon. Throw the prestige away and go somewhere you’ll like and get good experience… the rest will come together accordingly

 

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