Accidentally hit on my VP’s fiancé… am I cooked?

For context, this was at a team happy hour last week. I am halfway through my internship at MM and deeply concerned about my chances of getting a return offer.

I had a little too much to drink and was a bit too flirty with her. I did not know she was his fiancé (clearly) and wasn’t thinking much at the time. From what I remember, I might have been a little handsy. Turns out, they’re engaged, and I might be fucked.

VP has not mentioned anything yet, but she had to have told him. She was kinda into it (it seemed) but maybe she was trying to be nice? Should I write a handwritten apology to VP, or accept defeat and network for FT?

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This reminds me of when I let an intern cuck me—Absolutely love having a nice trusty bull do wonders to my wife… Would love to pm you to meet up and maybe we can make it a regular thing.

 

Fax tho. I know the OP is almost certainly fake but if this type of scenario could happen, I'd be way more bothered by the fiancé not saying anything.

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Bro what lmfao. Just don't bring it up act like it never happened. If it comes up then apologize and say you didn't know. A VP with a hot wife probably isn't that insecure about it, especially if he's leaving her unattended enough to be hit on by interns. Shit who knows maybe they saw you from across the bar and "dig your vibe." 

 

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