Can I try it with the intern?

Ok so here me out.

Our summer internship program ends next week and there’s this one intern who I’ve fancied since the day she joined.

Ive never spoken to her as she is in a different team and I don’t have any contacts in that team so there’s 0 way of me getting a convo with here unless I directly message. But I’ve seen her around and oh my god. She is the most attractive girl I’ve EVER seen in my life, she is incredible woahhhh. 
 

I figured there’s only 1 week left so I really want to shoot my shot at least one time but I don’t know whether to? and if so how I could do it?

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You could and their probably won't be any consequences but what if there is?  What if it's not received well?  What if it gets around that you shot your shot at a random intern that you hadn't said a word to in person?  

It's ill advised to date within your own firm and I'd say it's extremely ill advised to be a FTE pursuing interns.  It's one thing if you've had interactions, sensed a connection, or had some level of report but to come in completely cold via DM as a random guy that works at the same company is tragic. 

 

You miss all the shots you don’t take my guy. Shoot your shot and live with the consequences that’s what being a man is about. The second she says no or anything of that nature stay chill and don’t give a reaction. 

 

On one hand she won’t be there in 2 weeks, on the other hand if it goes wrong you won’t be either.

 

Do or do not, there is no try.

English please?

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

The amount of absolute virgins on this website still shocks me from time to time 

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1 week left means you want a hookup before she moves back to her home city.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
WalnutBrain

We aren’t gonna “here” you out bro

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
Green_Bananas

Risking your career over some girl is deadass crazy 

Yeah not recommended.

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