Finding Someone in 2026: Lost Cause?

I'll be honest, I've not particularly prioritized the whole finding someone part of life just out of nature of always having something to focus on, be it university studies, CFA preparation, or the work. And I think anyone who comes from South Asia (or other immigrant backgrounds) also understands that there are certain cultural expectations that really limit opportunities. 

With that said, I'm approaching the second act and have decided to prioritize this part of life, but with apps being what they are, and societal norms being what they are, I have a genuine question for the room: Where do you go to meet someone you may want to strike up a romantic relationship with? 

The former generation used to go to bars, clubs, then the generation just before mine had some success with apps, and social clubs (run club, sports, rock climbing, etc.), but post-COVID, I've not heard of anything outside of mutual friends, school, or work. As I work in an industry with the average of "I have grandkids", have been out of school for some time, and there are only so many opportunities among mutual friends, I'm unsure what avenue to consider. 

I'm pragmatic at heart, I may just try some dating service for the convenience of it; I also find that approaching someone for conversation has become increasingly rare which limits organic connections or opportunities. 

Now, I'm aware this whole piece reads like a sociopath's guide to finding someone; I've been advised my apporach can be a tad clinical. So if anyone's found a better way at things, I'm all ears. 

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