How to "Focus" while working out?

I really struggle maintaining the mental focus to finish a full hour-long workout. I'm not naturally unathletic (played basketball in HS) but have been wanting to get back into shape now that I'm an "adult". Every time I start running on the treadmill, or lifting some weights, the only thing in my head is "damn, I have X task to finish, or that I should finish studying Y, I should text Z girl, or any unrelated thought, that makes me end up quitting halfway. Anyone have any tips that have worked to help "block out" unrelated thoughts and finish workouts?

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Just stop being a pussy. Sounds blunt, but it works. Sometimes I’ll get near the end of my workout and my brain goes “I don’t really have to do the last two lifts, right? Nothings gonna happen if I skip them this one time.” And then I stop for a second, realize that’s my brain trying to make me act like a little bitch, and tell myself to stop being a pussy. It works every time because once I frame it like that, I can never let myself give in to being so weak.

 

SB for this. I think the same thing.

I listen to podcast while running, that’s helped a lot. It makes me less inclined to think “Today I’ll take the short route”

“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

I hate cardio, even with music or podcasts. It’s torture to me to run on a treadmill or do the elliptical or stairs. I played basketball in high school, and since I’m in college I’ll just go to the gym and play pickup for 2 hours until I’m dead. That won’t be sustainable for my joints long term though, so I might have to pick up swimming at some point.

 

Have you tried compartmentalising thoughts?

eg ‘ I have to phone xyz’

try saying to yourself when random thoughts pop in your head ‘ok I have to phone xyz. I have 21 mins of my workout remaining. I will deal with it when I finish in 21 mins’ After a while it becomes a habit.

 

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I just did 11:43 of intensity - 2mi treadmill (5:52 pace). 

10mph - 11.2mph. Started at 10.0 - no warmup, but I indoor cycled earlier today.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Imo if I am not struggling in the gym I don't think I'm using proper mind muscle connection or I have shit form. To be quite frank this is a mentality to have in life nothing good comes easy and never will.

 

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

You need to stop being a PUSSY BITCH. Why did you go to the gym if not for MAKING SOME MAD GAINZ. Add more PLATES. Do more REPS.

Abuse yourself. If you're in the mental state of 'oh I should text xyz' then you aren't pushing yourself enough. I never listen to music or have pre /caffeine. I push myself hard and 80% of the time my headspace is completely clear and I am just living in the moment feeling my pump and the blood flowing. Sounds weird but that's the zone you need to be in for GAINZ.

In the moments when I start 'daydreaming' I remind myself that I am present in the gym for this period of time for one purpose, and that if I'm not focusing then I'm wasting my time. 

 

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