I’m extremely anxious and worried , it killing me .
I’m a sophomore in college and I didn’t come from a background where I could have some mentoring in finance or any business related field for that matter . However I go to a really good business school (top 8) and I see kids always doing good shit like getting internships at big companies while being a sophomore . While when I try to look up for anything , nothing comes up . I don’t specifically want to be in IB, I’m actually more interested in real estate and majoring in both finance and real estate and Even though I was planning to go to IB, I think that lifestyle would not allow me to get into real estate on the side . Anyways I want to know if this fear is normal . My school had a really good employment rate but I don’t know I feel like I don’t belong here even thought I went through a rigorous process to get admitted into the school ( we have a direct and standard admit which is 10x harder and I was in later one ). I would really love to see if anyone went through the same thing and where they at know . Thank you and sorry for long post
You are describing imposter syndrome, which absolutely everyone experiences. You deserve to be where you are, otherwise you wouldn't be there. I know it's easy to convince yourself that somebody made a mistake and they're going to "figure you out" soon, but over time you'll notice if you just focus on the task at hand, you're just going to keep succeeding.
100% I second this.
You deserve to be there man, don’t let your thoughts worry you. You got this. I guarantee you 1,000 other kids at your school are feeling that exact same way.
What do you mean in this sentence? "While when I try to look up for anything, nothing comes up ."
Every school has kids with an advantage and you just need to grind a bit to build your network. Maybe start small with recent grads or upperclassmen with interesting internships? Eventually you'll build up the confidence to talk shop with higher level people. Start an excel workbook to track, be deliberate about 2-3 convos a week or something, join clubs, and go to every school career function. Sounds like you just need to get started on some of this stuff.
Make sure you read a ton of threads on this site on networking/recruiting and then HAMMER your alumni network. Your school's alumni is what you put in the work to get access to and now is the time to be proactive. Don't be that kid that didn't take action to build a network and end up reduced to your career portal when looking for FT work. No one is coming to save you and the sooner you realize that the better... you go to a great school and that is a huge head start over clowns like me that went to a total non-target and knew nothing about the career game as a sophomore. You have 2 years to kill it. Good luck.
Fuck those other people.. prob had infinitely better resources than you did, and not much you can do about that. If it makes you feel any better, I didn’t even know what IB/PE/AM recruiting was like until junior year summer, which meant I was completely screwed
What you can focus on us yourself, networking, and making sure check all your schools OCR stuff. If you’re at a top school like you say you are, then it’ll naturally work itself out (assuming you are in fact, bright and motivated)
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