My Shirts Don't Fit As Well as Before. Looking for Advice

A few of my shirts fit a bit small now compared to when I first purchased them a few years ago as a new analyst.  I’m not sure if I should try to find a tailor, buy new shirts, or look for specific styles. Any recommendations? Also, any advice to slim down a bit would be really appreciated!

16 Comments
 
[Comment removed by mod team]
 
Most Helpful

by far the most effective avenues of losing weight are through diet. It's 80-90% diet and 10-20% exercise. 

2 braindead easy rules to follow:

1. avoid processed foods (incl. pasta, bread, etc - most of them are filled with additives/are highly processed, try to eat grains instead as a carb) 

2. make sure you're having a nice big portion of vegetables with every meal, no matter what. Veggies are super low calorie and very satiating and will take the place otherwise filled with calorically dense foods 

 

+1 to this. Lost 20+ pounds after college after I cut out a lot of processed foods / high calorie diet (was working out 5-7 times a week but had a beer belly). Was too busy to hit the gym at my first job post college so I did loose a lot of muscle (I can't even come close to matching what I used to be able to lift when I was 22/23 but I do feel a lot healthier now with my diet in check). 

 

Slimming down - fairly simple to plan for hard to execute. for me what works is 30mins work out any morning I get 6.5hrs of sleep plus

Then with diet you should be limiting food outside of breakfast, lunch, dinner, 1 healthy snack between breakfast and lunch or lunch and dinner depending on when you're most hungry. Stick to salads and mediterranean types of places on seamless at least 3x/week

Shirts - harder to make clothes bigger than it is smaller. id go ahead and just rebuy if you plan to be this size forever.

 
Polymer789

Intermittent Fasting was a gamechanger for me. 

I just have 1-2x espresso in the morning and then eat as normal from 12pm.

Focus is much better on an empty stomach as well. 

This isn’t exactly the full picture when you say “eat as normal from 12pm.” Intermittent fasting means eating in 8 hour or less windows and then fasting for 16 hours or more. So technically if you start eating at 12pm, you should stop eating by 8pm.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
Isaiah_53_5 💎🙌💎🙌💎
Polymer789

Intermittent Fasting was a gamechanger for me. 

I just have 1-2x espresso in the morning and then eat as normal from 12pm.

Focus is much better on an empty stomach as well. 

This isn’t exactly the full picture when you say “eat as normal from 12pm.” Intermittent fasting means eating in 8 hour or less windows and then fasting for 16 hours or more. So technically if you start eating at 12pm, you should stop eating by 8pm.

There are many different iterations of IF, but yes I generally stop eating by 7-8pm. It can vary day-to-day, but ultimately any diet method that will result in high adherence is best. Personally, any diet that is too rigid or attempting to 'just stop eating x or y' is too rigid and doomed to failure imo

 

Athlean x just made a vid abt getting lean and i think it's great message. Instead of focusing on the things to avoid just focus more on getting the good stuff, protein, sleep (however much you need, just get to bed as early as possible), exercise. I.e if your getting enough protein your going to be too satiated to eat some garbage

 

If you can find a tailor who actually makes a good shirt, more power to you.  I've tried and it never comes out very good.  None of them have a true non-iron fabric and their sizing has never been great.  In your shoes I'd go to Brooks Brothers, get the larger cut (not slim fit but the fuller fit) and then if that's too big, have a tailor taper it down (those two lines you see some guys have on their back) to fit you.

For weight loss most of the stuff is obvious.  Of course more exercise and sleep is good.  Obviously eating veggies instead of pizza is good. 

To me the real question is why don't people do these obvious things even though they know it would work? I think a big key is hunger control and for me cutting carbs has been huge for that.

You'll hear debates on whether or not to cut carbs.  I'm generalizing but the non-carbers are more often right in these debates and here's why.  The pro-carbers will say its all about total calories and you won't lose any weight if you replace carbs with fat and keep calories constant.  Which is certainly right (law of thermodynamics).  But they ignore that the more stable blood sugar from a low-carb diet has various hormonal effects (insulin, ghrelin) which can cut hunger and cause a person to be able to get through the day with less cravings and thus eat less calories.

So cutting carbs generally and especially the fastest-burning carbs . . sugars, bread, pasta etc etc . . it's worked for a lot of people and I think the science is basically what I said above.  I'm not an expert but I've listened to a lot of them.  Veggies are different, anything with a ton of fiber is going to be a slow carb and a lot less harmful and also beneficial because of the fiber itself, so don't cut those.  Unfortunately most fruit falls in the fast-carb category so it's better to limit that.

 

What's your diet and workout routine like? How is your sleep quality and stress levels?

I only have a banana in the morning and then some sort of salad or rice bowl for lunch. Sweetgreen, Cava, Chopt, etc., For dinner it's usually just chicken and broccoli lol. I try to cut out bread. I do have protein pasta sometimes though when I'm craving pasta, but not that often.

Try to work out consistently. You should lift weights but recently I've been really liking F45 classes and boxing classes.

I'd recommend an Oura Ring or Whoop to track your sleep. Sleep is key.

 

Could be time for new shirts if you’re wearing something cheap like trywhit or similar. Dieting is always great, healthy living is never going to be bad thing.

That said if your in the market for new bespoke or MtM shirting I personally recommend Turnbull & Asser and Ralph Lauren Purple Label (only purple label) for RL you can go into their flagship and get an appointment for custom shirting with custom fabrics. You won’t find anything online really. $400-$600/shirt

For a slightly cheaper option Cordon 1956 is great, they have trunk shows for most major cities. $200-$300 /shirt

 
poignant

Could be time for new shirts if you’re wearing something cheap like trywhit or similar. Dieting is always great, healthy living is never going to be bad thing.

That said if your in the market for new bespoke or MtM shirting I personally recommend Turnbull & Asser and Ralph Lauren Purple Label (only purple label) for RL you can go into their flagship and get an appointment for custom shirting with custom fabrics. You won’t find anything online really. $400-$600/shirt

For a slightly cheaper option Cordon 1956 is great, they have trunk shows for most major cities. $200-$300 /shirt

I actually prefer the $1200 - $1500 shirts with the 24 carat gold threads. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Qui nobis repudiandae molestiae. Veritatis iusto assumenda voluptatem minima aut veritatis fuga. Corporis sit consequatur velit. Repellat et autem iste ipsam debitis impedit cum accusamus.

Nostrum repudiandae fugit veniam magnam. Nulla expedita optio consequatur non ab harum. Vel unde odio dolorem amet rem aut eligendi accusantium.

Est ut eveniet harum alias dolorum. Assumenda magni quidem ex. Velit provident vitae itaque doloremque minima sit sed voluptates. Qui dolorem corporis sit dolor. Aut quia reprehenderit ut saepe deserunt suscipit. Et aspernatur voluptatem esse harum dolorem.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Career Advancement Opportunities

June 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.8%
  • JPMorgan 01 98.2%
  • Guggenheim Partners 01 97.7%
  • Morgan Stanley 07 97.1%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

June 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.4%
  • Morgan Stanley 02 98.8%
  • Evercore 01 98.2%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.6%
  • Banco Santander 01 97.1%

Professional Growth Opportunities

June 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.8%
  • Morgan Stanley 05 98.2%
  • JPMorgan No 97.7%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.1%

Total Avg Compensation

June 2026 Investment Banking

  • Vice President (14) $434
  • Associates (43) $259
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (8) $210
  • 2nd Year Analyst (22) $179
  • Intern/Summer Associate (13) $156
  • 1st Year Analyst (77) $151
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (71) $101
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
3
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
4
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
5
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
6
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
7
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
8
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
9
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
10
Linda Abraham's picture
Linda Abraham
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”