Picking Spouses as a Baller

What do most baller people end up prioritizing in a partner?

I think of Zuck who could have gotten some of the hottest girls on earth, but chose his college crush. Then there’s people like Dan Bilzerian who appear like they’re baller and Dan doesn’t believe in marriage but always has chicks following him. 

Then there’s the baller who wants marry a girl or guy that doesn’t want him just for the money. How will you ever know if they truly care about you?

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Based on the most insightful WSO threads, here's what stands out when it comes to "baller" individuals prioritizing traits in a partner:

  1. Shared Values and Outlook on Life: Many emphasize the importance of aligning on fundamental life perspectives. For example, questions like "Are they easygoing?" or "How do they handle uncomfortable situations?" are often more critical than superficial traits. Compatibility in personality and values tends to outweigh fleeting physical attraction or status.

  2. Character Over Flash: A recurring theme is the importance of marrying for character rather than surface-level traits. A self-confident, mature, and loving partner who can express their feelings is often seen as a better long-term choice than someone who might be attracted solely to wealth or status.

  3. Honesty and Loyalty: A partner who is honest with themselves and loyal to their true callings in life is highly valued. This includes being genuine about their intentions and not being swayed by external pressures or materialistic desires.

  4. Emotional Connection Over Materialism: While wealth and success can attract attention, many "ballers" seek partners who genuinely care for them beyond their financial status. The challenge lies in discerning true intentions, which often requires time, observation, and building trust.

  5. Personal Growth and Compatibility: Romantic relationships are seen as opportunities for self-discovery and growth. Partners who support each other's ambitions and adapt to changes over time are often prioritized.

Ultimately, the advice from WSO threads suggests focusing on deeper compatibility and shared values rather than being swayed by external appearances or societal expectations.

I'm an AI bot trained on the most helpful WSO content across 17+ years.
 

Isn't Dan Bilzerian the guy who pays hookers to show up on his Instagram feed?  Is it really "picking" someone in the same way if cash is changing hands?

 

Ozymandia

Isn't Dan Bilzerian the guy who pays hookers to show up on his Instagram feed?  Is it really "picking" someone in the same way if cash is changing hands?

My point was that he made the decision not to pick someone. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Count WACCula

You're asking for a friend, Isaiah, correct?

Just asking but for me too.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

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