Ppl who grew up in abusive (physical, emotional) homes, how did it affect you growing up? What did they do to you? why? How are you managing now in life?

How did u realize your parents were abusive ? Did it happen in an instant, or slowly over time ? I’m trying to build a new life for myself now and am trying to figure out what I’m doing but have no idea. But I constantly feel stunned and overwhelmed at how my life story has been completely re-written in just several months. Ppl that been through something similar, do you feel the same way ?

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I have a lot of anger inside of me from all of it. Sometimes I think I feel empathy like everyone else, but sometimes I'm honestly not sure.

 

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