Shallow NYC gold diggers
God, these girls are absolutely intolerable. At least the gold digging chicks in Los Angeles are hot. These chicks are horrendous. Oh well; that's NYC for you.
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ya for gold diggers complaining these chicks are pretty average looking, fourth from the left is beat looking as hell.
I second the above poster. Those girls were far from anything that a banker should be proud to bring out in public. I'm not too worried though, by the time we start making enough money to be "F.B.F.'s" (yes, i read the website) again, they'll be too old to be anything but cougars. Karma's a b!tch.
might have a go at the one in the middle (at least half a bottle deep), but the rest of those slags are rank
id give it to the one in the middle as well but the arm cross/wearing black makes me afraid she may be trying to hide the extra few pounds shes packing
i'd like the one in the middle.
the funniest part about these women is that they've convinced themselves that they're some sort of hot commodity, when in reality they are third-tier talent at best. It always cracks me up how women in nyc try their hardest to live the sex & the city life, and if they can't get there they just pretend they do. Silly little sleezies
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2009/01/defending_the_dating_a_banker.html
yea but i guess if they were hotter, they wouldnt have to sit around sulking with their support group.
Absolutely. I posted the link more for the comments...pretty jokes.
Those poor girls. They socially(?) killed themselves. By giving out their names to the nyt, they are all over the internet (through google search). And 99% of the content in negative (e.g. sleazy, greedy, lazy, stupid, bitch)
People should no better. Never give out your name to big publication papers/mags in the age of the internet. I made the same mistake with the WSJ in 2006 but the content wasn't nowhere as negative/controversial.
P.s.- side note- I think the girl second from the left is perfect. She seems like the "helpless-girly-girl" types that I love.
Gold Diggers - Where (Originally Posted: 05/26/2010)
Where do you find gold diggers?
I don't understand why so many people avoid them.
Let them know you have money and then dump them after you fuck them.
Sun Wu Kong = richochetX?
I've never seen this much fail before in a forum.
read the haynesworth thread
To OP, are for reals a virgin or just have that little game? Didn't you start that tread on how to leverage your new role to get women or something, or where to find women?
Or you can be like your namesake and find a monk/priest and call him master.
whorehouse
Anyone else get disgusted with the gold diggers? (Originally Posted: 12/03/2014)
Not to make this a rant, but from the people I know of in the banking industry, this issue is pretty damn prevalent and annoying. One BB associate's wife I am friends with on facebook consistently makes posts about the expensive goods she purchases with her husband's money.
Providing some background, the girl is by no means spending money that can be perceived as "her money." Graduate of a very modest university, works as an assistant controller for a local bread-shop, just a pretty face, you get the idea.
She posts occasional "shout outs" to her "amazing hubby," who is never present in the photos she posts of herself since he is always working his ass off at the bank. All the while, she is buying designer clothes, accessories for her poodle, and so on.
I don't really have much to say here; I just hope that some future bankers don't get taken. People really should be smarter than this.
For example, I remember when I got into a target business school how old classmates started trying to latch on to me for a future possibility of getting some "career perks." I have no idea what they were thinking. One kid even offered me christmas gifts, to fix my car's check engine light, make me breakfast!, etc...this is a strange world with bizarre people...
Regarding the time I signed for an internship, same situation, old co-workers/interns would see my linkedin account updates and they'd invite me to holiday parties in order to "catch up."
I expect that any rising banker has had enough experience with this to sniff out those who are simply tag-alongs. Use your head.
insecure? that kinda thinking is gonna kill you.
insecure? that kinda thinking is gonna kill you.
And while there are true gold diggers out there, a lot of the times you almost encourage your wife to spend some dough because you're never there. Had to travel half way around the world and miss your 10th wedding anniversary? "Honey, why don't you take a few of your friends to some ridiculously overpriced day spa and go shopping?" And a little red box with gold trim is accompanying you on your way back from HK. It's the price you pay for working all the time.
But accessories for a poodle? That's just weird.
Liking yourself is necessary for success. Self-absorbed is another matter.
I could care less to be honest. Feel bad for the guy who overpaid for a depreciating and over supplied commodity.
stop worrying about what other people are doing with their SO, no one cares what you think, and judging someone else's relationship decisions is an easy way to lose friends. worry about yourself, and know that this isn't a "banking" thing, it's anything that's higher income. attorneys, doctors, hell even engineers. there are leeches everywhere, so get off your high horse.
congrats on the b school deal as well as the job, but whining about someone's facebook posts? c'mon man, if you went to a target you should know there's a button that allows you to unfollow someone, while still remaining friends, and they will never know.
What's the matter? Can't bag a rich one yourself? Try changing your look and being less jelly.
You must have had some really loser co-workers and acquaintances if they're kissing your ass just because you got into the likes of darden/fuqua/stern.
Are you jealous because the bread shop girl plays the game better than you or because you can't pull the bread shop girl? Seems like pretty basic supply/demand econ here to me. Maybe stop sitting around on FB worrying about others.
You must be a big shit bro....
Maybe he likes her company or something weird like that?
I mean c'mon. I really doubt this one.
I don't know what's worse...gold diggers or attention whores.
But yeah it's all a game, guys want to make the beast with the two backs, girls want money and attention and someone to control. At some point you meet somewhere in the middle (no pun intended).
Tinder is attention whores island.
Women who complain about this are unattractive and unable to get a successful man.
I've experienced this myself. I know it's real because I've experienced an old girl from college who wanted to befriend me years later thinking that I would subsidize her wannabe golddigger lifestyle.
Tinder is epic. Get a fake GPS app and build the pipeline.
IMO, I like gold diggers. You know their price. Now it's up to you to give them a taste, hit it and move on. Marrying a wallet leach is silly and in 5-10 years you'll be stuck with a beat, old model. If your goal is to essentially buy pussy why would you lock yourself down with one. They won't be good wives, good mothers or good humans. Treat them like you treat a rental. Use, abuse and return to sender.
Tinder is pretty epic. Fake GPS app? I need to look into that.
Nice with the wallet leach there. +1. You have to realize, however, that people change and that "down-to-earth" girl can evolve into a leach.
But doesn't it bother you that you have to essentially buy your way in? Whereas, equally good looking men are enjoying gold digger type women based off their looks?
Poor good looking guys don't get the gold digger types.
Not quite sure why one is "better" than the other. Not all guys can be good-looking; not all guys can be rich. In either case the woman is with you because of an extrinsic quality that she values, whether it's looks or wealth/success.
I hate to break it to the younger men on this forum...all women are gold diggers to a certain extent. Some are more obvious about it and some just want to make sure that they are with someone that can support them and provide stability. Either way the better looking the woman, the more they can trade those looks for the person that will offer them the lifestyle they want. Simply a matter of supply and demand.
Sluts going to sloot bro get over it. It is all part of the game good looking chick with no working skills wants to have the baller lifestyle and below Average to average looking guys want a model wife you both get what you want. Although I would say if you are good looking guy and rich you probably just should not get married as you get the short end of the deal.
This is very true for some people. A guy I used to work with, who looked like an ogre but was loaded, used to just go for arm candy. He was always married or in long term relationships and the girls were absolute 10's. Dumb as sacks of rocks but he didn't care. He didn't want a great conversationalist. He wanted a hot woman that he could screw anytime he wanted and someone to bring out to show off that he could get these women, and the women got a nearly unlimited bank account, to live in luxury places and drive whatever cars they wanted. He got what he wanted, she(they) got what they wanted.
OP cant get a date with an attractive, cultured girl to save his life
The easiest and most accurate way to put this, your money to her is the same as her looks are to you. That's true of all women, but in the USA they'll just say they are attracted to a guy who is "talented" or "ambitious" or "driven" vague terms that ultimately boil down to money or likely to have money in the future. In other countries (basically everywhere else that doesn't speak english) women will come out and say they value how much money a man has, granted there's a cultural reason for that. On some levels the whole thing disgusts me, especially anything along the lines of if you've "fucked up" (whatever the hell that means) you have to make it up to her by opening your wallet.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, I know what you mean and on some levels I agree, but don't delude yourself into thinking that isn't the case with all women. Or at least 99% because I know one of you is going to point to some exception to the rule you saw one time on your way to work. The important thing is establishing the relationship dynamic you want relatively early on, as in, if you aren't willing to spend everything on a girl, don't spend everything to get the girl and expect that to change.
whoops... i clicked on the thread expecting a discussion on Goldcorp and Yamana..., and yes I am disgusted with them.
Lol! Spoken like a true Boothie. God, I LOVE Booth.
Another point that's getting overlooked is that by the time you're an MD and married or with girlfriend, you don't have time to take care of the kids / house / life so your wife/gf stays home and takes care of shit. She stays home, loses her sense of fulfillment, especially when you're still gone 12 hrs each day, so in order to compromise you're more than happy to open the coffers. Wife spends money on the house / life / kids then feels fulfilled.
Most middle-aged guys don't have a problem increasing their wife's budget if it means coming home to a non-shit storm environment. And getting laid.
Like putting a band-aid on a head wound. If you want a woman to fulfill that role, go get a Brazilian (for example), looks like a model, will do all of that and be more than happy with whatever 'budget' you deem appropriate and you won't run into any of those problems.
also OP, I just realized you're a junior at UVA, you make it sound like you've already got girls sweating you as you enter post MBA IB associate recruiting. get off your high horse dude, glad you're smart but focus more on grades and actually GETTING a job versus people looking for handouts if you do.
LOL, good lord OP, what is wrong with you? I def was not concerned with gold diggers at age 20/21 (nor now). Can you even get into bars? haha
For your sake, I hope you're a troll.
Some of you dweebs post such moving, moronic shit that I felt the need to take 45 seconds out of my life to make a throwaway acct
Seeing as how I possess these purportedly magical Fallopian tubes for which the 17-year-olds on this site pine and whine, I'll give you my opinion: most girls (esp. In NY) are lazy cunts who have money on their minds.
They want "security" aka someone to take care of them and buy them big fat engagement rings that they can Instagram. They want babies on babies on babies aka collateral so their husbands can't leave them later on. They want to quit their jobs as stylists/dancers/art assistants so that they can sit on their Restoration Hardware sofas in the Hamps during summers and binge watch Kim and Kourtney Take the Adirondacks and get fat because—guess what?—they're pregnant again.
But they are bb qts and you put up with their shit for that sole fact so get over it and stop complaining! Such is life, young virgins. Such is life.
Super blunt but very true, and it's something naive WSO monkeys need to hear.
I laugh whenever a guy says "I want to be with a girl who likes me for who I am." It's one of the most annoying cliches in modern society. First, what exactly defines "who I am"? Are factors such as height, looks, money, family background, success, not part of who you are? Then they reply, "Well, those are external factors and do not get to the core of who I "really" am." Again, this assertion is terribly naive. Although being successful does not make one more inherently valuable as a human being (by that I mean that rich and poor alike deserve basic rights and human dignity), it does make one more valuable as a MATE. This is the simple product of thousands of years of biological and cultural evolution. You simply can't fight it.
Second, when I look at all the couples I know, there are very few couples where the man is less successful than the woman. And likewise there are very few cases where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman. The single women in my b-school badly want to meet someone who will make tons of cash so they can quit their corporate job and work from home or something super laid-back (i.e., a fashion "startup", designing jewelry, personal fitness trainer, etc.). They won't say this in public, but I have heard this on multiple occasions during private conversations. Feminists will hate hearing this because it goes against their notion of how smart successful women should behave and strive for. No matter how loudly they yell, the feminists can't overcome basic biology.
Use and abuse bros. Male value increases. You can be 35 and cherry pick youngins or opportunitically slay over 30. Love is a fallacy and children will now let you live forever. Spaghetti monster isn't going to high five you when you fade into darkness.
Get married, but do so way after you've crush enough to realize pzzy has zero value.
lol. +
Demarco Murray didn't seem rattled tonight against the bears. NSFW http://thebiglead.com/2014/12/04/brennan-clay-shared-a-dirty-text-excha…
Sorry just catching up... so this is the kind of gold diggers we are discussing:
http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-12-05/ex-wife-of-continental-chief-f…
When I was a junior in college these stories kept me up at night
http://www.Amazon.com/Men-Strike-Boycotting-Marriage-Fatherhood/dp/1594036756
If you're a halfway decent looking guy and work in this industry you'll come across gold diggers. It's not hard to sniff them out if you've been around the block once or twice. They're a lot of fun but always catch and release. I don't take as hard a line as some of the other guys on here, I do believe there are girls who aren't focused on money. They're very rare, and if you find one hold onto her.
Dude,
Facebook is brag book... Every single girl on facebook posts stuff to make themselves look better. I call it the kardashian affect.
I'm glad WSO can be real about this stuff. It's not exactly politically correct, even if it's true, and I feel like other sites would give the "women aren't gold diggers, that's a generalization" BS.
I have heard women firsthand say all throughout college and even high school they're going to marry rich; they don't even try to really conceal their gold-digging ways in my experience. Mothers are to blame, as they train their young ones early on to marry for money. If you don't want to gamble 50% of your net worth, I advise not getting married. And don't think pre-nups will save you, as they can be invalidated for all sorts of reasons like, for example, the women feeling "pressured." Women will be extremely deceptive though - I know I've been deceived my fair share of times.
How cynical. Someone definitely pissed in your cornflakes.
delete
If Ken Griffin, the founder of one of the world's largest hedge funds, is having to to go to court in order to enforce his pre-nup, there is little hope for us mere mortals.
I would imagine a guy smart enough to be a senior banker would be smart enough to know he has a gold digger on his hands...he probably doesn't care either way
What would some early warning signs be (in the first 2-3 dates) that you are out with a gold digger?
Can nobody tell the difference between a gold digger and a regular girl? My faith in humanity is fading..
Can nobody tell the difference between a gold digger and a regular girl? My faith in humanity is fading..
I was out with a girl a few weeks ago and in both the first and second dates she randomly mentioned salary numbers and seemed to be looking at my reaction. Can't make this stuff up.
Basically any questions or actions that try to gauge how much money you make or have. I think a really common sign is when she tries to change your proposed date venue to something more expensive like a fancy restaurant.
Help w/ goldigger? (Originally Posted: 03/21/2015)
I'm relatively new to the whole gold digger dating game. I recently met this girl in an upscale LA bar and she was obviously into my money. After we talked she came back to my only apartment and she spent the night. When we woke up I just stayed in bed because that was my first day off in 2 weeks. She stayed in bed with me and honestly I thought nothing of it. Around lunch time I got up to go to the gym and she literally pulled me back into bed and we had morning sex. After that she said very blunty she was getting evicted from her apartment and wanted to move in. I said I'll tell you tomorrow(which is today because it's 1AM). I obviously knows she is a gold digger but I've never had gold diggers move so fast. What do I do? Also any tips for the future so I can avoid this situation.
Don't do it.
Just politely tell her to fuck off.
How good is the sex? No wait, just say no. But if the sex is really good and she's a freak. Nevermind, just tell her to fuck off.
Don't walk, RUN.
To the bank ?
Every city has gold diggers, but LA is especially egregious. Tons of hot chicks who can't make it as a model or an actress and don't have the brains to work in a real job. Stay the fuck away.
Just say no.
Update: she's been in my apartment all day. I haven't come home in all day and I'm honestly panicking. I want to tell her to fuck off but I'm afraid she'll go ape shit on me. I don't have cameras in my apartment either so if she attacks me and I fight back I won't have any evidence. Help?!?!
Take her to a lunch/dinner at a diner and explain that she can't move in. Maybe give her a $100 or $200 to put her in a hotel room. It's expensive, but cut your losses and tear off the bandaid. Learn lesson for the future. I've had a lot more expensive lessons than that.
Why are you afraid of pissing off someone you've only known for one day? You will never see her again anyway.
She knows my address and phone number. I'm afraid she'll stalk me or something. Anyways I'm doing the date idea, it's scheduled for 8PM tonight.
Dude, tell her nicely that your lease doesn't allow it or something like that. If that doesn't work, just tell her she has to leave, no excuses needed. If she refuses or gets violent, walk outside and call the police. Inform them that there is a stranger in your house who refuses to leave. Too bad you don't live in Texas....
I would walk in with the police .. or have police waiting outside the door ,at least, so you have witnesses, just in case. Let us know that happened..
Is this a lesbian relationship or do you have any balls whatsoever?
Hope all went well tonight. Better not have brought her back....
Oh wow a bish had morning secks with you?? Definitely let her move in OP
Also let me know if you need your pink panties washed and folded
you must be trolling...
Laughing at the serious answers to this troll attempt.
check the lease agreement and bank balance of anyone you meet in a bar going forward..
Classic troll ... the virgin army will be captivated by this occurrence of morning sex
Hey Jack, she's not a gold digger, she's a mentally retarded chick! She should be doing the walk of shame instead of .. sigh!
lol
So how did this end?
Surely OP will deliver..
First off, we know you're bullshitting. There's no way that you were smart and capable enough to get where you are and you don't know how to handle this situation.
Even if you aren't trolling (which we all know you are) then the solution is obvious. I'd tell you to grab your balls but you obviously don't have any....so instead do what you need to do and tell her to leave. If she doesn't leave then it's too easy to call up LAPD and get her taken out.
Had something similar to this happen to a guy I know... Gotta be careful. In his case the girl got so mad she called the police and claimed he raped her. He was then arrested, stayed overnight in jail and it took about 2 days for her to finally say she was lying.... was a CRAZY situation....
Even if this is a troll, I want the resolution. My money is she went all "gone girl" on his ass.
Come on OP, bring it home with one last epic troll post finale.
Why do i get the feeling that the OP is either sitting in jail right now or his new roommate has him running errands? Either way, he cannot post here...
Before I start sorry for the wait; I've been really busy lately. I forgot about this post until today. Anyways I took Depository's advice and took her out to dinner. As soon as we sat down I just told her she is not moving in and we have no monogamous relationship. She stood up, took the small glass of water we had initially given to us, and splashed it in my face then walked out. I haven't seen or heard from her since.
Lesson learned. Looking back, I messed up even taking her back to my apartment. If I wanted to have sex I should have just taken her to a hotel. I feel like an idiot... pussy makes men do crazy things.
OP is a virgin
and marginally entertaining troll
popcorn.
How to spot a golddigger???! (Originally Posted: 01/14/2010)
ur pal PJC writing to you this late night asking about how he can avoid gold digging honies when he is big balling CEO banker of Pipernancial Technological Chang Partners. While I'm driving my 2012 Maserati (in 2011, beat that!) all around those hot Dorsia clubs in NYC I'd like to know how best to identify women who out for my currency.
So far tips I have gathered:
Help! Obviously this is a big problem for us bankers trying to fight off blood sucking money leeches. i want to keep up my fabulous lifestyle, is that too much to ask?
Bigger question is why you're posting on WSO at 4:30 am...
Hey man, you know if Pipernancial Technological Chang Partners is taking summers this year?
just dont use your business card which says analyst on that. can you still get women tho?
..you'll know she's a gold digger cuz she don't mess with no broke bro
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