What's an acceptable body count for women?

My personal tolerances:

If I'm hooking up with her: <50 (Don't want STIs, nor do I want to fuck a glorified warm hallway)


If I'm fucking her regularly without being emotionally involved: <20 (Disgusting to fuck a woman regularly who's ran through)


If I'm dating her short-mid term: <5 (Anything more and she's emotionally/physically damaged)


Long-term dating: <3 (MAXIMUM 2 exes before me, don't want to waste money on used merchandise)


Marriage: 0 (No sluts)

 
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it's kind of fucked up this is even an issue. 

assuming you work in IB, you live in the big city man. everybody here is a stranger in a strange land and there's no consequences since you don't know anyone. it's why by day someone can be a polished mckinsey consultant and by night do drugs and have sex with strangers (and continue to do this well into their 30s). urbanites are soulless bug people, and i think i am also succumbing to their environmental pollution here. i've done things that growing up would have been considered heinous. 

i'm not even shocked anymore when i meet some VP at an ad agency who tells me she's had three abortions, hooked up with several coworkers, and thinks drinking 5 days a week is normal.

"Work ethic, work ethic" - Vince Vaughn
 

urbanites are soulless bug people, and i think i am also succumbing to their environmental pollution here. i've done things that growing up would have been considered heinous. 
 

You weren’t a good Christian boy corrupted by evil “urbanite” whores.  You looked for casual sex and you *gasp found other people who have casual sex.  Stop blaming your lack of self control on others.

 

If a female had a high body count, how would you know?  Are you going to ask them for their count?  Women will probably exaggerate down while guys will probably exaggerate up.  

 

There's testing kits available nowadays that you can use by deep swabbing the vaginal cavity and it can approximate how many different sexual partner's DNA and protein remains are still in there (it stays there throughout a person's lifetime). 

 
j_castillo14

There's testing kits available nowadays that you can use by deep swabbing the vaginal cavity and it can approximate how many different sexual partner's DNA and protein remains are still in there (it stays there throughout a person's lifetime). 

Sure buddy

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j_castillo14

My personal tolerances:

If I'm hooking up with her: <50 (Don't want STIs, nor do I want to fuck a glorified warm hallway)

That's not how women work, my dude.

And as far as not getting an STI - wear a condom.  Easy peasy.

Such a disgusting show of hypocrisy.

 

For marriage, definitely 0 (aside from yourself) - some guys trying to clown that here but they all secretly prefer the girls with as close to 0 partners as possible. The issue is that (1) you can't make that preference known publicly or some guys/girls (see above) will screech and (2) girls aren't always honest about that number

The only way reason some guys screech about this is because they ended up with (or will end up with) girls with high body counts and need ways to rationalize it

 

If it's for a hookup, it doesn't really matter. For long term relationship, it should be 5 or under. Same thing for marriage but preferably closer to 0. I hold myself to those standards too though. Not tryna go over 5 because I feel like that's lack of self control and fucking anything that moves. Don't find it valuable to plow through endless amounts of women for just sex without any emotional connection. I try to stick to only relationships 

 

0 is way too stringent unless you’re very religious and you’re doing the save yourself for marriage route (know a guy who’s like this but has girls throwing themselves at him)

if not, 0 is just too hard. Cool if it happens but if not my rule of thumb is under 10, ideally under 5 for marriage. Hooking up, doesn’t matter 

 

“If you date someone who has a high body count it will be a bad relationship”

“It’s fine if you hook up with randoms”

Pick one and ONLY one.  

And now someone’s going to say that “biology” (found on some red pill site) means that men can hook up a lot but women can’t.

 

Men who have had lots of sexual partners are well-adjusted, outgoing people. Women who have had lots of sexual partners likely took payment for them, whether by social favors (social climbing), indirect monetary payment (getting access to parties/clubs/events), drugs (sex for cocaine), emotional payment (listening to her bitch for hours), which makes it trashy.

 

Guys saying they will marry a virgin is (typically) no different than a girl saying she will date a nice guy. How many of you would really turn down the slutty sorority smokeshow for a date when it’s clear she’s interested in you and then by extension marriage down the line? Those of you claim you have different standards for hookup/dating/marriage … lol either you’re lying to yourself or if serious that’s a recipe for disaster for your marriage. What makes you think 5 years into your marriage you won’t be playing the field again looking for a fun girl?

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That "slutty sorority smokeshow" might be fun to date, but she is literally going to run with my child and half my income approximately 72 days after I marry her right after she shits all over my bed.

 

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