How hard is it to come back to NYC once you leave?

I’m currently an Associate at a small real estate shop in NYC and may have the opportunity to lateral to a Top 50 REPE firm. The catch is that the roles showing the most interest are based outside of typical Tier 1 markets.

For those who have made a similar move: how difficult is it to return to NYC after leaving for a few years? Is it generally feasible if you’re gaining solid institutional experience, or does being outside a major market tend to make it harder to come back later?

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Making a move outside of NYC and then returning can be challenging but is generally feasible, especially if you're gaining strong institutional experience. Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some key considerations:

  1. Institutional Experience Matters: If the role at the Top 50 REPE firm offers clear advancement in terms of pay, title, responsibility, or firm prestige, it can outweigh the geographic factor. Employers in NYC will value the quality of your experience over location, provided you can demonstrate growth and success.

  2. Challenges of Returning: Being outside a Tier 1 market can make it harder to maintain NYC-specific networks and relationships, which are crucial for re-entry. Additionally, signaling disinterest in NYC by leaving could raise concerns for potential employers about your long-term commitment to the market.

  3. Networking is Key: To ease the transition back, maintain strong connections in NYC while you're away. Regular visits, attending industry events, and staying active in professional groups can help keep you on the radar of NYC-based firms.

  4. Avoid Lateral Moves: If you decide to leave NYC, ensure the new role is a clear step up. A lateral move or a downstep could make it harder to justify your return and may not look favorable on your resume.

  5. Timing and Market Conditions: The ease of returning can also depend on the state of the NYC real estate market when you're ready to come back. A strong market with high demand for talent will make the transition smoother.

In summary, leaving NYC for a strong institutional opportunity can be a smart career move, but you'll need to be strategic about maintaining your NYC connections and ensuring the new role is a clear advancement.

Sources: Anyone start in RE and end up leaving for another industry?, What is your compensation in Real Estate Finance?, Why You Should Leave NYC After Your Analyst Stint, https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forum/real-estate/when-is-a-move-not-a-lateral-move?customgpt=1, Why You Should Leave NYC After Your Analyst Stint

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If you are going to get quality, institutional level experience, you can find your way back to New York. Obviously if you are going to another market and only making connections and getting reps in that market, then moving back will be harder but not impossible. 

I would say it's harder to come into New York initially than it is to return, but both aren't easy and will require efforts to make it happen. You need to remember when you leave and want to come back, you will be competing with candidates who remained in the city, while getting the same institutional reps you got, except you are in another market. 

 

The guy from JLL is spot on, but I will add one crucial point about your technical development if you actually take the T2 job.

In NYC, a lot of associates at mega-funds get siloed. You end up just plugging standard market assumptions into a legacy template and passing it up the chain. If you go to a Top 50 shop in a secondary market, the margins are inherently tighter. You actually have to learn how to manufacture yield because you aren't getting bailed out by massive organic rent growth or extreme cap rate compression.

If you leave NYC, use those 2 to 3 years to become an absolute sniper on the granular deal mechanics that the NYC guys often gloss over.

Master complex debt structuring, nuanced GP/LP waterfalls, and aggressive tax optimization. For example, learn how to financially engineer a tight deal by underwriting the exact year-one tax benefits of a cost segregation study to boost your LP's after-tax IRR. When I am looking at a value-add acquisition, I will literally run the basis through free feasibility estimators from SMF Cost Segregation Advisors or RE Cost Seg before we even take it to the investment committee. Figuring out how to shelter a massive chunk of LP capital in year one can make a dead deal viable.

If you come back to NYC in three years and your interview narrative is, "I left to get hands-on reps at a Top 50 fund where I learned how to squeeze yield out of tight deals using tax and debt mechanics that generic NYC associates don't understand," no headhunter or MD is going to care that your desk was in Dallas or Atlanta for a few years.

Leave on good terms, keep your NYC network warm, and come back with a technical toolkit that makes you a clear hire over the local talent pool.

 

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