Ladies - Out of ideas
I been going out with my girl for a while now and I must ay she still floats my boat. But sometimes I dont understand her. I been working flat out the last few weeks. She comes around to my place and we hadnt seen eachother for about two weeks, so naturally she was missing my moves.
For the first time I was probably a bit too tired totired to give her a full service, still wanted my needs met though, but she had no idea and was expecting me to give her my a-game.
I decided to let her initiate everything and take charge for a change and lets just say she was quickly out of ideas. I give the girl a free ticket to do what she wants with me and she was out of ideas quick. Come on ladies you gotta have an A game too
But, I must admit, an A Game animal!
Maybe she's a receiver? I think because you let her do anything she wanted, she really didn't know to do. Look, if a guy is just sitting there doing nothing, then maybe she felt that she wasn't turning you on. Maybe she was lazy herself. Maybe she likes it when you take the lead. Who knows?
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She likes when i take the lead it kama sutra all night as i know which buttons to push. Dont get me wrong I shes good when we at it, just she didnt know what to do when she was given full control
WTH did you expect? If they weren't pressured/motivated/encouraged to do our nasty sex, then girls would choose to cuddle and whisper gossip to you.
Deadjackal
I agree with that but i'm sure there are things the women would like to do or have done to her. Normally she is quite good, when we change positions and shes on top, she not out of ideas, maybe the free ticket got her off guard. Good thing she didnt tart cuddling and gossiping.
Great post. Interesting dilemma indeed.
Good tip about ladies needing to have an A game. Hmmm... let me think about that for a second... I think I have an active imagination and I think I'm playful enough, so nope. Don't think I'd be caught off guard. At least I hope not. Yikes.
I think perhaps your girl was caught off guard and the sudden move by you to let her take charge probably caught her by surprise. Next time, try encouraging her in a more playful way. Actually, I find that hot dirty talk really helps in these situations :-)
Next time try leading her with some 'words of encouragement". Give her a head start... no pun intended. LOL!!
aadpepsi
Maybe she was caught f guard am sure you do have an a-game. I encoraged her, got her going first, then decided to lay back. But all she could do was feel me up kiss me and then go for it. She could have got away with anything at first i thought she might sit on my face and get the pleasure she wanted, looked like it but she just sat on me. It was her loss, will give her another opportunity next time am wacked, else its all me again.
Curious... just for argument's sake... maybe it was more flattering that she was novice and didn't know what to do when given full control. Perhaps if she knew what to do with full control, e.g. had she taken charge in this awesome, phenomenal way and her A game moves were new to you... wouldn't a part of you have been suspect as in "Damn, where'd she learn that? Who she been with? How come she's never done THAT before?"
Let's be frank... a woman would never exactly just sit on a man's face would she?
You gotta pump up the dirty talk to get the nasty to come out of your girl and then maybe she'll be less inhibited. I'm telling you, it works. In the end what you want her to do is essentially completely devour you, no? Lead her by the power of suggestion :-)
I wouldnt be curious where she learnt the moves, I wasnt exactly her first, as much as I would like to believe that I'm the only one, she did have a life before I came along. Well now I wont wonder where she learnt or been as she was not so forcefull and if she is next time after my prompting Ill know, I'm the only one whos got her going.
Im in there with the dirty little wispers and talk, I dont mind if she sat on me or not that was for her pleasure. I could do with her devouring me, I didnt think there was another level for me but this is a new challenge. Damn only if I was seeing her tonight. Probably see her on the wekend now. Will have to show her a good time on the weekend.
You could see her tonight. Work it. Figure out a way :-)
The power of suggestion provides lots of mileage... unfortunately I know just ONE person who had that A game down. It doesn't work with everyone. It only works with that special person who raptures your mind :-)
Good things come to those who wait. I can wait till friday/saturday. I got the A game down and she can be that special someone. I've thinking for a while and its about time she moved in. She been wanting me to ask her but I had to be sure and cant see why not. Her hot flat mate wont be happy, but hey I will be.
Oops. Dup.
Ah, the "next level". Sigh. Excellent news, happy for you :-)
I always root for Love.
Thanks aadpepsi, love well i suppose so. but moving in will mean an end to my fun and games. i cant have that, but her im willing too. It just dawned on me that I better stop checking out and flirting with other girls if she found out, it would ruin a good thing. Ill just have to be more careful. Not as if she a angel, I been on her facebook and theres this guy leaving her messages how he would lke to show her what she missing out on. Likes she missing on anything I got it all covered.
I hope I havent made a mistake. Met my girl on friday and asked her to move in. She cant wait says in about a month when she can move her stuff. She woke up in the morning with the biggest smile. She was making me beakfast and said what we doing today i said dont know about you but the footy and rugby is on so going to mates place etc. Shes like wouldnt u rather spend time with me.
In the end I had to take her out, missed the footie and came home to watch the rugby. Where she thought it would be a good idea for her to show me her new underwear. Is it some sort of a challenge for you chicks to get us into bed while sports are on. Does it make you feel like you achieved something. I told her she will be there after the game but there is so much a guy can resist.
Dont get me wrong its gonna be fun living with her but I hope I havent just dug myself into a hole where she expects me to spend every minute with her.
You're screwed random99. Your sport playing/watching days are over.
LOL! Nah, don't sweat it. It doesn't sound like an issue.
Listen, soon enough after she moves in and the practical side of matters takes over, she'll be ecstatic that you want to go to your mates place to watch a game because it means she'll have time to do all the weird shit all girls like to do in private, e.g. wax, shave, facials, manicure, pedicure, chat on the phone, shop, see a chick flick, etc.
Also... communication is key... next time considerig saying something like "Baby, I'm going to go to XXX's place to watch a game, but when I get back, you and I can (INSERT X-RATED STUFF HERE) etc." (Note: your hand on her ass while hugging her and saying this might be a good idea) That should get you a sport playing/watching, get out of jail free card. Hope this helps :-)
WHY DOESN'T EVERYBODY REALIZE THAT RANDOM99 IS A SMALL-PENISED VIRGIN AND A LIAR??
I'm sure Random99 is hung like a horse.
BTW, does your mother know you're online? Don't you have homework due tomorrow or something?
Good one, aadpepsi. You always had a rapier wit.
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