Threesomes are a real thing?

Sorry, I don't want to seem totally naïve, but are threesomes really a common thing? Thought that was only in porn, or at least not something you'd run into on a regular night out. I was out with friends at a club and this pretty attractive girl started speaking with me. Probably spoke for 20 minutes, and then she points at a guy across the bar and says it's her fiancé. Without hesitation she then asks if I'd be willing to go back to their place and have a threesome. She was dead serious, and perhaps needless to say, I was in shock. I told her it sounded interesting but I couldn't participate. We chatted for a while more and then I went back to hanging out with my friends. I was talking with an associate and told him about it, and he was like, ya, what's the big deal. He said he's ended up in threesomes on a couple occasions. Enlighten me please. Should I have done it? Anyone else experience this? How common is it? I suppose if it was with two girls, I might be all-in. Not sure having another dude involved would be my thing. 

 

What's wrong with that?  TBH I've only had a threesome with a girl once back in college.  It was OK.  Semi third wheel situations where the guys are dating and/or married make things a lot easier.  And no, none of them have ever entered my back end.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.
 
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Anything with over one M e.g. MMF MMMF MMMMMF, is just a gang bang.

Depends on who's bottoming.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.
 

I've never been in one but a lot of my friends have, some as early as middle school. Seems pretty common tbh, even if the majority haven't been in one.

One of my friends was even in a foursome with 3 women, in exchange for giving them weed. They were not prostitutes.

 

Depends on who's bottoming.

Just saying.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.
 

It wasn't a great neighborhood tbh. I was just saying on another thread how a random girl came up to me in the gym and asked to suck my dick in front of all my friends during my freshman year, but she was in seventh or eight grade I think.

It's only gotten worse since I left that place ...

 

I don't think they are common at all, the straight women I know are not willing to have sex with another woman. It is even more difficult if one girl and one boy are in a relationship, it is not a great starting point unless both are into that scenario.

However, I had one threesome a few years back with a girl I was seeing. She is bisexual and came up with the idea herself, I didn't suggest it. It was a better experience, but I would be careful if the existing relationship is on the rocks or somehow fragile. This situation may make things far worse than before. Or, in other couples, they may improve things...

 

Yeah for sure.

It’s weird as hell if you’re joining a couple and both of them aren’t 100% bought into the situation. Or if another girl is brought into a couple and the guy is clearly valuing / getting off more on the girl over his partner. 

Would not recommend. 

 

How did you have a conversation with a girl for more than 15 minutes? What did you even talk about?

 

It happens man.

Usually pretty opportunistic / spur of the moment kind of thing. You do get some of the “swinger” / “couple + 1” situations where it’s a bit more planned out (I.e. there are communities and events for that kind of stuff). 

Also sex parties are real too. Bit weird having sex in front of bunch of other people doing it but you get over it. Your John sometimes doesn’t want to play the first few times either lol.

Honestly prefer standard sex most times as you just focus on one person and it’s more intimate. But sometimes.. when you’re feeling it you just kind of go with the flow. 

 
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I turned down a double blowjob in or around the 9th grade because the two girls were very unattractive and I can see how that story could easily be embellished to make me look like a giga chad. I've come to realize, most sexual escapades that are bragged about online are with unattractive people. 

I think as a rule of thumb, threesomes with two fairly attractive (8/10 and above) girls that aren't hookers is pretty rare (unless you are famous) and I guess that's what most guys envision when they talk about threesomes.

Most of the people I know who have had casual FFM threesomes usually fail to mention they were with supermax bbw women and they'll use words like "thick" only for the truth to be revealed later via our circle. 

 

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