Am I ugly ?

I've been using dating apps since high school, but I've never had a girlfriend. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 23. I go for months without getting any matches, despite logging in every day and swiping right or liking pictures. The only hookups I've had were with girls I would be embarrassed to introduce to my friends or the public, except for one girl who had a thing for tall white guys. She ended up ghosting me after we were hooking up for about three months. She was probably the only girl I had any sort of "relationship" with, even though I only saw her after 11 pm at her place, in her bed lol. For context, I'm white, over 6 feet tall, played sports all my life, have a good personality, and can maintain a conversation. Should I just accept that I'm ugly? My current goal is to become rich because i feel that is the only way I could attract females.

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First of all, dating apps in the present day is not a place to meet girls for a relationships. Most of the accounts are bots/fake and the few that are real women are either promoting some content, want money, or just want to hookup. My friend found a tool on the dark-web for restaurant owners to buy that sets up fake profiles on dating apps, texts guys using AI, schedules dates in their restaurants, and obviously does not show up. Ending with a text, "you enjoy yourself" thus boosting business for the restaurant owner. 

Second, if you have a good personality, meet girls the more natural way. Strike up a converstaion at a coffee shop, or meet a girl at the library, or meet someone at a game, or wherever is appropriate depending on your hobbies. Strike up some converstaions and see where you go.

Third, if you play sports, I am assuming you are fit. Exercise always makes a person more attractive. So continue doing that.

Fourth, if you want to attract girls with money, they will be the same dating apps kind of girls who just want you money.

Lastly, ugly is a subjective term. You see a pretty girl walking with a ugly-looking guy all the time. Maybe he is sensitive or has other qualities that the girl finds attractive. So you gotta keep all these points in mind and find girls in a more natural - less digital - way.

And let's go from there.

 

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