British Culture and how to fit in
Started my SA recently at a BB/EB in London. Have gotten along well with the people on a more surface level but I don’t have too much in common with people here since I am an international from a third world country
To native Brits or others from similar backgrounds, do you have any advice to integrate more and fit in?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
To integrate and fit into British culture, especially in a professional setting like a BB/EB in London, here are some actionable tips based on the most helpful WSO content:
Engage in Social Activities:
London has a strong after-work drinking culture, which is a great way to bond with colleagues. While you don’t have to drink, joining for a few bevvies on a Thursday night can help you build social networks and connect with your team on a more personal level.
Find Common Interests:
Sports, especially football (soccer), is a big part of British culture. Following the Premier League or engaging in water-cooler sports talk can help you build rapport. If you play football or have an interest in it, that’s an easy way to connect.
Be Open to Diversity:
London is incredibly international, with over 50% of the city being foreign. This means you’ll find people from all walks of life. While Brits may have their own quirks, the work environment is generally relaxed, and humor is appreciated. Don’t be afraid to share a laugh or a joke (within professional boundaries).
Avoid Overthinking Networking:
Networking in the UK is less structured compared to the US. Focus on being genuine and approachable rather than over-preparing or micromanaging interactions. People value authenticity over rehearsed conversations.
Observe and Adapt:
Spend time observing how your colleagues interact, their mannerisms, and their approach to small talk or banter. Try to mirror these behaviors without overdoing it. This will help you feel more comfortable and blend in naturally.
Break Out of Your Comfort Zone:
Avoid sticking only to people from your own background or nationality. Ingratiate yourself with the broader group, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. This will help you overcome cultural barriers and make you more approachable.
Leverage Shared Experiences:
If you’re part of a graduate scheme or similar program, use that as a platform to connect with peers. Shared experiences like studying for exams or navigating the early stages of your career can be great conversation starters.
Be Patient:
London is a massive city with a unique culture. It can take 2-3 years to truly get a feel for the different areas and social dynamics. Give yourself time to adjust and find your place.
By following these tips, you’ll gradually find it easier to integrate and build meaningful connections with your colleagues and the broader British culture.
Sources: Working Abroad - Regrets/Benefits, Advice for London applicants, International Student - Chance of getting an IBD internship in London?, Advice for London applicants, How to fit in IB culture - advice needed
Step 1: use a hammer on your smile: you have to look like a brit.
Step 2: buy a big bag of limes (lemons will do in a pinch), and take these into the office in a big bucket. At your desk, peal the limes (or lemons, if in a pinch) and begin to suck on them. Do not break eye-contact with anyone while sucking on a lime (or lemon) because they can sense weakness and will knife you for your Rolex on your way home.
Step 3 (the most important one): by this point, the native brits will challenge your british-ness, and you need to meet this challenge head on. Take all the other an1s out to the bar and get shitfaced, then belt out the lyrics to Mr. Brightside at the top of you lungs. If you mess up even a single word to Mr. Brightside, you must—without saying anything—begin singing an Arctic Monkeys song, pre-AM of course.
Step 4 (optional): great everyone with either a very enthusiastic “God save the king and this harrowed isle, gov’na!” Or with a profanity strewn rant which includes the word “wanker”—or “wanka”, in you feel adventurous—and some mention of either Winston Churchill, the weather, or Arsenal fans.
Go to private school.
Be passive aggressive and you’ll fit right in.
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