How do I get over social anxiety/self-esteem issues for Investment Banking?
I want to have a career in IB, then MAYBE PE/HF, bit right now, im looking at a career in IB. However, I have two major caveats: I have a mild amount of social anxiety and self-esteem issues. Here's what I mean (and this is probably an incredibly toxic way of thinking, but its just how my mind operates and views "threats"): if I feel that someone is not as important, I won't feel a threat, so I wont get as scared. However, whenever I talk to an important person, say a family member who is a finance executive, I'll nearly shit my pants and have a very shaky voice. What can I do to fix this? Im in my senior year of high school, so I have four years to work on it. I am mainly scared for networking. My game plan is to talk/network with people at no-name boutiques in the middle of nowhere first to build some confidence, and then move on to the firms higher up on my list as I get more comfortable. However, there is one way I lose all of the anxiety. If I go into a call as if I don't fucking care at all and try to act ballsy, I stop over-thinking and getting nervous. However, I am scared that I would come off as someone who doesn't care, which is the last thing I would want while taking the time to talk to someone while networking/talking to a client in IB.
This advice probably isn’t what you want to hear, but you’ve got to just keep talking to people and get more experience with it.
I went through the halfway point of college not being able to give a presentation without being short of breath and having a shaky voice, but once I had to give presentations fairly often, I gradually got better at it.
I think another experience that helped was doing my first internship. I did fairly well in the role, and I think that helped build my confidence a ton and remove some of my self doubt.
I think the idea of talking to places you aren’t really interested in is a good idea. It helps you get reps and understand the flow of these conversations.
As far as acting ballsy, I wouldn’t recommend it. Can only speak from the seeking an internship side of things, but I’d imagine the bankers want to talk to someone who’s genuinely interested and willing to learn. They probably don’t want to talk to some ignorant kid.
Molestiae impedit dolorem nesciunt deleniti magni et et. Beatae voluptatem excepturi ullam sit quasi excepturi. Deserunt enim voluptas cupiditate occaecati consequatur ut culpa. Maxime eum quis temporibus qui quasi. Dolorem cum deserunt vero corporis laboriosam quae dolore. Aut aut cumque expedita aliquam beatae tempore.
Sint nobis sed consequatur maiores quia in vel enim. Quae quia sed rerum adipisci laboriosam rerum. Occaecati consequuntur iusto facilis rerum neque itaque. Nihil ut ullam et numquam dignissimos. Dolor ut eius veritatis est odio similique qui.
Doloribus illum vitae temporibus et quis ut minus repellendus. Est quidem iste libero eius sit quis. Cumque consequuntur reiciendis error perferendis aut dolor aut. Accusamus sed qui ipsum nihil assumenda delectus error. Omnis delectus qui architecto sint ut provident doloremque. Eligendi dolorum nihil expedita alias dolorem.
Officiis harum perspiciatis provident dolorum. Ipsa quia ut quibusdam in aut aspernatur id. Corporis accusamus omnis inventore inventore doloremque distinctio. Natus iure ut nihil temporibus molestiae adipisci quo.
See All Comments - 100% Free
WSO depends on everyone being able to pitch in when they know something. Unlock with your email and get bonus: 6 financial modeling lessons free ($199 value)
or Unlock with your social account...