Has anyone ever slid into the DM's of someone on LinkedIn and if you did how did it go. I'm not talking networking I'm talking taking them for drinks or maybe it starts as networking then turns to drinks. how did you pull it off. asking for a friend
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Based on the most helpful WSO content, sliding into LinkedIn DMs for something beyond networking can be tricky and requires a delicate approach. While LinkedIn is primarily a professional platform, there are ways to transition a conversation naturally if done respectfully and with tact. Here are some tips:
Start with Genuine Networking: Begin by reaching out with a professional tone. For example, comment on their career path, a shared interest, or a recent post they made. Keep it authentic and avoid coming across as overly casual or insincere.
Gauge Their Interest: Pay attention to their responses. If they seem engaged and the conversation flows well, you can subtly transition to a more casual tone. For instance, after discussing work or industry topics, you might say, "By the way, if you're ever up for grabbing a coffee or drink to chat more, let me know!"
Keep It Respectful: Always maintain professionalism, especially if the person is in the same industry or could be a future colleague. Avoid being too forward or making them uncomfortable.
Be Prepared for Rejection: Not everyone will be open to meeting outside of a professional context, and that's okay. Respect their boundaries and keep the interaction positive.
Remember, LinkedIn is primarily a professional networking tool, so any attempt to transition to a more casual interaction should be handled with care. If it doesn’t work out, don’t let it affect your professional demeanor.
Sources: The Best Networking, Cold Calling and Cold Emailing Posts on WSO, Cold email networking while employed?, Introverts Who Learned to be Successful Networkers?, How One Student Did Coffee Chats Right - Received Offer From A BB, Two Internships Later: What I wish I Knew While Recruiting! (Toronto)
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Bump, need the method. Game is game
women hate it dont do it
also easy way to end up on litquidity
Bro gatekeeping the method smh
no way the women know about litquidity
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