Adding Random Girls on Facebook - Advice? Cold networking
Hey I just added a girl on Facebook and she accepted...The problem is, we've never met.
I know this girl because I used to see her in my economics calsses and remember the professor calling her name. Months after the class, I typed her name on the search bar and added her.
Is there anyway I could try to meet up with her or message her without coming off as a creep.
This is kinda like cold networking in a sense.
Thoughts?
trololol
I'm actually serious, its also weird that she lives near me too. I might send a quick intro and try to set up coffee. Do I really come off as that pathetic where you think I'm trolling about my personal life...
maybe you should actually pay for a hooker
On a scale on 1 to 10, what is she ?
8-9 /10 in my opinion
so a 3/4 in my opinion?
so send her message....just say some BS like you saw her somewher few days ago wanted to say hi but you seem pressed for time or something. Then, meet her up for coffee or something. tried to cover mutual ground first.
I might say I've seen her from somewhere and we had mutual freinds. Then set something up. The problem with that is, she might wonder how I knew her name...
Should I private message or wall post? And should I start liking her pictures/comments
Congrats dude. Now you can stalk the hell out of her (I'm sure you already have). Like her pics dating back to when she first started using Facebook, so she knows it's real.
or just chat with her on fb. If you think it would be too weird, then add another random girl, perhaps a 5 or 6, and test out your chatting skills with them before aiming for your main target.
don't like her any of her stuff......that's creepy. Just send her message and say you know her name by being in a same class. tried to talk about mufual friend and things you guys might know. if she is not interested, she will prob. cut you off..meaning she will reply back to you in a terse manner. just give her sometime. maybe talk to her on fb once a week or two.
This thread is hilarious.
These.
OP, what happened with the friendzone --> dating? Based on your later threads, I'm assuming that crashed and burned?
I'm not pressing it because I can't put all my chips on one table. She's a great girl but I'm not going to ask her into a relationship. If anything happens in the future that's great but I'm focusing on my career, going out and meeting new people, and fostering relationships. I will still probably continue to see her to dinner or movies maybe like once a month just to catch up
I'm going to send her "Heyyyy, just wanted to say thank you :)" she says "For what?" I'll respond "For accepting my random freind request lol. You look familiar tho..Maybe I've seen you around?"
Don't say this. For the love of god, do not say this. Christ, is that how you network with potential employers?
Send her a message and be direct with everything. "Hey, whats up?" followed by a "you were in my economics class" and start talking about that class. Then bring up your mutual friends - hopefully they aren't as awkward as you, and she can actually start to give a shit who you are.
Next step is to make sure you guys meet in person in the near future - preferably with your mutual friend(s) there so it isn't awkward. This isn't 2003 and you aren't 12 - MSN relationships don't exit anymore. If you don't see an opportunity coming up to actually meet her in person, then stop messaging her until you do.
I just sent the "Heyy I wanted to " Couldn't send the Economics class intro because we never met and she would wonder how I knew her name
I cringe at the awkwardness that is spewed from every post you type. I don't know how people communicate on social media. But if someone sent me an email that said "heyyy, just wanted to say thank you" and proceed to explain their thankfulness is because I accepted a random friend request I would block them.
it can be done, unfortunately not by you.
I sent the Thank you line. She didn't respond yet or see it yet I think. I wait...
Potential FB message titles
"I wanna spank you" "Pour hot wax on my ass for $10?" "I've seen you naked" "I messaged your mom and dad asking how many children they'd like" "Wanna share pics?"
Either of those should warrant a first date.....with a large burly man in prison. Or heck, maybe you might even make it to Dateline!
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Steps to take: 1. Invite her to coffee 2. Meet her at coffee shop. 3. When she asks how you know her say, "I don't... maybe it's just fate." 4. Turn around and run head first into oncoming traffic. 5. ????? 6. Sex!
She actually responded well to the lines. Going to set up coffee.
Thanks WSO!!
let's get a ban on this guy whenever
If she invites you to coffee in the middle of the bus lane I highly suggest you accept.
This thread hurts to watch.. If you're a guy and use multiple letters on the end of words (i.e., "heyyyy"), you're a fairy.
UPDATE; She agrees to get coffee date. I need to set it up, she doesn't have texting (She says) so I have to contact her through Facebook apparently.
I also landed 3 numbers of Tinder today. Feels good bros.
I use multiple yyy's as a form of flirting.
I'm not socially retarded lol...I consider myself pretty sociable but never got past friendship to most girls. I've been studying a lot of PUA (Pick up artist) and going on dates via Tinder and OkCupid. Honestly more than getting laid I want to get a girlfriend and try to move into the city. This is all future talk tho.
pls go phaggot
I consider it a social exercise, I'm trying to go out and meet 2-3 new people a week. If nothing happens that's fine. I actually went out and met new people in the very least.
After all his awkward comments, he will be rolling dolo tonight.
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