Don’t be a slave to money!

I see a lot of posts all over social media about people getting crushed by cost of living (understandable), and not being able to afford to live correctly anymore, even with 100k+ salaries.

Context: I’m 21, I didn’t graduate from a top school, I don’t work in a big IB or PE division but in Asset Management industry, and I do Sales (which is very much overlooked). I like my job a lot, but realistically, and compare to other people on this platform, I don’t make a lot. My total comp in 2022- including eoy bonus and monthly commissions came to 60k (with 1 year of experience, straight out of Bachelor). I live in London, and although I understand the cost of living here is not as insane as other places like in the US, salaries being also lower makes the situation ~ equivalent.

Point is, I don’t find it hard to maintain a good lifestyle, even earning what I earn at the moment. It takes effort to manage your own money, but it’s doable. Almost everyone here is financially educated enough to create a budget, just do it for yourself too. Save where you can save- Bike to work if you can, meal prep, shop at cheaper supermarkets, don’t order UberEats, don’t get a brand new place every time your salary goes up, don’t buy a new suit if your old one is still fine, don’t spend 200 on a night out..

Not trying to sound like a dick at all, but all these small changes I believe can help you save a lot of money, which you can ultimately put aside or invest. With my current salary, and despite all economic factors, I still manage to go to the gym, have a girlfriend and take her on dates, go out with my friends for beers when I fancy a drink, and even enjoy the cheap weekend travels that Europe allows you to do.

Don’t be a slave to money, whether you’re a monkey or a gorilla ! 🍌

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How much is your rent?

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840 GBP (even with roommates) is an incredible price. In the US you’d be lucky to get anything decent for 2k  in NYC with roommates. And even in other tier 2 markets it’s almost impossible to find things that low in a safe neighborhood. 
 

I think your advice might just be coming from a situation that is more fortunate than the housing situation going on in US.

Edit: Wait this includes utilities also? Wow. Everything I mentioned above for US wouldn’t include utilities. 

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60k US or GBP

Call me a smartass (because it's what I live to strive for), but pretty sure "I live in London" and mentioning "Rent including bills + wifi comes to around 950£/month" makes me think OP is talking about GBP. You may be 2rigged2fail, but not 2rigged2beguile.

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After last year the difference is pretty minimal.

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The day I take advice from someone making 60k a year is never

 

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It is important to recognize that money is a tool, not a master. While it can provide us with the means to achieve our goals and fulfill our needs, it should not be the sole focus of our lives.

Being a slave to money means placing too much emphasis on accumulating wealth at the expense of our physical and emotional well-being, relationships, and values. This can lead to a life of stress, anxiety, and unhappiness.

To avoid being a slave to money, it is important to prioritize our values and goals. We should set financial goals that align with our values and focus on balancing our financial, personal, and social lives. We should also learn to live within our means and avoid unnecessary spending that could lead to debt and financial stress.

 

It is not without merit that you have articulated the notion that money ought to be regarded as a mere instrumentality, rather than an ultimate end unto itself. One must concede that the acquisition of monetary resources can indeed facilitate the realization of our objectives and the fulfillment of our needs. Nonetheless, it would be imprudent to allow such acquisition to eclipse all other aspects of our existence.

To be enslaved to money, in the strict sense of the term, signifies a myopic obsession with the accumulation of wealth, which disregards the profound impact it may have on our physical and emotional well-being, our personal relationships, and our most cherished values. Such an unmitigated preoccupation with material acquisition can engender a life of anxiety, stress, and spiritual emptiness.

If one is to extricate oneself from this ignoble predicament, one must devote concerted attention to the prioritization of one's values and aspirations. It is incumbent upon us to establish financial goals that harmonize with our most fundamental values, and to diligently strive to achieve them without jeopardizing our personal, social, or financial lives. To this end, it is critical to cultivate fiscal prudence, to eschew superfluous expenditures that may give rise to financial duress, and to live within our means.

May we all endeavor to foster a deeper appreciation of the relative worth of money in the overall scheme of our existence, and strive to uphold those values that transcend the exigencies of pecuniary concerns.

 

Whole point of this post was never to brag or be a smart-ass. I’m also not planning to forever earn why I earn now of course.

But in a context of recession like now, with a stressful environment (lay-offs, fear of conflicts, political tensions…), I don’t think it’s too much to try making an effort to put ourselves in situations of financial comfort rather than always living on the edge.

Yes it means sacrifice sometimes because consumption incentives are everywhere, but if you create a routine, and make sure you follow a budget, it’s possible.

 

Dude get a roommate if you're not married -especially if you're one of those always eating out types. You spend most of your time at work instants 12K+ a year in savings.

Don't spend money on stupid shit like Hermese shoe horns. Don't buy sports cars to sit in traffic all day.

 

Yes of course, fully aware that I’m not in the worst situation, specially with the background I have- no top school, didn’t go through a grad scheme and didn’t apply to a top AM company. I am definitely very lucky.

Was just trying to reflect on some people posting on here saying they struggled to maintain a decent lifestyle even with over 80k/year in London. I know every situation is different of course and this only relates to me. I will say tho, these tips can generally help people manage their finances a bit better, focusing on the essentials.

 

As said by someone before, not considering someone’s advice because they make less than you is a stupid argument. I also am not giving career advice but lifestyle recommendations. Applying them or not won’t change my life, but this platform is about helping each other, which is exactly what I’m doing.

 

Anyhow is your preference for not liking money and make every thing traded as butler.

I just find many are just not qualified for trading my contents and data, that’s it.

 

Agree to disagree.

At the end of the day, when "the bright lights of social media" get turned off:

It is all about the MONEY.

No one cares if you are good or bad. Hardworking of lazy.

The only universal "measurement of the human" is the amount you've got in your pocket.

(And then anyway - anything else is controlled by rich idiots playing gods that call themselves "Masters")

It is all about the MONEY.

But if anyone can prove me wrong:

I'm sure you have an idea of top 10 richest in the world

Let's turn it around:

How many people will die today, during a single day, from hunger?

Not that "you care and do something about it" but whether you at least know?

 

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