Help me figure out my parent's finances? (TQQQ question also)

Less glamorous than some of the $20m trust fund questions but I'm here (on a new account for 100% privacy) to ask for some help with my finances. This is a r/personalfinance kinda question but I see a lot of people give dumb advice there and my risk tolerance is a bit higher because I'm heading to a pretty high-paying career myself so I'd love to hear some WSO advice.

Background Details:

Me: Junior at target school heading to large UMM/MF PE fund (10 billion + latest fund).

Parent: A bit shy of 50 years old. Moving out of my home city for another job. Selling house worth ~275k. Income is 75-80k. Has about 100k in a 401k and 75k in additional investments/savings. Total net worth around $450k. 

To provide a bit of extra context around this; this parent is in an engineering profession, has an advanced degree, and is on a career path that should max out at 120-150k within the next 5 years. The reason their current pay is so low is because they were a stay-at-home parent for almost 20 years, and only started working ~3 years ago which made them restart at the bottom of the totem pole. Got taken advantage of in a divorce so don't have as much as you'd probably expect. I trust this person to save and be responsible with their money, which they 100% are. They are super frugal and saving like 10k a year already while maxing out their 401k as well in a low COL city. Their only financial mistake was raising me instead of working, and putting too much trust in their partner, which I don't fault them for.

I have full control over my parent's money. We have trust that goes both ways, and while they are great at not-spending, being frugal, etc,  they don't know anything about investing and stubbornly refuse to learn so I just do it. I am 100% voluntarily planning on financially supporting them if possible. Whenever I propose this they shut me down, because I imagine it must be embarrassing knowing your kid is going to have to support you financially and must be frustrating knowing that, but I personally realize (although they won't admit it yet), that the math doesn't check out without me supporting them so I'll likely do it anyways. Another thing to note is that I believe this person's wish is to retire abroad in their country of origin, where COL is much cheaper. You could live like a king while withdrawing 30k/year. I think this makes it a lot easier to plan for retirement. The fact that I will likely end up supporting them (and me being an only child) means that this money is as much mine as much as it theirs, so I am heavily personally invested in maximizing its future value, because its money that I won't spend later on and potentially some could be passed onto me later.

The Question: The only real question I guess I have is what to do with the cash we get from selling the house. Should be around ~260k net of fees. Do I just throw it all in SPY right now. The person still has ~15 years to retirement so technically the money should be safe there over a 15 year time period... right? 

Also, should I diversity their investments in any way (~$350k not including the 401K)?. RN all their money is in equities with a bit in fixed income. Like I'm not even sure what sort of additional risks would be worth taking. But investing in RE, angel investing groups, etc? I feel a bit aggressive with the risks I want to take, especially because taking risks with this money now could be really good for me in the long run, but I want to make sure I'm being safe as well.

Also, TQQQ? Should I just throw 10k into it and let it sit for a decade? I kinda got the idea from a WSO post a couple days ago so probably not the best idea but heres the logic: I view it as a OTM call option. If threw 10k into TQQQ 11 years ago at inception, it would be $1.8m now. While losing $10k is bad, it is not LIFECHANGING. On the other hand, getting $2m IS lifechanging. This is the idea. Thoughts?

Any other general advice for managing their money?

Comments (16)

Oct 30, 2021 - 5:24pm
thestandingcoin, what's your opinion? Comment below:

As someone who has been shadowing FAs, I would say up the fixed income. Yes the yield is trash but it is about safeguarding the money rather than getting return. I would say to about 35%.

Oct 30, 2021 - 6:24pm
FinKid39, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Thanks for the advice. I just feel like something like 35% is too much when you already don't have enough for retirement and in a future downtown I could always provide extra cash if needed.

Oct 30, 2021 - 5:29pm
2rigged2fail, what's your opinion? Comment below:

on the last point, past performance is not indicative of future results :) 

you should look at moonshare and put some cash in to PE funds. min investment is usually about $50k with ~15% annualised irr (from memory). 

Oct 30, 2021 - 6:26pm
FinKid39, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Yeah, that's why I'm just looking at it as a lottery ticket tbh. Like crypto with cash flows. Also, looked into Moonshare. It's a shame Americans can't participate.

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Oct 30, 2021 - 5:45pm
zeroebitda, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Go slightly more in FI. 20% at least would be a good hedge, especially publicly traded private credit funds like $BCSF can provided good and slightly uncorrelated results. US valuations are also a bit high so would diversify out of TQQQ and a bit into value/crypto. Best of luck!

Oct 30, 2021 - 6:29pm
FinKid39, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Thanks for the advice. I think I'm at around 10-15% FI right now so will look at increasing that. What do you think about emerging markets? And how would you diversify into crypto.

Oct 30, 2021 - 5:46pm
zeroebitda, what's your opinion? Comment below:

Go slightly more in FI. 20% at least would be a good hedge, especially publicly traded private credit funds like $BCSF can provided good and slightly uncorrelated results. US valuations are also a bit high so would diversify out of TQQQ and a bit into value/crypto. Best of luck!

  • Analyst 1 in AM - Equities
Oct 31, 2021 - 12:51am

My parents are in a similar liquid financial position (although maybe 500k more because they has not sold his home yet) although I do not manage their PA. What my dad has done has put about 30% each into SPY and various active bond fund/dividend etfs. He then put the remaining 40% across various etfs diversified across sectors/market cap/value/growth. It has performed quite well for him and he is comfortable because he is getting a well diversified portfolio. 

  • Analyst 2 in IB-M&A
Oct 31, 2021 - 6:58am

Yes, please YOLO your parents' money 100% into TQQQ and have fun explaining to them how they lost 80% during the next drawdown.

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Oct 31, 2021 - 4:02pm

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