Is this a big no-no?

Originally interned in consulting my junior summer but made me realize I wanted to really work in finance. Something my manager understood so I was able to make the jump to a BB. Had a massive crush on her throughout the summer (she was 28, I am 21). The office I interned in was my home city. I matched with her on tinder/hinge/bumble purely coincidentally (home rn for break and have not spoken to her since internship end) and she hit me up asking if I wanted to go grab a drink and catch up in a coming evening. Is it an absolute no-no if I go and flirt with her and see if something is there. We meshed really well in the summer and had a lot of similar interests and whatnot. At the same time, she is older and was my manager. If I was returning to the same firm, I would obviously not pursue something like this but was interested if WSO had any similar stories/advice. 

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Yeah no, sounds like your typical late night fantasy. No judging tho, Lord knows I lusted after some busty teachers and superiors once or twice. But try to keep that shizzle off WSO, my man.

...and the Truth shall set you free
 

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