Loosing sleep. Frustrated. Trying to strategize. Let's hash this out WSO.
It's 6.30.2022. What the fucks up people. Here we go:
I'm a mid-twenties guy in NYC who's doing very well career wise, have a reputation for being very charismatic, and have a "if you want it, go fucking get it attitude". I've been frequently told by the women I've been with I'm the most attractive/handsome man they've ever slept with or dated
As anyone who lives in NYC knows, the talent out here is ridiculous. I mean, if I step out of the office to get a coffee or some shit, I see perfectly attractive women left and right
I love to smile at people if we make eye contact regardless of trying to get laid. Spread the good vibes. Point is, I smile a lot at pretty girls and they tend to reciprocate
Upon reciprocation, I tend to introduce myself and start making conversation which usually goes quite well
- Almost every time I ask a girl for her number to take her out and get to know her, she gives it to me (that's not the problem)
- The problem is, a vast majority just don't respond. What the fuck.
- Normally I wouldn't give a shit, but I met this Mediterranean babe who was perfect yesterday and she's just not responding. I want to fix this recurring issue.
Given the assumptions laid out in the context, what are people's thoughts on the shocking frequency of a lack of response?
I'm going to spell this out, as a lot of low quality contributions are made on this site, but we're talking about someone who's very nice, warm, smooth talker, and just doesn't fuck up in that regard. Very respectful yet flirty.
I'm fine w/ rejection, just don't understanding y this keep happening. If I get the sense she's not interested or mildy so, I usually let it go w/o asking them out.
I only ask girls out if I get the sense that they are decently mature and willing to put themselves out there. You can tell when you run into a chick whose just been brainwashed into thinking 'men are x or y etc." I let those ones go fast.
My texts are very vanilla. "Hey good to meet, let me know if you're free x" etc. Shit like that. I don't get jiggy w/ it.
Let's work this deal out people. Would appreciate the thoughts.