How do you survive the tough weeks?
I’ve seen a number of good posts on here about how to survive the tough weeks/months as a banking analyst, and I’m wondering if anyone has advice for doing the same but as a PE associate.
I know a lot of it will be the same stuff but I feel there is some difference in terms of:
- Needing to put more thought into things rather than just turn comments, which is mentally exhausting
- Complete lack of downtime, i.e. no mid afternoon lull while waiting for comments
- Higher levels of responsibility (and therefore stress)
- Balancing other portco responsibilities and background work
- Generally having been in the workforce for longer, at the stage where you probably want to live life more etc
Grateful for any tips and advice from those who have lived through it.
Thanks in advance (and hang in there to anyone who’s searching this thread for the same advice)
Surviving tough weeks as a PE associate requires a mix of mental resilience, strategic time management, and self-care. Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some actionable tips tailored to your situation:
Acknowledge the Learning Curve
Prioritize and Delegate
Carve Out Downtime
Set Boundaries and Communicate
Focus on the Long Game
Explore Stress-Relief Strategies
Reassess Your Goals
Leverage Your Network
Remember, you're not alone in this. Many associates face similar struggles, and the key is to find strategies that work for you while keeping your long-term goals in mind. Hang in there!
Eat clean, get some amount of exercise in, defer as much work as you can to the next day to try and carve out time for sleep, do not drink during the week. The compounding effect of multiple all nighters will burn you out faster than anything else.
You need to eat clean (but still get calories in - vegetables and protein) and exercise a little bit to not feel like shit from sitting in one position for 18 hours straight.
One thing that also helped me, was to prioritize being clean - shaving, showering, makeup (for women), wearing nice clothes. There’s something psychologically powerful about appearing put together even when you might be falling apart inside.
Also plan and commit to doing something fun (no matter how small) over the weekend - you need to have something proximate and tangible to look forward to otherwise mental spiraling tends to take hold. The best things, in my experience, are physical activities like squash or basketball or rock climbing - something you do with other people and that lets you move your body. Drinks with other people in finance turns into a negativity fest, so I would avoid that as well.
Leave PE if it's too much for you. Banking analysts get help and sympathy because they have no choice but to grind it through and are often straight out of school with no resume to fall back on. If after 2+ grueling years of banking, you decided "hey I want something even more intense than this", then the fault is on you. There's a reason why you're being paid double what your analyst classmates who exited to corporate are making. You can't have it all ways.
Not sure where the value add is coming here man. The guy was just asking what's some advice to stay positive when you're getting crushed for weeks on end. Any of us even those who want to be in PE long term can get down after being crushed with no end in sight so again, where's the value add of a stupid comment like this except pushing someone down who's looking for a bit of positivity rn
Believe me I'm more sympathetic to the plight of junior finance professionals than anyone else, but OP made the conscious decision to go into PE after the grind of banking KNOWING that at BEST it will be a MARGINALLY better lifestyle. Sorry, but I'm not going to shed tears for PE associates who had a dozen other paths available to them and had corporates knocking on their door that they ignored for higher pay in PE. Do you think all the bankers who turned down $300K PE offers and went into corp dev, taking a 50% paycut, are all idiots and did it because they loved internal M&A? Get real
Make sure your partner cares/is sympathetic. If not they are prob not right person for you
Exercise. Eat well. Make sure to stay in touch with friends so you don’t lose friendships on other sude
Masturbate furiously
Preferably in the office as well
You quit now knowing there's no more money in looting companies and transferring value to GPs and LPs in a rising interest rate, low growth environment! You go and find a job at a firm that actually creates value for society.
like infra/energy pe?
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