I Did It Boys - Now How do I Play This Hand?

Gonna start off this post with a nice humblebrag - I secured a MF PE offer a couple weeks ago after a roughly 5 year journey through various finance roles (non-target —> corpdev —> shitty valuation boutique—> top MM IB). I’m straight buzzin with this outcome after enduring the doldrums of off-cycle recruiting for the past 9 months, but the question now becomes: how do I play this hand?

I am probably going to get promoted to associate in January 2024 at my IB, which entails a pretty fat signing bonus (with clawback), one month sabbatical, and base raise. My PE job isn’t supposed to start until later on in 2024, so realistically I have to stick it out here for a few more months.

My questions for you guys:

  1. How do I not get fucked over by the clawback?
  2. Should I tell my MD I’m leaving in my year end review?
  3. Should I ask my new job if I can start earlier to avoid the whole situation?
  4. Is it chill if I use the sabbatical time then dip a few months later?
  5. Anyone have a similar story?
  6. Is it worth trying to maximize what I can squeeze out of my current bank, or not worth the personal liability/destruction of relationships?

Appreciate the help fellas.

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Congrats on the offer and making it! I'm in a similar situation so following. Obviously it hasn't happened to me yet, but here's what I was initially thinking. Open to anyone's thoughts 

1. I've read that if the clawback is triggered in the same calendar year that you get the signing bonus (it sounds like you get the bonus in 2024 and have to pay it in late 2024), then your employer will send you an amended W-2 and it should clear things up. When clawbacks trigger the calendar year following receiving payment is when you can get fucked over

2. I don't think I'll tell my MD in my year end review coming up in a few months...I'm planning on doing really great work until I leave in less than a year and not outright coasting / pushing off all work. My thought is I wouldn't want them to not give me the aso bump / good bonus for it

3. I would think you should wait until you get the aso bump and do that for a few months (which it sounds like you're currently planning on)

4. It would leave a bad taste in people's mouth if you did the sabbatical...I have the same opportunity but won't take it. Again, I'm doing high quality work and trying to pull as least amount of late nights as possible

 

Congrats on the offer but:
Why in the world would you not take the sabbatical? It's earned time off and should not affect your relationships you've built unless the bank you're leaving is particularly toxic. Complete waste of an opportunity to decompress before starting the PE position which will be intense.

 

Yo yo, here’s update:

1. Did not take the sabbatical. In my associate promote contract there were stipulations around giving a few months notice and then not leaving for X amount of time after the sabbatical period. My spring was pretty light though, so not really complaining too much.

2. Declined the associate promote bonus. This is the biggest “what if” for me out of the whole process, but the clawbacks were so restrictive it did not seem worth risking it. If you do it the same way I did, just know that everyone will know something is up and you will get questioned a lot for “turning down free money” (it’s not actually free). It turns out that people don’t like it when you don’t fully buy into all of the banks “lock-ins” - who knew lol

3. Told my MD two weeks before I planned on leaving then took a bit of time off before. Didn’t want to be unemployed for 6-8 months if my MD decided to tell me to leave on the spot if I let him know in my January review

Overall I played it about as safe as I could have because I lack the spine to be a hero, however really didn’t want to end up fucking myself over in any sort of litigation going into a job I was legitimately excited about. My advice in any situation like this is to protect yourself and do what you think is best long term. Hope it’s helpful

 

Congrats, respect the journey. To help those in a similar position, can you give insight into how you prepared for the off cycle process? How much time did you allocate to what, were you spending an hour after work each day, etc.

 

Spent 3 months prepping before I even had a conversation with a headhunter. Wanted to get my modeling / technicals / behaviorals down cold before I interviewed. Just spent time on it when I could. When I had a couple hours of downtime I would build models. At night I would read through guides / write out my behaviorals. Probably about 5-20 hours per week of prep depending how busy I was. Should probably also note that I really didn’t know how to mode all that well beforehand so it took a reps to get the more complicated stuff down. I was very motivated at that point but recruiting does wear on your after your Nth rejection so you have to pace yourself. But who knows maybe you’ll land something your first try.

 

How did you go from MM IB to MF PE? Could you share what IB you’re at, WB/JEF/HL type place?

 

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