PIP'd HELP

Hi Everyone,

So I got PIP'd in June, for 90 days. I was told I was improving and so PIP extended for 30 more days. It is now January, and I have not heard back from HR or my boss (Team of 2...now 3, as a VP was hired above me).  My company has a reputation for churning employees (they leave) because of the pay, but I took it because I was laid off for 4 months from my last job.

As an aside, PIP was partly me and being with a SEVERE micromanaging boss. During this time I took my PIP seriously, and was even diagnosed with ADHD and started on adderal.  My performance was increased since I started taking my meds.

Anyone know what to do.  I recently got an offer at JPM/Citi/Wells as a PM in residential real estate, for 20% more than I currently make and a VP title(a step up).  Bonus unknown at the prospective new bank.  The new bank is in Jersey City, but I've been told it is on the business side..which leaves me confused.

I would rather stay at my job, but I think I saw a confidential posting on LinkedIn for a more junior position which I am 99% sure is with my company.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this. I would like to stay in CRE, but I need a job to pay bills

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I can't tell you what to do here - it sounds like you're not keen on it so you can either take it for 6 months to a year as a placeholder and start searching immediately, or risk waiting and trying to find another opportunity before you get the boot.

The latter is ideal if you can find another job fast enough (no need to explain why you're looking for a new role shortly after changing), but if you get the boot then you're in a tough spot.

What do you mean by the role is more on the "business side"? It's more relationship management/sales and less analytical? That's not necessarily a bad thing as long as you want to move back to a sourcing role after.

 

I'm sure there are companies out there than use PIPs as genuine tools of improvement, but most of the time they're just starting the paperwork to replace you. 

Go get yourself a company that appreciates you. 

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Doesn't matter. Far easier to get a job when you have one, than the opposite. Everything you are saying indicates to me that it's immanent, so I would honestly strike first in this case. It doesn't sound like a good fit for you even if you can stick around, and I feel like the daily dread, worry, and anxiety that comes from being in that type of situation isn't worth it. Better for you to leave on your terms and keep things mutually respectful, than to wait for it to get awkward and them fire you. No harm if you leave because it just simply wasn't a good fit, but being fired will make it much much tougher. 

 
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What's holding you back from joining the new firm . . is it the higher pay?  The promotion?  The non-toxic culture?  The fact that they're not about to fire you?  I know all of these things are concerning, but which is the one that's really causing hesitation?

 
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Firstly of all, wow and I am sorry to hear you are having a tough time. it is a first time I see so many PIP posts on this site, so clearly something is going on in the world.

You have mentioned that you have been diagnosed with an ADHD. Was this before or after the PIP? Did you tell your employer? This gives you a good negotiation position for the case, where they indeed trying to get rid of you. Namely, you would be able to claim a "discrimination arising as a result of disability" in case they try play games.

Should they indeed bully you around, even by gradually eroding your role with the new hire you have mentioned - secure the next gig and send your current employer a without prejudice letter offering them a solution to their problem: you will leave quietly in return for a settlement payment. It is not hostage situation but you are offering everyone a best deal including yourself. There is a less nuclear option by asking HR for their grievance policy and further raising one, which might give you a bit more time to secure next role, do background checks and a good way to prepare for a litigation.

If you do not have next role secured and they try to unfairly dismiss you then it would be much harder. You will need to instruct a solicitor to obtain an injunction against your employers actions.

Once again, you are an employee and you need to look out for your best interest. They gave you hard time, so don't let them get away with it.

 

Sorry to hear about your situation but in my experience, if you are PIP’d, it’s a sign you should take the other job that you were offered. You may have doubts about the new position but I can tell you that there will always be doubts on taking a new job. It’s a “risk” in a sense as it may not turn out exactly how you imagine it but not a large one. I think being versatile in one’s career is important and no career is a linear path. Take the offer, do the best job you can and revaluate in a year time frame. It’ll work out. 

 

Thank you to everyone who has given replies.  

Clearly I am not an idiot, and have been moving forward with the process with the other firm.

ONE LAST QUESTION, what should i do if i receive another offer from a firm while I am in my first week or two at citi. How does HR look at a resume which is slighly different, meaning that when i submitted it my "current job" was 2021- present. and when they background check it will be to 2023.  Should I be admiting to the potential other hiring manager that I am looking.  All they know if that I am interested in this other position, not that I have a time clock on my job here(potentially).

 

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